High-quality author list *** Mrs. Han Zhijun, 91 years old today, has a simple life, and insists on riding a bicycle to and from work.
Married as husband and wife, loving and loving two hearts. Enjoy this night light, graceful and deep.
However, in today's society, some people seem to have doubts about beautiful love, especially with the gradual spread of "fear of marriage".
Nevertheless, there is a good story that may be able to dispel these doubts for us, and that is the marriage story between ***, who once held the post of prime minister of our country, and his wife Han Zhijun.
What was the couple's married life like?As leaders of the country, is their married life similar to that of ordinary people?
In 1980, **'s wife Han Zhijun retired, and *** resigned as chairman of the Communist Party of China in 1981. Since then, the couple, who had worked hard all their lives, began a peaceful married later life.
Early in the morning, at five or six o'clock, Han Zhijun got up early, and she habitually went to the vegetable garden to work, which was a lifelong habit. After more than half an hour of labor, she went to wake up her husband, who was still asleep
In his later years, ** was diagnosed with diabetes, so his wife Han Jijun kept a strict control over his diet. The staple food of the day is controlled below 2 taels and 8 yuan, and the distribution is reasonable, 5 yuan for breakfast, 1 tael and 3 yuan for lunch, and 1 tael for dinner.
Their three meals are simple, especially because of their oral health, and they sometimes eat roasted hard steamed bun slices for breakfast, accompanied by a glass of milk and a plate of cabbage. If the lunch is to the taste, ** will also ask Han Zhijun if he can eat more.
Once, ** ate more than ten dumplings for lunch, but still felt that it was not enough, so he asked Han Zhijun for instructions and ate two more, and got his wife's tacit approval.
However, sometimes *** will not listen to Han Zhijun's advice. Once, he received a jujube from Director Tian Rui in his hometown.
Although he usually does not accept gifts, he always gladly accepts millet, red dates and other grains sent by his hometown, and tells the villagers: "These are enough to eat for a long time, and you don't have to send them next time." ”
This time, the Jun jujube was picked from the jujube tree of ***'s grandmother's house. Hearing that this was his grandmother's jujube tree, he couldn't wait to take a bite, although his mouth was full of juice, he smiled and said: "Tian Rui, you are a liar, I remember that the jujube at the door of my grandmother's house is white, and the one you brought is green." ”
Despite saying this, ** still happily finished eating the dates in his hand. After eating the first one, he reached out to continue taking it, but was stopped by his wife: "You can only eat one at a time!."However, this time, *** did not listen to the advice, ate a few in a row, and happily praised: "The Jun jujube in my hometown is really the most delicious!."”
In the later years of *** and Han Zhijun's life, it is full of many such warm little fragments. It can be said that the couple has spent more than sixty years together, supporting each other and witnessing each other's growth.
Once they retired, their lives became unusually simple, as if they were a picture of "pure hardship" and self-sufficiency. The "pure hardship" of this life is quite similar to the situation when the two first met, however, the current "pure hardship" is self-chosen, and it is a way of life that knows how to control itself. Different from the past, this time the "pure suffering" is more free and profound.
The couple enjoyed a simple and deep life in the company of each other. This kind of "pure suffering" is not forced, but a deep self-realization, an affectionate response to love in the vicissitudes of time. They lived such a simple and fulfilling life, and they have been with each other for more than half a century.
**The fate of Han Zhijun began in the full-scale stage of the Liberation War. In the War of Resistance Against Japan, ** made great contributions to the expansion of the armed forces and the promotion of anti-Japanese work, so during the War of Liberation, his aura was enough to attract attention.
**Met Han Zhijun when he started working in Meng County. At that time, after three years of study, Han Zhijun had a certain talent for theatrical performances, and often played male roles in various programs. **specially went** Han Zhijun's performances of "Brothers and Sisters Open the Wasteland", "Wang Gui and Li Xiangxiang" and other literary and artistic programs. The secretary of the Mengxian County Party Committee felt that the two were a good match, so he managed to match them and introduced *** to Han Zhijun, which marked the first acquaintance between the two.
After about a month of acquaintance, the two decided to get married. Due to the relatively difficult conditions at that time, their wedding was held at the home of the director of the political and educational department of Mengxian No. 2 Middle School, and the subsequent ceremony was prepared by the prefectural party committee to entertain the wedding participants. Despite the simplicity of the wedding, the bond between the two is deep. At the ceremony, ** told the guests about their journey from acquaintance to love, winning everyone's blessings.
In 1947, ** took his new wife Han Zhijun home, and this time it was the first time that the family learned that they were married. When her mother learned that Han Zhijun was also a member of the army, she was a little worried and expressed her dissatisfaction in private. She advised *** to find a local girl, thinking that it would be more difficult for the two to go home in the army. However, ** smiled and said to his mother: "We are like-minded, bear hardships together, and we will definitely be able to spend the rest of our lives together." ”
Although his mother was not very satisfied with this, at the insistence of ***, his marriage to Han Zhijun has withstood the test of time. Subsequently, the husband and wife went to Shijiazhuang to study around March 20, 1949, ending their work and life in Mengxian County for nearly five months.
Both have devoted themselves to busy professional lives since they got married. Since the two went to Shijiazhuang to study, the work of husband *** has become busier. In August 1949, with the pace of the party committee going south, the ** couple came to Xiangyin County, Hunan. In Xiangyin County, ** served as the secretary of the county party committee and a member of the prefectural party committee.
