Introduction I used to be a happy bride, but on the day of my son's full moon banquet, my mother-in-law asked me to read the ledger, and my mood completely collapsed. Since then, I have lost my mother's family. It's a heartbreaking story and an important turning point in my life.
In our rural area, the bride price is an important ceremony for marriage and is usually a gift from the bride's family to the groom's family. As an only daughter in a family of three siblings, I was often pampered by my parents, so my mother put forward higher requirements for the bride price. However, Chen Xin's family was not willing to give so much as we asked. In the end, I made a compromise with a smaller dowry, in exchange for the blessings of my relatives. Although my mom seemed to understand at the time, she was disappointed in me afterwards. I experienced the pressure and disputes of the bride price in the family, and I also deeply felt the difficulty of marrying into someone else's family.
Expand: The issue of bride price is a hurdle that almost every family must go through in rural areas. Even though I know that such strife is the norm, neither as a daughter nor as a wife can get out of it. Marriage is the connecting point of a family, but it is also often the starting point of friction and conflict. Although my mom reluctantly agreed to me afterwardsMarriage, but at that moment, I couldn't forget the disappointment and disgust in her eyes.
After I got married, I found out that my mother-in-law was very good to me. She cared about me like a real mother, often cooking for me and supplementing my nutrition. She is a caring person who always puts me and the children first. Even every time I eat, she told me to eat first before I started eating. My mother-in-law's kindness warmed me, and our relationship was like that of a mother and daughter. However, after some time, I discovered my mother-in-law's negligence and indifference. Also, she doesn't seem to be very friendly to my family. Although I had advised my mother not to misunderstand her, when I returned to my mother-in-law's house, I couldn't help but doubt my mother-in-law's true thoughts and attitudes.
Expand:Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipIt has always been a delicate and complex topic. Although I feel warm because of my mother-in-law's kindness, sometimes I can't help but start to doubt her true motives. After all, I am a young daughter-in-law with a close relationship with her son, which may cause some jealousy and rejection in her. The balance and adjustment of the relationship requires understanding and tolerance from both parties, but when both parties cannot reach a consensus, the problem becomes complicated.
On the day of the full moon, my mother-in-law prepared a grand feast to celebrate our son's full moon. Family, relatives and friends come to this festive occasion. I thought it would be a happy family reunion, but things turned out to be unexpected. When I saw the gift money ledger, I found that my family did not give the gift money, only the 30,000 yuan mentioned by my mother-in-law. This discovery made me angry and disappointed, and I felt that I was not getting the respect and recognition I deserved in my in-laws' family.
Expand:Full moon wineIt is a traditional celebration that means good wishes for the healthy growth of newborns. As a bride, I look forward to this moment and hope to share this joyful moment with my family. However, an unexpected ledger discovery reopened my eyes to the complex relationships between my family. Although I tried to maintain the relationship between my in-laws and my mother's family, on the day of my son's full moon, I felt excluded and neglected by my in-laws.
Conclusion: This story made me understand the complexity and variability of family relationships. InMarriageWhether as a daughter or as a wife, we have to face all kinds of difficulties and pressures. Even when we try to maintain family harmony, time and reality often alienate and contradict us. However, we should also see the love and concern between families. In my experience, although I lost my mother's family, I also received the care and love of my in-laws. This is a unique story, which has made me grow and made me cherish the happiness and family affection in front of me even more.