Carnegie: The more cold-blooded, decisive, and unruly you are, the more people appreciate you
Dale Carnegie once said, "The more cold-blooded, decisive, and unobtrusive you are, the more people appreciate you." At first glance, this sentence seems quite controversial. In our traditional concept, cold-bloodedness and decisiveness are often seen as synonymous with ruthlessness and ruthlessness, while procrastination is seen as a sign of indecision and lack of decision. Carnegie's words, however, seem to be subverting our perceptions. So, what exactly is he trying to express?
First of all, we have to think about the word "cold-blooded". In Carnegie's words, "cold-blooded" does not refer to being cold and heartless to others, but to a calm, rational attitude. In the face of various challenges and dilemmas in life, we need to keep a calm heart, not to be swayed by emotions, not to be affected by external interference. Only then can we make informed decisions and not be driven by impulsiveness and blindness. This calm and rational attitude not only helps us to cope better with life's challenges, but also earns the respect and trust of others.
Second, "decisiveness" and "not procrastinating" emphasize the importance and efficiency of decision-making. In a fast-paced society, opportunities and challenges are often fleeting. If we hesitate and procrastinate, we are likely to miss out on opportunities and even get into trouble. Therefore, decisive decision-making and efficient action are crucial. Only in this way can we seize the opportunities, meet the challenges and move towards success. And this kind of decisiveness and efficiency is also the quality of many successful people.
So, why is it that the more cold-blooded, decisive, and non-dragging people are, the more people appreciate them?This may be because such people often have a unique charm. They are able to deal with challenges calmly and not be swayed by emotions;They are able to make decisions decisively, without hesitation or delay;They are able to act efficiently to seize opportunities and succeed. This charisma comes not only from their abilities, but also from their attitude and qualities.
However, we must also realize that being cold-blooded, decisive, and not dragging our feet does not mean being ruthless and unjust. We still need to take into account the feelings and interests of others when making decisions. We cannot harm others for our own benefit, let alone do anything to achieve success. Truly successful people are often those who are able to pursue their personal goals while taking into account the interests of others.
In addition, we need to recognize that everyone has their own values and lifestyle. Some people may be more inclined to deal with problems rationally and calmly, while others are more inclined to express emotions emotionally. No matter which way it is, as long as it can adapt to the needs of one's life and work, it is worthy of respect and affirmation. Therefore, we should not blindly pursue the so-called "success quality", but should develop and improve our abilities according to our actual situation and needs.
To sum up, Carnegie's words remind us to stay calm and rational, make decisions decisively, and act efficiently;At the same time, it is important to realize that true achievers are often those who are able to take into account the interests of others while pursuing their personal goals. We should respect and appreciate different people and their values and lifestyles, and at the same time, we should develop and improve our abilities according to our actual situation and needs.
On the road to success and growth, let's keep a calm and rational heart;Decisive and efficient action to meet the challenge;At the same time, we do not forget to care for others and pay attention to social responsibilityWith such an attitude and quality, we should shape the value of our life. In this world full of opportunities and challenges, let's work together to become a better version of ourselves.