Subsequently, at the beginning of 1950, ** and Han Zhijun ushered in the birth of their first child, the eldest son Su Hua. As time passed, their family welcomed a son and two daughters.
Since the original name of *** was Su Zhu, he changed his name to *** when he participated in the revolution in 1938 to express his respect for the "Chinese Anti-Japanese Salvation Vanguard". Therefore, his children are all surnamed Su instead of Hua.
Han Zhijun was responsible for taking care of her four children during this period, but she understood and understood the hard work of ***. She knew that *** often needed to go to the countryside to work, and it was difficult to go home. Therefore, during this time, Han Zhijun not only has to keep his work undelayed, but also has to take care of the children and also deal with household chores. Although such days may seem busy, in Han Zhijun's life, she can always arrange all this in an orderly manner. For more than 20 years, she has been approaching life's challenges in this way.
In the past 20 years, ** has not only assumed the heavy responsibility of leadership, but Han Zhijun, as a professional, is also busy with housework and child care, and his life can be described as extremely busy.
However, Han Zhijun has never complained to anyone, because she knows that she occupies a special position in ***'s heart, and at the same time, she also knows that *** has feelings for her deep in her heart.
As the wife of the country's leader, Han Jijun, her life has always remained simple. This busy life continued until 1971, when her husband *** was transferred to *** to participate in the work of the business group after more than 20 years of grassroots work. So, the two left Hunan and came to Beijing.
In Beijing, his work has become busier, and his involvement in national affairs has increased. This made him need more thinking and decision-making. His careful thinking in his work has enabled him to put forward many ideas that have been adopted. His outstanding performance played a great role in society, so much so that in January 1975, he was appointed Deputy Prime Minister.
Although her husband became the *** vice premier, his wife, Han Jijun, never took advantage of his fame and did not cause him trouble. On important occasions, Han Zhijun even chose not to attend with ***, although *** had invited her. She still chose to let him attend alone, considering ***'s work.
In Beijing, Han Zhijun became the director of the political department of the China National Light Industry Import and Export Corporation through his own efforts. Although this position was much worse than her husband's position as deputy prime minister, she never relied on her husband's reputation for personal convenience.
Since Han Jijun has kept a low profile, the place where she works doesn't even realize that she is the wife of the deputy prime minister. She usually rides her bicycle to work, which is her most used means of transportation. She never used the bus provided by the state to the vice-chairman.
Although Han Ji-jun does not have a lot of salary at work, she contributes to her family. Once, ** returned to his hometown in Shanxi with Han Zhijun and asked about the construction of his hometown. Han Zhijun's niece replied: "Very good, the salary is more than 800 a month!."Han Zhijun continued: "That's really good, your salary is higher than mine, I only have more than 600 yuan a month." ”
As the wife of ***, Han Jijun does not depend on her husband's reputation. She contributes to her family through her work, and despite the low salary, she has a good time.
This family has *** at the forefront of politics and Han Zhijun who earns a little money for the family behind the scenes. Their lives have a beautiful scene of "you come to plow the field, I weave, I carry water, you water the garden", and they contribute to each other's families. The ideal life of the husband and wife is so simple, they don't quarrel over trivial matters, and think more about each other.
The husband and wife *** and Han Zhijun have lived a simple life all their lives, from the time of the Liberation War to their old age. They have always prided themselves on simplicity, not only in their married life, but also in educating their children.
The couple had four children together, but they didn't often criticize the children harshly. Instead, they focus more on instilling frugality in their daily lives and encouraging their children to work hard.
** and his wife's teachings deeply influenced the children, making them all very obedient. These children are ordinary and simple, especially the eldest son is known for his simple and unpretentious image among colleagues, and he gets along very well with his colleagues.
Several of the children are doing very well in their respective fields, so that parents do not have to worry too much about their future. The influence of the simplicity of the family style has made the children of this family become thrifty and hard-working people.
Han Jijun lost her beloved husband on August 20, 2008, and the couple have always maintained a deep relationship. In the face of her husband's death, Han Zhijun was strong at the farewell ceremony, and despite the pain in her heart, she endured her grief for the sake of respect and personally saw off her husband's last journey.
As time passed, Han Jijun gradually lived a low-key life, but she has always attracted people's attention. In 2014, several people from Hunan traveled to Beijing to meet her. At that time, Han Zhijun was already gray-haired, but she was still quick thinking and kind in communicating with people. At the end of the meeting, someone proposed to take a group photo, Han Zhijun stood in the middle of the living room and refused to sit down, because behind her was her late husband ***, she was afraid that she would not be able to leave a complete image of the two while sitting and taking pictures, she still wanted to be with her husband.
** 's married life with Han Zhijun has always been a model, and he has realized the white-headed old together that he had promised his mother. Despite their remarkable achievements in their careers, in their daily lives, they lead ordinary and fulfilling lives, no different from ordinary people.
This affectionate love makes people yearn for a good marriage. This is not based on the accumulation of wealth, but on the basis of mutual care and interdependence. Therefore, we do not need to be afraid of marriage. As long as the two are like-minded and willing to bear the ups and downs of life together, they can have sincere love like *** and Han Zhijun.
May every couple who come together have a plain and true love like them.