When the audience saw the incompatibility between Comrade Cao Xinmei, a "great, kind, and super happy" mother and the grumpy daughter-in-law Ms. Edamame Doudou in "The Beautiful Times of Daughter-in-law", they all felt a headache for their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.
Bai Han and Haiqing are not incompatible, on the contrary, they can be called "New Year's friends", they can talk about everything, and even leave the spotlight without barriers.
Many people think that the entertainment industry is a vanity fair that lacks sincere feelings, but there are always some exceptions.
Haiqing promised at the funeral after the death of Teacher Bai Han: "Teacher Bai Han, your child is my younger brother. ”
Over the years, Haiqing has been taking care of Han Qing, her "younger brother", and for her, Bai Han is not only a teacher, a friend, but also a relative.
This kind of dedication and emotion, everyone can't help but admire.
Nanjing's famous art family, Haiqing was born in 1977, her "uncle" is the first generation of Chinese national master Gan Tao, such a family has made Haiqing contact with art since he was a child and showed considerable artistic talent.
She is comfortable with singing, dancing and other forms of performance, only 7 years old began to get involved in the field of TV dramas, at the age of 17 she said goodbye to campus life, transferred to the opera house, at the age of 20, she was admitted to the ** Drama Academy and Beijing Film Academy at the same time.
Her excellent grades opened the door to Nortel for her and became a proud student of Huang Lei.
After graduating from Nortel, she ushered in her first opportunity to perform as a heroine, and her life has been smooth sailing since then.
However, the life of her "mother-in-law" Bai Han is completely different from Haiqing.
Bai Han was born in 1956 in a small hutong in Beijing. In her early childhood, her father died and her mother committed suicide.
At the age of 16, she began to work in the power supply bureau without relying on it. Until 1978, she was admitted to Chinese opera as a tragic actor, but because she had no background, she could only make a living by playing some small roles.
Her career is in a depression, and her life is even more miserable. At the age of 25, she married an unsuitable person and gave birth to her son Han Qing, and after the divorce, she raised the children alone, and they depended on each other.
At the age of 40, she finally found her true love. I thought that this happiness would last long, but fate played an unpredictable joke. Her husband Han Xiaolei died of heart failure, and he was separated from his lover overnight.
She lost her mother at an early age and her husband in middle age, but these experiences did not give her back, and she remained determined to live and devote herself to acting.
In 2010, Bai Han and Haiqing co-starred in "The Beautiful Times of Daughter-in-law", in which the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law caused a sensation.
Haiqing also said that for her performance in the role, she believes that only Mr. Bai Han can be qualified for this role, and others cannot compare with it.
The two are swords-wrenching in dramas, and in real life, they always talk about everything. They often lament why they couldn't have met each other's confidants earlier.
Teacher Bai Han often sighed because of their relationship: "If we can, next time we can try to play the role of mother and daughter in our true colors." ”
Well, I can't ask for it. Haiqing replied with a smile.
Haiqing said with a smile that when she and another actor were nominated for Best Actress in Magnolia at the same time: "This award should go to my mother." ”
After hearing this, the staff couldn't help but sigh: "You are like the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the TV series, the mother and daughter in real life." ”
They are like best friends in life, when the two are free from filming, Haiqing will visit Mr. Bai Han, share food together, talk about their difficulties in acting, and plan to travel together.
Bai Han said: "I want to go to Sichuan to see the giant pandas. ”
Haiqing said that she just wanted to go to Mount Emei and suggested that we go climbing the mountain together.
Two like-minded people, suddenly decide to go on an impromptu trip.
The age difference between the two is 20 years, but they have become closer after their trip to Sichuan and may travel together again.
However, bad news always comes unexpectedly. In July 2010, when the crew was preparing to shoot a movie, Mr. Bai Han suddenly announced his withdrawal. It turned out that Mr. Bai Han was found to have a tumor and had to be admitted to the hospital for **.
After Haiqing received the news, he immediately stopped the work at hand and hurried to the hospital.
When Haiqing rushed to the hospital, he found that Bai Han was still thinking about his script on the hospital bed. Seeing her coming, Bai Han said, "Why are you so nervous?".It's just a minor ailment. The doctor said that I would be discharged from the hospital in a few days, and I had to go back to acting. ”
However, she didn't know that the disease was almost impossible, and everyone chose to hide it from her.
She rejected everyone's requests to visit, leaving Haiqing alone: "I don't want to see too many people here, I just want to chat with you." ”
She held Haiqing's hand and said, "Do you think it's strange?."In the past, when I was filming, I always thought that I could rest for a while after filming this film, but now that I am lying here, I am more eager to act. It seems that I still miss the crew life a little bit, the feeling of being full and busy. ”
Haiqing said: "You have a good rest and recuperation first, and when your body is **, I will take you to join the group." ”
Bai Han smiled and nodded, Haiqing looked at Teacher Bai Han, her eyes were full of desire to perform.
Haiqing has been accompanying Bai Han, and Bai Han actively cooperates with the hospital's ** every day, and Haiqing even canceled all activities.
Bai Han's body gradually **, Haiqing took him to the filming scene as agreed, she sat quietly, without saying a word.
After returning home in the evening, she told Haiqing: "Today I went to the crew to watch them act, and I kept thinking that if I met director Ang Lee, if he asked me to play a cancer patient, I think I would perform naturally." ”
Haiqing listened to Bai Han's nagging, her eyes flushed, and she really began to try to contact Director Ang Lee.
She asked about the actors and directors she knew, but eventually had to ask her friends for help.
Before she could contact Director Ang Lee, she received Han Qing's **: Sister Haiqing, the hospital sent a critical illness notice, can you come to the hospital to see my mother?”
