"Two pairs of shoes means that I wear one pair of shoes on each of my hands and feet. ”
"Being beautiful doesn't mean that I'm pretty, it's that I want to live pretty. ”
Short ** Main"A big beauty in two pairs of shoes"., which explains the origin of her nickname.
She calledDong Mingying, 36 years old, is a disabled person.
When she was one year old, she was unable to stand upright because of a high feverYou can only use your hands and feet to crawl on the ground.
Yet such a disabled person,became the mother of two daughters.
And lead the disabled friends to embark on the road of independent entrepreneurship.
Her optimism and tenacity have infected hundreds of thousands of people, and netizens affectionately call her"Crawling Mom".
Today, let's walk in together"Crawling mother" Dong Mingyingof inspirational life.
In 1985,An ordinary farmer family in Dahedong Village, Zhaoxian Town, Juxian County, Rizhao City, welcomed their second daughter.
She is Dong Mingying.
Dong Mingying has been beautiful since she was a child, ** white and clean, with a towering nose.
When he laughs, a pair of apricot eyes are bent into a small crescent moon, which is very flattering.
Her parents also love her very much, and hope that she will grow into a slim girl as soon as possible.
It's a pity that a high fever when she was 1 year old completely changed the trajectory of Dong Mingying's life.
At that time, she suddenly had a high fever, her little face was red, and her parents were so anxious that they took her to the village clinic to get fever-reducing injections.
Under the effect of the medicine, Dong Mingying subsided the fever and fell asleep, but the next day, her mother discovered the abnormality.
Dong Mingying, who had already learned to walk, couldn't "sit" anymore.
Putting her on the bed, her waist stepped forward like boneless, and her entire upper body lay on the bed.
At first, her parents thought she was weak due to a high fever, but after a month, her condition still did not improve.
Her parents took her around to seek medical treatment, but due to the limited medical conditions, the doctor did not check out the accuracy**, and only speculated that Dong Mingying wasBecause of high fever that leads to impaired nerve function.
The family of 4, which was full of laughter and laughter in the past, was suddenly shrouded in haze.
In those two years, his parents ran around and spent all their savings, but they still couldn't get the young Dong Mingying back on his feet, so he could only return home to recuperate.
Later, Dong Mingying's younger brother was born, and the family of four was promoted to five, and life became more and more stretched.
Later, my younger brother was able to run all over the yardDong Mingying could only get on all fours, and slowly crawled with his hands and feet.
This girl, who has loved to laugh since she was a child, has not been affected by her illness, even if she can only crawl, she is still happy and plays with her friends.
The daughter's laughter may be the only comfort for the parents.
Time passed, and in a blink of an eye, in 1992, 7-year-old Dong Mingying reached the age of going to school.
Seeing the children at the door of the house carrying their schoolbags and walking together, Dong Mingying's eyes showed a look of envy.
All said"The mother of the child is worried".
Although the school is only a few hundred meters away from home, Dong Mingying's parents have been unable to sleep for several nights because of whether to send their disabled daughter to school.
They are worried that their daughter will be bullied and ridiculed because of her health.
However, do you want your daughter to be like them?When a lifetime of "blindness"?
In the end, his parents still sent Dong Mingying to school.
After going to school,For the first time, Dong Mingying felt different from other children.
Watching the little girls of the same age jumping rubber bands and kicking sandbags, she could only sit on the ground and envy her.
At the same time, she cherishes the hard-won learning opportunities.
She knew that her enrollment would put a heavy burden on the family.
Every morning,Dong Mingying was carried to school by his mother.
After school at noon, her mother finished her farm work from the fields, carried her home from school, and then hurriedly cooked for the family of five.
After eating, carry her back to school.
Carry her back after school in the afternoon.
The cycle goes on and on, and it never stops.
Dong Mingying's sister is 2 years older than her, and later her sister"Take the initiative to ask for help"., Succeeding his mother, he carried his sister with his young body.
After my sister graduated from elementary school, Dong Mingying's younger brother took over"Relay the baton"., using the bicycle modified by her parents, pushes her to school every day.
