This netizen lives alone in a city far from her hometown, and when her mother said that she was going to visit her, she felt extremely happy and expectant. However, what happened next left her a little overwhelmed.
At first, her mother asked her if she needed to bring 10 catties of pork from home. In our culture, this can be a very common issue, representing a mother's care and care for her daughter. However, for this netizen, it was a question that made her feel stressed. She decisively rejected her mother, telling her that she could afford pork locally.
However, the next day, her mother told her that the pork ** in the city where she worked was very high, and she had bought 10 catties of pork and frozen it in the refrigerator. The netizen refused again and told the mother that her salary could afford pork and that she didn't have to be so troublesome. Her mother also agreed with her decision at the time.
The day before departure, the mother asked netizens if they would be overweight if they put pork in their suitcases. Netizens hurriedly stopped her mother and told her not to bring pork, because a long flight would cause pork to spoil. However, after her mother agreed, she brought 15 catties of pork on the day of departure. She happily told her daughter that everything was going well and that the 15-pound pork luggage was not overweight.
Hearing this, netizens were shocked and distressed. She recalled that when she was a child, her mother always said: "I transferred my job from the provincial capital to the county for you, and you must be the first in the class, otherwise you will be sorry for me." Over time, not only netizens said this, but even all the relatives in the family loved to say this, which made her feel pressured and lived a very depressed life since she was a child.
After entering middle school, my mother frantically signed up for cram Xi classes for netizens, and there were 10 in total. Naturally, it costs money to make up the Xi class, and every time after paying the fee, my mother will scold netizens: "You are really expensive, I am reluctant to buy clothes just to sign up for your Xi class!".However, this is not what netizens want, and she doesn't want to go to Xi class.
Dear friends, this story makes us realize that the stress and repression in our lives can come from those closest to us. We want their support and understanding, not the imposition of expectations and pressures. Let's work together to break free from our shackles and pursue true freedom and happiness!Every morning during the winter and summer vacations, she was led by her mother to her grandmother's house. Every time, Grandma would prepare some frozen meat for her, about 50 catties as much. She didn't like the meats, not only because of the texture, but also because they were difficult to carry. However, every time she complained at all, her mother would raise that serious face and violently suppress her dissatisfaction.
Once, she told her mother that she wanted to eat vegetarian buns. Mom smiled and agreed to her request. However, when she returned home after school that day and took her first bite of the steamed buns her mother had steamed for her, she felt the unbearable fishy smell. She looked up, looked at her mother, and asked suspiciously why it wasn't a vegetarian bun. Her mother's answer broke her heart: "I'm good for you, you're growing your body, you should eat more meat." ”
For example, when eating tomato and lo mein, my mother would ask her if she wanted to add a spoonful of beef broth. When she refused, her mother agreed. However, after the noodles were ready, she ate the smell of meat that she didn't like. The mother on the side smiled and said, "It's delicious, I put a spoonful of beef broth." This kind of thing is not uncommon, and it makes her feel miserable.
In June of this year, her mother said that she would send her some beef. She refused again, but her mother still sent a box of 40 kilograms of beef and sheep zombie meat. She took the box of meat, looked at it, and sighed: "It took a lot of effort for my body of less than 100 pounds to drag it downstairs to the trash can." ”
There are many, many more things like that. She sighed: "For more than 20 years, I have always been like this, I am very painful, and sometimes I think of suicide." When she heard her mother say that she had 15 catties of pork in her luggage, her reason collapsed instantly. She yelled at **: "I'm fed up with you, I've said 10,000 times that I don't need your unpalatable zombie meat!."This reaction caught my mother by surprise, and she cried. She scolded her daughter for not being human, saying that her daughter should go to hell. The daughter asked, "Have I communicated with you well before?"But her mother never understood her pain and trouble.
In this story, we see a conflict between a mother and her daughter. The mother's kindness, but not accepted by the daughter, sparked a heated debate. The mother wants to give her daughter something that she thinks is good, but these things are not what her daughter needs. This makes us think: can love and care really be accepted and understood?Or do we just love others in our own way and ignore their feelings and needs?In this world, there is a vast forest with towering trees and green leaves. In this forest, there is an ancient oak tree with a thick trunk and lush foliage. Its roots are deep in the earth, absorbing the essence of life;Its branches and leaves stretch out to the sky to welcome the baptism of wind and rain. This oak tree has witnessed the prosperity and decline of the forest, and it interprets the true meaning of life with its tenacity and vitality.
In this forest, a baby squirrel and its family live. Little squirrels play happily in the forest every day, collecting fruits and preparing for the winter. However, one day, the little squirrel discovers a little human girl who is lost in the forest. She cried tears that filled the little squirrel's heart with sympathy.
The little squirrel decides to help the little girl find her way home. It led the little girl through the forest, climbed the trees, and jumped over the stream. In the process, the little squirrel not only taught the little girl how to survive in nature, but also shared her joys and sorrows with her.
However, the family of the little squirrel is worried about the little girl's appearance. They feared that the little girl would attract predators and threaten their lives. So, the little squirrel's family tries to stop the little girl from approaching the little squirrel. They are wary and hostile to the little girl, which bothers the little squirrel.
In this world of contradictions, the little squirrel is caught in a dilemma. It loves its family, but at the same time wants to help the little girl find her way home. It knew that its family was there to protect itself and the other animals in the forest, but at the same time it felt that they had gone too far.
On this issue, the little squirrel finally chose to bravely face the opposition of his family and stood firmly on the side of the little girl. It looks at its family members with sincere eyes and tells them, "We should help those in need." If we can't do that, then what's the point of our world?”
The little squirrel's words sent the family into deep thought. They begin to realize that their actions may be frightening and upsetting for other animals in the forest. They decided to put aside their prejudices, live in peace with the little girl, and protect this beautiful forest together.
This story teaches us that being brave in the face of difficulties and challenges is the key to growth. When we encounter contradictions and conflicts, we must be brave enough to stand on the right side and fight for our beliefs and values. Only in this way can we become true heroes and bring more love and peace to this world.