I am an ordinary mother-in-law with a daughter-in-law who is particularly easy to be happy, she is always smiling and enthusiastic about life. After the son and daughter-in-law got married, our family lived happily.
But recently, her daughter-in-law proposed to have a second child, but the whole family objected, and she actually took the child back to her parents' house.
My son works as a chef in a restaurant in the city, and before that, there were about 15,000 a month, and after the epidemic, about 8,000 to 10,000 a month, and my daughter-in-law was at home with children. Although the family's income has decreased, the daughter-in-law thinks that she can still have another child.
I don't want my daughter-in-law to have a second child, because I am not yet 50 years old, I have been working in a hotel in Beijing, I have social security, and I still have a few years to pay. I was afraid that my daughter-in-law would not be able to take care of the two children, so I asked me to go back and take care of the children, and I wanted to work for a few more years.
The son also does not agree to have a second child now, he feels that his income has decreased, and he still has 5,000 mortgages to repay, and the pressure is too great to postpone regeneration for a few years.
My wife works as a construction worker in the village, earning 8,000 a month, and the work is scheduled until after New Year's Day. But he didn't agree to give birth, because the eldest granddaughter was not yet 2 years old, and he felt that he had wronged his eldest granddaughter by giving birth now.
A family of 5 people, except for the granddaughter who couldn't speak clearly, the remaining three adults disagreed, but they didn't expect the daughter-in-law to go back to her parents' house angrily. I had to take a leave of absence to go back to my hometown and go with my son to pick up my daughter-in-law home.
In order to dispel the idea of my daughter-in-law having a second child, I invited my relatives to come to the gathering, thinking that everyone could help me persuade me to be a silly girl.
The son persuaded his daughter-in-law with kind words:"I earn 8,000 yuan a month, 3,000 yuan for your family, 5,000 yuan for the mortgage, I pay 2,000 for my father, 3,000 for my father, refueling the rest of the car, paying insurance at home, etc., sometimes I can't save 2,000 a month. "
But the daughter-in-law couldn't listen to it, and retorted: I don't ask you for more money, I can't spend 1,000 yuan a month at home, and the money you give me can raise an extra child! You also bought my clothes, shoes, and skin care products for me, and I can't use them up and give some more to my mother! ”
I couldn't laugh or cry when I heard it, and I felt that this daughter-in-law was too easy to be satisfied and too happy!
She spoke highly of my mother-in-law, and told her relatives to buy her new clothes and send them back every season, and the body was what I bought for her on Double Eleven, sweaters, jackets and pants, adding up to more than 1,000 yuan!
I also spoke highly of my wife, saying that he was very real, every time he met in the village or other places, he would give his granddaughter Bai'er 80 yuan, and often bought toys, and the child's big box of toys was bought by his grandfather. If there are any happy events in the family, her father-in-law pays for them, and she just goes to the banquet.
Everyone advised her not to save money, only after spending money can men have the motivation to earn. She happily took out her mobile phone and said that her husband bought her skin care products on Double 11 again, and the one that 618 bought for her has not been opened, and now she uses the 38 Queen's Day bought, and she wants to give this set to her mother to use, and then unpack the new one, haha.
Everyone persuaded her not to wronged herself when eating and drinking, she was quite proud, saying that she was not wronged at all, she stewed meat every week, and changed chicken, duck and fish to eat, and she gained weight.
Everyone asked her if she would be annoyed with her own children, but she said that she had a child by herself, how could she be annoyed? It's really impossible to persuade.
When everyone dispersed, I finished cleaning up and lay on the bed, watching my daughter-in-law post a circle of friends again. showed the new clothes and shoes that her husband and I bought, as well as the 3,000 yuan in cash I gave her when I came back this time, lamenting that I married into a good family, had good in-laws, and a good husband. Seeing this, I shed tears of happiness.
I don't know why this daughter-in-law is so easily satisfied and happy, but I think her happiness and satisfaction also make me feel happy. I hope she can always maintain this mindset and enjoy the beauty of life.
At the same time, I also dispelled the idea of persuading my daughter-in-law not to have a second child, hoping that my son and daughter-in-law can complete this wish as soon as possible, so that our family can return to a harmonious and happy state, and I will definitely come back to help her take care of the child when my social security is paid!