Dong Mingying was on the back of his family and successfully completed 4 years of study.
And in the past 4 years, the "school bullying" that my mother has been worried about has never happened.
Most of the children in the school are from the same village and know each other.
No one laughed at Dong Mingying, and many classmates took the initiative to carry her to the toilet and played with her after class.
In the care of her family and the people around her, Dong Mingying is as optimistic and cheerful as ever.
Due to physical reasons and family difficulties, she dropped out of school after finishing the fourth grade of primary school, but she was very content.
After dropping out of school and staying at home, 11-year-old Dong Mingying was not idle.
Whenever she had time, she read the books that her sister and brother had eliminated.
Because she has been cared for by her family since she was a child, she doesn't want to be a burden to her family anymore.
She began to crawl to learn laundry and cooking.
Although the progress was slow, after many exercises, I did a decent job.
She also learned to do farm workShoes on both feet, "stepping" on a pair of slippers with both handsSkillfully weeding and picking in the field.
In her spare time, Dong Mingying took on all kinds of manual work to do at home, weaving flower baskets and processing lighters.
I can't earn a lot of money in a busy day, but Dong Mingying still says that:"I'm content, and I can earn a little bit. ”
A few years later, Dong Mingying became a big girl in her early 20s, not only able to take care of herself, but also became her mother's right-hand man.
Looking at her sensible and strong daughter, Dong Mingying's mother was both relieved and distressed.
If her daughter didn't have that illness, with her appearance and diligence, she was destined to find a good family.
But now, the daughter's marriage has made the mother worry again.
People in the village get married early, and young people in their early 20s usually decide on their family affairs early.
But Dong Mingying, under the matchmaker's Zhang Luo, kissed again and again, and each time it ended in failure.
The man even refuses the same thing:"The girl is indeed beautiful, but her legs are ......”
The daughter was rejected again and again, and the mother saw it in her eyes and felt pain in her heart.
She secretly said to her husband:"It's a big deal not to get married, I'll support her for the rest of my life. ”
However, at this moment, a man from a neighboring village ascended to the gate of Dong's house and expressed his desire to marry Dong Mingying.
His name is Feng Zhiyu, and he is a full 22 years older than Dong Mingying.
Feng Zhiyu is loyal, down-to-earth and capable, because there are 4 brothers in the family, life is tight, so he has not married until he is 46 years old.
Look at a man at this age who can be a father to his daughter,The Dong family's parents were the first to refuse.
Unexpectedly, Dong Mingying admired the other party's character very much and readily agreed.
She said to her parents
"Being a man can't just look at appearance, I'm not afraid of being old and poor, the key is that people can endure hardships, like I myself am disabled, can't I live a good life!”
Crossing the threshold of his parents, 24-year-old Dong Mingying married 46-year-old Feng Zhiyu and got by"Outside the male lead, inside the female lead".of married life.
Feng Zhiyu went out to work and handed over all the money he earned to his wife;
Dong Mingying took care of the housework at home and did some farm work within his ability.
Soon, her virtuous and capable completely conquered the villagers in the same village.
Speaking of Dong Mingying, everyone gave a thumbs up:
"She is only disabled, but she is not disabled, not only capable, but also has a good relationship with her neighbors and concubines. ”
In the first year of marriage, Dong Mingying became pregnant.
Even the doctors advised her to give up the baby.
After all, with her physical condition, not to mention the great risk of childbirth, she was pregnant in October alone, you have to endure unimaginable pain.
However, Dong Mingying resolutely refused to give up the opportunity to be a mother.
In 2009, she gave birth to her eldest daughter.
The arrival of her daughter filled the family with laughter and laughter, and also made Dong Mingying feel the happiness of being a mother.
In 2012, Dong Mingying, who was on all fours, once again endured the pain of being pregnant in OctoberGave birth to a little daughter.
Two daughters, born healthy and beautifulIt has played the intimate function of "little padded jacket" early.
