Chinese pay attention to health preservationTian Beihu said in "** Chapter Yuanliu": "Husbands, birds and beasts are mixed, and wrestling is used to maintain health." ”Chinese have been very good at health preservation since ancient times.
Drinking too much alcohol and being exposed to too much sex are not good for your health, and everyone understands the reason for this, but why does drinking and ignoring people, sex and body, and wealth ignoring relatives?
China's wine table culture, a long history, has become an indispensable thing in modern life, in ancient times even evolved the cupbearer system, the state on the production, circulation, sales and use of wine and the formulation and implementation of a variety of unified policies. The production of alcohol will also be regulated by issuing or lifting a ban on alcohol.
Emperor Wu of Wei's poem "How to solve worries, only Du Kang"., Gathering with friends, drinking when you are happy, and drinking when you are upset, and alcohol will indeed make people achieve one"Beyond the seas".It is under the influence of alcohol that many artistic creators create excellent works.
The great poet Su Shihe felt it when he was drinking with Tao Yuanming"A cup of unfinished poetry has been completed, and the poetry is also shocked every day. ”
"Du Fu also wrote"Li Baidou has 100 poems about wine, and he sleeps in a restaurant in Chang'an City. "Each has its own aspirations, and the wine poems are self-contained. "Drunk from the guest, poetry into a sense of God." ”These hand-me-down poems, which were written after being drunk, are innumerable in the history of poetry in our country.
There are also many examples of this in calligraphy and painting, the "book saint" Wang Xi's work "Orchid Pavilion Preface" is written down after being drunk, Zheng Banqiao also likes to drink two sips of wine when painting, and then paint, it is said that the shrimp painted in this scene is the most real and vivid.
Isn't this a good thing to drink?After drinking, I was inspired, I was more comfortable writing, and I was more comfortable in painting, so why should I say that wine doesn't care about people.
Wine does not care about people, in fact, it is said that the greed for alcohol does not care about people, a small amount of alcohol is a small amount of drinking, but if you drink too much, it is different, the human body will amplify its own behavior under the effect of alcohol, can not control its own language, and even some people will go crazy with alcohol.
This is also the lesson summed up by the predecessors, when you can't control your behavior, you will do something unexpected, and you may attack others in behavior and language.
At this time, the person who is hurt is the person you attack, and will do some irreparable things to others, and it will be difficult for the relationship between the two people to rebuild after the next day, and they will lose a friend and an enemy, which is one of the aspects of "disregard".
In addition, there is the possibility of some exaggerated behavior, a person who is usually polite, when drunk, can become a rough person who is irritable and full of dirty words.
This kind of behavior will make the relatives and friends present subvert their perception of you, and will damage the good character you usually set, which can be said to outweigh the losses.
This is actually said to be greedy for sex, the ancients said this sentence is also because of the environment at that time, it was a polyandry system, the ancient emperor had a harem of three thousand beauties, even if it was not the emperor, a little rich and powerful people would take concubines.
In fact, in ancient times, concubines were also due to the poor medical conditions in ancient times, children were prone to death, or wives could not have children, so it was necessary to ensure the prosperity of the family population in order to extend the family bloodline.
But if you don't control yourself and indulge, it will cause harm to your body. In ancient times, there were many emperors who would ignore the government and even mislead the country because they were obsessed with beauty."As soon as the concubine laughed on the red dust, no one knew that it was a lychee.
In order to praise and smile, King You did not hesitate to play the princes with the beacon fire, which led to the destruction of the Zhou Dynasty that lasted for 800 years. Tang Xuanzong's favor for Yang Yuhuan was also one of the reasons for his later flight to the west.
Therefore, the courtiers in ancient times would also think about the emperor's body, of course, for fear that the emperor would indulge in the harem and ignore the government. and led to the demise of the country.
Many historical stories tell us not to indulge in beauty"A knife on the head of the color word".Sometimes, it's not just how simple it is to hurt a life, but also how easy it is to lose a life. There have been many emperors in history who died under the pomegranate skirts of their concubines. This also confirms the latter sentence"It's hard to stay under the pomegranate skirt".
In modern times, although there are no such ancient systems, there are still some people who indulge themselves and live an unhealthy life.
The chaotic and unclean life is easy to be infected with diseases, and this disease is often infected with a bunch of infections, and when you find out, you have been infected with many diseases that cannot be **, especially AIDS, and there is no ** way until now. So it's not just that you don't care about yourself, it's just that you lose your life.
"Zhuangzi Xu Wugui": "If money is not accumulated, the greedy are worried." ”Everyone loves money and wants to have as much possessions as possible, but some people, after they get rich, become more and more arrogant and don't care about the feelings of their relatives and family members.
There are also some Chen Shimei, who abandoned his wife after having fame and money, and the recently popular TV series Menghualu, Ouyang Xu played by Xu Haiqiao, climbed to a more wealthy Gao family after gaining fame, and abandoned the heroine.
Art is in life, which shows that such things are not an exception, and there are many more.
"Man dies for money, birds die for food".Some people will disregard the safety of their families for money, as a dangerous thing, causing their wives and children to be frightened all day long, not knowing when the disaster will come.
There are also some who take the so-called shortcut in order to make money, and they can successfully make money from outside, but in fact, they win less and lose more. As a result, the happy little family, which was originally well-off, went into debt overnight.
There are also some people who are greedy for money, and they do not hesitate to deceive their families and defraud relatives and friends of their money for money. In Shaoxing, Zhejiang, there is a fraud case of more than 60 million yuan, a woman has a huge debt due to investment failure, and she has no way out, and uses high interest and investment ** as bait to deceive her friends and even her own uncle.
It is not difficult for us to find that the proverb handed down by our ancestors is really a great wisdom, even if in the past thousand years, the situation at that time was completely different from the present, but this sentence can still be applied to the current life.
This saying "wine does not care about people, lust does not care about the body, wealth does not care about relatives", there is another straightforward statement, these three things actually refer to alcoholics, lusters, and misers. But whatever it is, it's a warning to us not to lose family and friends for these things.