Ten years after graduating from high school, the party has almost become a bad student, why are the top students reluctant to participate
Ten years later, the high school graduation party was almost done"The world of poor births"Why don't Xueba want to participate?
The high school years are a time that many people will never forget, and during these three years, many students have gone through difficult years, but they have also left a deep mark on them. This stage marks the beginning of youth, and in the process of working together to get into the university, it also establishes precious friendships.
Especially after entering college, many people miss their high school days even more. Although university life is easier than high school, students come from all over the world, and after graduation, they can go their separate ways, and there is a certain sense of distance between them. College life is like a miniature society, and the interpersonal relationships are intricate, which makes many graduates miss high school life even more.
Ten years after the high school graduation party, it seems to have evolved"A world with bad grades"。When I was a student, I didn't think much about class reunions, I just got together to eat, drink and have fun. However, over time, especially ten years after graduating from high school, the people who attend the party have changed a lot.
Many people already have this feeling, ten years after graduating from high school, their careers and lives have gradually stabilized, and it seems that more people actively participate in class reunions"Poor students"Hierarchy. On the contrary, former high school students rarely show up and become the focus of discussion among their classmates.
This phenomenon is not accidental, and from secondary school onwards, student achievement has become a clear watershed. Students with poor grades may not be able to get into college, or they can only get into one junior college, while high school students mostly come out of college with two first-class or 985 grades, resulting in a clear difference in educational experience.
Those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to Zhu are red. After entering the university, the circle of classmates also revolves more around the same excellent students. Ten years later, it was difficult to find a common language with the poor students in the original class. On the other hand, students with equally good academic performance may have kept in touch privately for a long time and do not need to deliberately attend class reunions.
Another reason is that students are usually not from their hometowns. In the high school class, most of the students are from the same district. But after the college entrance examination, many students choose universities far from their hometowns, and after graduation, they can stay in their hometowns or go to more prosperous cities. Therefore, they naturally did not have time to go back to their hometown to attend class reunions.
In addition, high school students will also be divided into two categories after ten years, one is the students with outstanding grades and successful careers, and the other is the students who have embarked on the road to success through the civil service examination. However, over time, class reunions were gradually commercialized, and there was no shortage of stakeholders among them. This part of the successful class teacher may not be willing to be asked to do anything, so simply opt out.
On the other hand, boys who don't mix well enough may have face protection problems due to less than ideal development, and thus avoid attending parties. They are afraid of exposing their shortcomings at parties, so they try to avoid attending parties. That's why, many years after graduation, class reunions are almost complete"The world of bad students"Causes.
Friendships between high school students are built on a foundation of daily development, not just class reunions. The friendship of high school students is more valuable than the friendship of high school students. Even after graduating from university, they still have roots in their hometown. Most graduates tend to return to their hometowns after struggles, so high school friendships tend to stand the test of time, but they are also long-lasting and strong.
However, many middle school students are not aware of this. They mistakenly believe that college is the place to make more friends. It's true that college offers a great opportunity to expand your relationships, but when you graduate, those relationships can drift apart. Therefore, secondary school students should cherish the friendships in front of them.
The friendship of high school students is pure in nature. After all, it's easy to build deep friendships by taking classes in the same classroom and participating in the same school activities every day. As long as high school students manage to avoid being too selfish and understand each other, they will be able to find like-minded friends in the class. Especially for students with average grades, making friends with top students can help motivate them to study, improve their grades, and go to university together in the future.
The reason why high school friendship is called purity is because during the three years of high school, everyone worked hard for a common goal, like-minded, and formed a kind"Friendship"Spirit. This friendship is cultivated in the daily accumulation of high school life, and it is more precious than the deliberate acquaintance on campus. So, instead of relying on class reunions after graduation to maintain affection, it is better to carefully cultivate this beautiful friendship in high school life.
The purpose of the reunion was originally to maintain the relationship between classmates, but as time went on after graduation, some people were gradually influenced by the social climate, and the purpose of the party became more and more complicated. Some students want to make connections, while others are caught up in comparisons, so it's a good decision to opt out in this kind of gathering.
Class reunions should be a time for everyone to reminisce about their youth, reminisce about the past, and strengthen relationships. If the relationship is not normal, it is strange to organize a class reunion. Instead of having everyone smile and have their own thoughts, it's better to have a private party with a few high school sweethearts.
The author of this article does not intend to target or allude to any country, political system, organization, race, or individual. The above does not mean that the author endorses the laws, rules, opinions, actions contained in this article or is responsible for its authenticity. The author of this article is not responsible for any problems arising from the above or any related issues, and does not assume any direct or indirect legal responsibility.