In our lives, there is a kind of person who is kind-hearted and diligent, but often gets into trouble because he is not good at words. They are what we often call "honest people". Honest people are stupid and often don't say pretty things, but this doesn't mean that they have suffered all the "dumb losses". Today, let's take a look at how to help honest people learn to speak and no longer suffer dumb losses.
1. Be clear and avoid ambiguity.
Honest people often use vague language for fear of offending or being misunderstood. However, this vague way of expressing it can be misleading. Therefore, learn to express yourself clearly. When you need to make comments or suggestions, you may wish to express your thoughts directly, and try to express them in an objective and specific way.
2. Listen first, talk less and listen more.
Effective communication is not just about talking, it's about listening. When communicating with people, try to get them to talk more and listen to them yourself. By listening, you can better understand the other person's intentions and needs, so you can give a more accurate response. And this is a point that honest people often overlook.
3. Learn to express yourself tactfully.
While straightforward expressions are preferable in some cases, in many cases euphemisms are more considerate of the feelings of others. For example, when you need to criticize or disagree, you can affirm part of the other person's point of view or behavior before you put forward your own. In this way, you can not only express your own meaning, but also reduce the resistance of the other party.
4. Master non-verbal communication skills.
In addition to verbal language, non-verbal communication methods such as body language and facial expressions are also very important. A sincere smile and an affirmative look can effectively convey information and enhance communication. Therefore, honest people should also pay attention to the cultivation of non-verbal communication skills while learning speaking skills.
In short, speaking is an art, and even more so for honest people. Through the four methods of clear expression, listening first, euphemistic expression and mastering non-verbal communication skills, I believe that honest people will be able to improve their communication skills and no longer suffer dumb losses.