Loneliness is a norm

Original Tingyan Xiyu

What is loneliness?

Loneliness is the gift of life is described in the book "Loneliness:

"Solitude is a conscious solitude in life, not punishment, not a retreat from the wounded and sick, not a quirk, but the only thing to live as a human being.

1. The true state of being.

Once you know this, it won't be so difficult to endure it, and you'll feel like you're breathing fresh air and living in a vast space. ”

Zhou Guoping also said:

Only when you dare to be alone can you enjoy the abundance of life. ”

Don't rely on someone easily, he will become your habit, and when separation comes, you will lose not someone, but your spiritual support.

Some people say that what is more lonely than loneliness is being with the wrong people.

When each other's hearts can't be together, although they get along every day, they are so strange.

We must learn to walk independently whenever and wherever we are, which will make you walk more calmly.

Schopenhauer said, "A man can only be himself when he is alone." ”

It is only when we are alone that we can slow down, see the path we want to take in observation and thinking, and calm down to improve ourselves.

People who are happy to be alone can be comfortable when they are lonely, and calm and calm in the bustle.

People who are good at being alone can reflect and become enlightened in silence, see the bright spots in the ordinary, and sort out the clues in the chaos.

Zhuangzi said: To be alone is to be alone;The only one is the most noble. ”

People who can be alone seem to be high and arrogant, but in fact, they put their energy on the things they like, and they can often be outstanding and outstanding.

The older you get, the more reluctant you are to compromise in order to cater to others.

No matter how noisy the outside world is, it does not affect your inner peace;

No matter how high the fame of others is, it will not cause any ripples in one's heart.

When you have achieved a little bit and start to be impetuous, or fluttering, that is the most dangerous time.

At this time, it is even more necessary to precipitate yourself, see the times clearly, find out what your real needs are, and then move forward again.

The younger brother persevered in his field of work and finally achieved some small achievements, and his family was proud of him.

When I told him that he had to take this opportunity to sell himself in order to be recognized, he replied soberly to me that I was ashamed.

He said that you can't sell yourself with a utilitarian heart, but make more friends, meet friends, create opportunities to communicate more, and learn from successful people with an open mind.

Indeed, one cannot rush for quick success. If you meet friends with a utilitarian mind, you will become more lonely and disappointed when you don't get the return you expect from your heart.

It's like I always want to write something to leave after reading, and that's why I have this *** because it's not for fame and fortune, so I can stick to it for a long time.

If you can bring a trace of hope or energy to others at the same time, that is the happiest result of doing this.

As Claude Simon said, the best way to precipitate yourself is to be self-disciplined in the midst of prosperity, introspect in a quiet place, and improve yourself in a low point.

In the journey of life, whether it is family, love, or friendship, everyone can only accompany you on a journey, we must cherish this time of companionship, and leave the rest to time.

A 101-year-old grandmother said that the happiest thing in this life is to see her children and grandchildren live happily

The saddest thing is to face the people around you leaving one by one.

However, all the happiness and sadness make up a complete life, and we must be brave enough to accept and face it calmly.

In this life, we have to be alone and get along with ourselves.

The people pointed out that only by keeping these two points in mind can we better walk in the world.

One is to learn to be grateful. No one is an island, thank you to the people who helped you in the snow. Always be grateful, in order to be the foundation of life.

The second is to learn to cherish. No one's departure is impulsive, don't lose every enthusiasm.

Know how to cherish, you have to always. Be grateful for everyone we meet, cherish what we have, and enjoy solitude because we are not alone.

The author is also grateful to the book friends who have seen this article and the friends who have been paying attention, this is our fate, allow me to sincerely say: Thank you!