In our lives, many people have an ambivalent mentality. They often look down on those who have the background and resources, believing that these people have no real strength and ability, and only rely on their background and connections to achieve success. But, deep down, they want to be like that and enjoy that easy and privileged life.
This ambivalence often stems from our low self-esteem and insecurity. We have doubts about our own abilities and sense of worth, so we point the finger at those who have backgrounds and resources that we can't have. We try to increase our sense of worth by demeaning them, but this practice only makes us sink into negativity even more.
If we can recognize the existence of this ambivalence and try to resolve it, we will become more positive and confident. First, we need to learn to appreciate the strengths and strengths of others. Those who have the background and resources also have their own efforts and dedication, and their success is not accidental. By appreciating their strengths, we can broaden our horizons and learn some useful experiences and tips from Xi.
Second, we need to recognize our own value and potential. Everyone has their own strengths and strengths, and we can also achieve success through our own efforts and talents. Don't compare your own worth to the backgrounds and resources of others, but find your own strengths and direction by exploring your own potential.
Finally, we need to learn to accept that we can't change it. There are some things that we can't change, like birth and family background. Although these factors may affect our lives and opportunities, they do not determine our future. We need to focus on the things we can change, such as learning Xi, skills, and relationships, and achieve our dreams and goals through continuous efforts and experience.
In conclusion, ambivalence is a common emotion, but let's not be controlled by it. By appreciating the strengths of others, recognizing our own worth and potential, and accepting the truth that cannot be changed, we can resolve ambivalence and become more positive, confident, and uplifted.
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