Haiqing heard the sobbing sound of Han Qing on the other head, as if her heart had been hollowed out, she couldn't believe that this day had come so suddenly, giving her a feeling of powerlessness to deal with it.
Haiqing hurriedly drove to the hospital, and there were only two people in the ward, one was Bai Han, Haiqing's best friend he had known since childhood, and the other was Haiqing himself.
Bai Han looked at Haiqing's panicked expression and understood that his condition was not optimistic.
Still smiling, she said nonchalantly, "Look, I tie this blood pressure band around my arm, like an armband?"”
After Fa Xiao left, Bai Han said: "Actually, I only have two regrets, one is that I am afraid that I will never have a chance to act in the future, and the other is my son." ”
He lacked too much to me, I failed to make him feel fatherly love when I was a child, and I was often busy filming and couldn't be by his side often. Now that he has just gotten married, I have not yet seen his child born, and I have regrets about all this.
Haiqing said with tears in her eyes: "I will take care of Han Qing for you, and from now on he will be like my own brother." ”
Mr. Bai Han passed away at 9:57 p.m. on February 19, 2012 at the age of 56.
Haiqing accompanied Bai Han through the last moments of his life, except for Bai Han's relatives, she was the only one in the room who was always by his side.
She lay on the edge of the bed crying silently and said, "It's because I don't have the ability to contact Director Ang Lee, and I can't realize your wish." ”
At the funeral, Shanghai Qing silently held the posthumous photo of Mr. Bai Han, ignored the reporter's interview, and even hung up all the **.
She had lost her best friend due to the departure of Mr. Bai Han, and it took a while for her to calm down, and she was even more reluctant to accept any interviews.
Haiqing donated his body to a medical institution in accordance with Mr. Bai Han's last wishes. In the face of doubts from the outside world, she simply said: "Mr. Bai Han's contribution to the medical cause is worthy of our respect." ”
She said afterwards: "When she was sober, Bai Han expressed the idea that she wanted to be respected when she died, and since there was no hope of survival, she would donate her body to someone in need."
Mr. Bai Han hopes that his body can help more sick people and save more lives. ”
After hearing these words, Han Qing's son finally understood his mother's intentions, and in order to commemorate her, he decided to change his name to Han Qing.
Han Qing felt a heavy blow to Bai Han's death, she grew up with her mother since she was a child, and it was difficult to accept the fact that her mother had passed away, and she couldn't stop crying all day long.
Haiqing said: "Your mother and I are the best friends, so from now on I will be your relatives." You can treat me as an extra sister, and I will take care of you like my own brother. ”
The two hugged each other, and their feelings transcended blood, after saying this.
In order to help Han Qing get out of his grief as soon as possible, Haiqing will take him out to relax, but it doesn't seem to have obvious results.
Haiqing decided to start an in-depth conversation with him, and she faithfully recounted the guilt that Teacher Bai Han had told her about her son. Then she said, "You don't know, when your mother died, she was most concerned about you.
She feels guilty for being sorry for you, and she hopes that you will be able to live happily even without her by your side, instead of being haunted by the shadows of the past. ”
Han Qing burst into tears when he heard this, he said: "I have never blamed her, I feel that what she has given me is already the best in the world, I am not much less than others, I will live well." ”
The two sat down and talked for a long time, and this conversation made Han Qing release the grief in his heart. He told Haiqing: "I am very grateful that you accompanied my mother in the last moments of her life and took care of me like a relative. From now on, we are family. ”
They looked at each other and smiled, and these two unrelated people vividly demonstrated the true meaning of family affection through their actions.
Subsequently, Haiqing received ** from the program team and asked her to receive the award she won before her death on behalf of Teacher Bai Han. At first, the program team didn't plan to let Han Qing accept the award, because they thought Han Qing was a little-known young actor and thought that he was not eligible to accept the award.
Haiqing insisted that Han Qing must be taken with him, and said: "I hope that Han Qing will personally feel the honor of her mother during her lifetime, and she will be proud of her mother." ”
Qinghai stood on the podium and watched Han Qing deliver an acceptance speech on behalf of his mother, with a smile on his face. Maybe she saw the shadow of Teacher Bai Han in Han Qing's body.
Although Han Qing is an actor, due to his ordinary appearance, he has only been able to play some minor roles, and he has worked hard in the entertainment industry for many years, but he still has not become a well-known face.
In his free time, Haiqing's role as a "sister" will personally teach Han Qing some acting skills and take him to the crew to participate in performances to hone his acting skills. Under Haiqing's guidance, Han Qing's acting skills have made great progress, and he has gradually gained more performance opportunities.
Haiqing will privately help Han Qing win some opportunities, and she will also arrange a dinner to introduce Han Qing to the director and producer.
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Han Qing showed a refreshing demeanor in acting, getting rid of his previous jerky acting skills, and now he looks a bit tougher. All these growth are indispensable to Haiqing's careful guidance.
Now, Haiqing is no longer a "national daughter-in-law", but has switched to revolutionary dramas, and her acting skills have become extremely exquisite.
Haiqing has made great contributions, watching the "sister and brother" grow together in the entertainment industry.
Haiqing still sheds tears when she mentions Teacher Bai Han now, and for her, not being able to help Teacher Bai Han realize her desire to act has always been a pain in her heart.
She treats Han Qing wholeheartedly, even though the two are not related by blood, this quality of affection and righteousness is already rare in the world.
Han Qing was deeply moved, because there was a "sister" who cared for her.
Blood relationship cannot be the standard for measuring family affection, and those who truly regard you as family are the most cherished.
Teacher Bai Han has been dead for nearly ten years, and Haiqing is still fulfilling her promise to Teacher Bai Han.
She has always adhered to this saying: "He will be my own brother from now on." ”
What deserves our praise is Haiqing's kindness and sincerity. Haiqing