My wife and I have been married for ten years and have a lovely seven-year-old twin. Our marriage may seem happy to outsiders, but in reality, there are a lot of problems between us.
I am a doctor with a busy schedule, often working overtime, and rarely have time to spend with my wife and children. His wife is a teacher and she is also very busy with work, but she pays more attention to the education of her family and children.
The conflict between us deepened, which eventually led to the breakdown of the marriage. After the divorce, the children were raised by me.
Although I love my children very much, I rarely have time to spend with her because of my busy work. My child needs the love and companionship of her parents to grow up, and I feel guilty that I can't meet her needs.
One day, I received an emergency surgery and needed to work late overtime. When I got home and found my son and daughter already sleeping on the couch, I felt very guilty and self-reproachful that I wasn't a good father.
The next morning, when I was dropping my daughter off at school, I met the parents of my daughter's classmates, and we had a casual conversation.
He said that a woman next door gave birth to two children, but the father of the child did not know who it was, and said that the current children are really difficult to manage, especially for people like us who have daughters, we have to be optimistic about our daughters.
I was stunned for a moment, his words seemed to remind me, and when I got home, I began to wonder if the two children were my own.
The more I thought about it, the more I felt that something was wrong, so I decided to take a paternity test with my two children, and it turned out that my son was not my own.
The news came as a bolt from the blue to me, and I began to doubt my wife's loyalty and morality, and I decided to ask my ex-wife about it.
When I found my ex-wife, she said coldly, "What right do you have to question me?"Are you a good father?Have you ever been with a child?You don't even know your body, and you still want to be a father?”
I asked her, "Who are these two children?""My ex-wife didn't answer me.
I continued to ask, "If you tell me the truth, I won't blame you." The ex-wife still didn't speak.
I was very angry and disappointed and asked, "Why did you cheat in marriage in the first place?""I was deceived for ten whole years, and I really couldn't accept that I had a child for 10 years.
She finally couldn't help but answer: "It's my ex-boyfriend, you were on a business trip that day, I went to a class reunion, drank too much, and woke up to find that I was sleeping with him." ”
Then you shouldn't lie to me?And a deception is ten years. I yelled angrily.
She said: "Then I can't help it, your parents are urging you to be tight, you haven't had children after three years of marriage, you can't give birth to the hospital for examination, I didn't dare to tell you, I'm afraid you will be sad, just that time I was pregnant by mistake, and I will be wrong." ”
When I heard the news, I was struck by lightning, it turned out that I couldn't give birth, I didn't believe this fact, and I went to check it again, and the results showed that I really couldn't give birth, and the news made me fall into despair.
When I returned home and looked at the two children asleep on the bed, I had mixed feelings, whether I wanted it or notIf you want it, it's not biological, don't want it, and it's reluctant, after all, I've lived with myself for seven years.
After a night of thinking, I decided to keep these two children, even if we are not related by blood, I will treat them as if they were my own children, and the family affection in this world is not limited to blood relationship