They understand that their mother's difficulties are not easy, and they always do their best to help their mother do housework, and gather around her to chat with her.
All said"Raising children knows the kindness of their parents. ”
After becoming a mother, Dong Mingying became more aware of the hardships of her parents raising her back then.
As soon as she had time, she took her two daughters to her parents' houseHelp my mother with laundry and cooking.
Watching her two daughters grow up, Dong Mingying felt worried in her heart.
Her husband is old and can no longer do heavy physical work, and although she does manual work at home, her income is meager.
What should I use to pay for my daughters' school fees in the future?
Just as Dong Mingying was meditating, her concerns were quickly dispelled.
After the local Disabled Persons' Federation department learned of Dong Mingying's situation, it took the initiative to come to the doorhelped their family apply for subsistence allowance, and also provided school subsidies for their two daughters.
Well-wishers in the society also came to the door one after another to help Dong MingyingA set of low cooktops was tailor-madeIn the future, she will never have to step on the bench to cook again.
* and the help of well-wishers, which made Dong Mingying grateful.
However, for the first time in her life, she had "discontentment".
Why can't I be like them, self-reliant and help others at the same time?
As the saying goes,"If you don't forget, you will remember".
Just when Dong Mingying was thinking about how to reduce the burden on the family, her younger siblings posted her short ** of "crawling" doing housework on the Internet.
Unexpectedly, "one stone stirs up a thousand waves", which attracted countless netizens to praise it.
Everyone was impressed by her self-reliance and tenacity, and became curious about her life.
With the encouragement of relatives and friends, Dong Mingying opened a short ** account.
She gave herself an interesting screen name:"A big beauty in two pairs of shoes".The implication is to live beautifully.
After having an account, she began to share her daily life on the Internet.
He also used his free time in the afternoon and evening to start live broadcasts, chat with netizens, and sing.
Dong Mingying in *, beautiful and optimistic, her smile has infected countless people.
In just 2 years, Dong Mingying's account has accumulatedMore than 200,000A fan of someone.
During this period, Dong Mingying declined donations from countless well-wishers.
She said"I have been helped by the Disabled Persons' Federation and am very content with my current life. There are a lot of people who really need help compared to me. ”
A year ago, Dong Mingying was there"Ju County Self-improvement Volunteer Association".A live broadcast promotion station has been set up to help more disabled people increase their income through e-commerce live broadcasts.
Dong Mingying, as a representative, went to other places to study a short ** live broadcast, and came back to share it with more disabled friends.
Since then, she has become a member of the live streaming army.
Unlike other Internet celebrities, Dong Mingying sells mostlyHandmade knittings, calligraphy and paintings by the disabled, as wellProduce grown by local villagers.
Although the profit is not high and the income is not much, Dong Mingying once again expressed contentment.
In her opinion, it is a meaningful thing to not only improve the living conditions of her own family, but also increase the income of her disabled friends and fellow villagers.
Today, Dong Mingying's life is busier than before.
She not only has to take care of the children and mother, but also shoots, does live broadcasts, packs and ships.
Even her elderly husband was called home by her to give her a "hand".
Outside of work, Dong Mingying is not idle.
In order to make it easier for her to move around, she bought an electric wheelchair and went to the welfare department with her disabled friends to do public welfare, visit more disabled people, and bring them encouragement.
Dong Mingying is like a light that illuminates herself and warms everyone around her.
In the eyes of her husband and daughter, she isKnowledgeable, beautiful and capableA good wife, a good mother;
In the eyes of her mother, she wasFilial piety and sensibilityGood daughter;
In the eyes of her friends, she isOptimistic and cheerful's "spokesperson", exuding energy all over his body.
At this moment, I also hope that Dong Mingying's experience can also inspire you who are reading this article.
"Man can be defeated, but he must not be defeated. ”
Unfortunate such as Dong Mingying, physically disabled, even walking normally is a luxury.
But she always held it in her arms"Contentment".4 words, bravely face life, but also harvest a happy life.
I believe that you and I can also bloom into a brilliant life with hard work.