Title The arrival of my sister-in-law revealed the secret that I hadn't tasted goose eggs for three years
My mom plays with my back every day, I'm fed up!"My voice was filled with resentment and anger.
What are you talking nonsense about here?Did my mom *** offend you?My husband's tone was clearly impatient, and his attitude seemed to challenge my bottom line.
Nonsense?You know those harsh words she says to me every day, how do I endure that look?"I was almost mad and felt like I was completely neglected.
Oh, don't talk nonsense, my mom is that kind of person, don't be too sensitive. ”
My husband's words deny almost all my feelings.
Sensitive?Have you ever thought about it for me?Do you see all the grievances I have suffered in your house?My voice grew louder and louder, and anger burned in my chest.
Our quarrel grew more and more intense, and I felt a deep sense of helplessness and resentment.
My husband never seemed to understand my feelings about my mother-in-law's troubles.
My marriage with my husband was not based on deep affection.
We met on a blind date, and life after marriage was more like completing tasks.
What pained me the most was my mother-in-law's attitude.
She never really accepted me, and she always made things difficult for me in the little things in life.
Every time I do housework, my mother-in-law always has an opinion, and every look in her eyes seems to say, "You are not good enough." ”
When I tried to communicate with her, she was always perfunctory and even dismissive.
She always accused me secretly and made me feel out of place in this family.
These trivial conflicts caused the relationship between me and my husband to become more and more strained.
I felt that my efforts had never been recognized by my mother-in-law, and even my husband began to doubt me.
Gradually, I felt like an outsider in this home, not understood, not respected.
A typical example of this is the five big white geese about the mother-in-law.
Whenever I think of those five geese, my heart feels like a needle prick.
I've been married for three years, and my mother-in-law's geese have laid countless eggs, but I haven't eaten any of them.
These five geese are my mother-in-law's sweethearts, and I can't help but wonder, after three years of marriage, I haven't even eaten a goose egg?This matter is like a thorn in my heart, and the more I think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes.
It wasn't until my sister-in-law came that I fully understood where those eggs had gone.
That day, the sun was shining and I was busy in the kitchen when I suddenly heard a sound outside the door.
Turning his head, he saw his sister-in-law standing at the door with the smiling face of the child.
I was upset because I knew it wasn't going to be a good thing.
Sister, I'm here to see you!"My sister-in-law's voice is always so sharp and harsh.
I barely managed to squeeze out a smile and welcomed her into the house.
It didn't take long for the mother-in-law to happily come from the backyard with a basket of goose eggs in her hand.
I was stunned for a moment, my heart aching.
Those white goose eggs, three years of marriage, have never eaten any of them.
That's a lot of goose eggs!The sister-in-law praised and couldn't wait to take the goose egg.
My little treasure likes to eat goose eggs the most, thank you Mom!"It turns out that over the years, all the goose eggs raised by my mother-in-law have been taken away by my sister-in-law.
I felt like a transparent person in the family who was never really valued.
I couldn't help but be angry, and I thought: Is this how my mother-in-law treats me as a daughter-in-law?I've paid so much for this family that I can't even get a goose egg?Watching my sister-in-law walk away with a basket of goose eggs, my heart felt like it was on fire.
This little thing may not be important in the eyes of others, but for me, it proves her attitude towards me.
I couldn't help but argue with my husband and asked him, "Did your mother do this on purpose?"Does she look down on me?The husband seemed to be defending his mother-in-law, "Don't think about it, my mother is like that, don't be too sensitive." ”
Sensitive?Are you blind?Didn't you see your mom do that to me?The more I spoke, the more excited I became, and the grievances and anger in my heart exploded.
In the end, I couldn't stand it anymore and went back to my parents' house in a fit of rage.
My husband came after me and begged for peace, but I really couldn't accept it.
It's not just a matter of goose eggs, it's a denial of my dignity and status.
This little thing became the last straw that broke our marriage.
In my mother's old house, I silently thought about this marriage.
My husband has left, leaving me alone to face my inner turmoil and confusion.
I know that I went back to my parents' house not only to solve the problem of those eggs, but to finally find an outlet for the release of the grievances and grievances that have accumulated for many years.
My mother-in-law's indifference, my husband's incomprehension, every little thing reminded me how unwelcome I was in this family.
I think back to the sweet days before my wedding and the anticipation I had so much to hope for a warm home.
The reality, however, was that I felt like an outsider and would never fit into that family.
When my husband came to coax me, I was shaken.
But when I think back to those days of apathy and alienation, I know that even if we rebuild our old relationship, we can't go back to what it used to be.
Returning to my parents' home this time may be an opportunity for me to rethink my life and future.
I don't want to live in the shadow of others anymore, what I need is to be respected and truly happy.
In this home, I may never get what I want, so I decided to let it go.
Although I still have reluctance and pain in my heart, I know that I must make such a choice for the sake of my own happiness.
I hope that in the future I can find happiness that truly belongs to me, a place where I can feel respected and cherished.