A woman will follow the path of her mother and sister;
Men will follow the path of their fathers and brothers.
This is not something that comes up out of thin air, but something that is discovered by observing society and real life.
There was a woman whose mother divorced at an early age, the mother did not remarry, and the woman and her younger brother lived with her father for a while, and then with her mother for a while. When the woman grew up, she fell in love with a man;After getting married, after three or four years, they got divorced. Her mother was divorced back then, and now she is divorced too.
There is also a woman whose mother married a "second-married man" and gave birth to a daughter after marriage. When her daughter grew up, she fell in love with a "divorced man" and finally got married. The mother married a second-married man, and the daughter also married a "second-married man" when she grew up.
There is a sister who went to work as a waitress in a restaurant after graduating from junior high school. After my sister graduated from junior high school, she didn't get into high school, so she went to work as a waiter in a restaurant. The younger sister took the "way" of the elder sister.
There is also a sister, after graduating from middle school, my sister became a "private teacher";After graduating from middle school, my sister also became a "private teacher".
In other words, it is possible for a woman to walk the "road" that her mother and sister have walked.
Men are actually similar, and they may follow the "road" of their father and brother.
Of course, it is only "possible", not 100% certain.
There was a boy who got into a fight at school and was expelledThe younger brother later went to school and was also expelled from school for drinking and fighting.
There is also a brother, the elder brother was admitted to university and became a "leader" in the enterprise;The younger brother was also admitted to university, also worked in the company, and also became a "leader".
There is a pair of brothers, after the elder brother dropped out of school, he went to learn Xi vehicle repair, and later bought a big truck;My younger brother didn't graduate from junior high school, so he went to learn Xi welding, maintenance, and later bought a big truck to haul coal.
There are many such examples;If you look closely and experience it, you can find a lot. That is, "men take the path of their fathers and brothers, and women take the path of their mothers and sisters".
It should be noted that it is a "walk", a similar road, not the same for a lifetime. Mainly when you are young, you take a path that is basically the same.
Why is this so?First of all, it should be "affected". Adolescents are relatively less influenced by society and more influenced by their families. Whatever path the father and elder brother take, the son and younger brother will be influenced by it. In the same way, the mother and sister took the same path, and the daughter and sister also walked the same way. If it's a "good thing", it will be affected;If it's a "bad thing", it will also be affected. "The power of example is endless", and when you see what your parents, older brothers and sisters do, you often do it yourself.
Secondly, it is similar to "road vision". Just like when we are walking, we see a path in front of us, and we tend to "walk" that path, instead of opening up and taking a new path ourselves. The same is true for the path of life, parents, older brothers and sisters first walk out of a "road", and younger brothers and sisters often follow that road.
Then there is the "psychological rejection", which is mainly a negative path. For certain things, life paths, and careers, teenagers often have a "rejection mentality", such as "digging out a lot of dung", feeling that this profession is not good, and they will have psychological rejection and are unwilling to engage in this job. However, if the father and elder brother do this job, the younger brother will not have the "rejection mentality", and will do what the father and elder brother have done if they feel that it is natural and logical. Another example is the "lost girl", many young girls have a rejection of this "profession" and are unwilling to do so. However, if the elder sister is engaged in that profession, the younger sister will not be psychologically repulsed, and she will naturally do that profession. Therefore, many bad things, if the elder brother and sister are "engaged", the younger brother and sister will "follow", so the life path is similar.
Therefore, as parents, elder brothers, and older sisters, we must be strict with ourselves, do good deeds, and set an example for our younger siblings. If parents and siblings don't do good things, younger siblings will also do bad things, because they are influenced by their elders.
As an elder, when you do something illegal and criminal, you have to consider your younger brothers, sisters, sons, and daughters, because you have walked that path and done that kind of thing, your children and younger siblings are also likely to follow that path and do the same thing.
For children, younger siblings, if their parents, older brothers and sisters are "positive characters", have done great things, good things, and have moral demeanor, that is, they will move forward along the path of their elders, and they will also succeed, and the road of life will be smooth, because the elders have already opened up the road, just move forward.
However, if parents and elders have done negative bad things, they should pay attention;For example, crime, theft, divorce, not doing serious things, etc. At this time, as children, younger brothers and sisters, we must always remind ourselves not to repeat the mistakes of the past, not to follow the path of our elders, not to be influenced by them, and to follow our own right path. This is extremely important, because younger siblings are very likely and easy to follow the old path of their parents' older siblings.
On the good side, it is good to follow the path of the fathers;On the bad side, if the parents do bad things and follow their path, it is the "crime gene".
Therefore, for teenagers and young people, be influenced by the good of their parents, not by the bad influence. Good thing, follow in their footsteps;Bad things must not be learned Xi "lessons from the past".