Article Debut Challenge Divorce is not simple, and it is not just because love ends.
A lot of small marital trivialities will slowly wear down each other's feelings.
Therefore, if you are not ready for marriage and do not know how to run it, do not rush into marriage.
Today I want to talk in detail, although Lu Liangwei said that he was immature and naïve before leaving Zhou Haimei, in marriage, what kind of side Zhou Haimei showed.
Maybe when you see this, you will feel that no one is perfect.
Zhou Haimei once said that she didn't need a man to get in the way in front of her, but from another point of view, in fact, the men she came into contact with also endured her shortcomings.
In short, when entering a relationship, really treat the other person as a person, rather than being high up and demanding everything from the other person.
Maybe you will think that although Zhou Haimei is married, she has never managed a good marital relationship, so her marriage is unbearable, and she has not even remarried.
It's not that she thinks too highly of herself, but even if she enters marriage, she may not be able to manage it well.
First of all, Lu Liangwei saw that Zhou Haimei's work and rest were irregular, and she didn't rest normally even if she wasn't filming.
Lu Liangwei himself married at the age of 30 and is a man who wants stability, but he ignores the impact of the age difference on women's immaturity in marriage.
But Zhou Haimei is not like this.
It is said that her schedule is very irregular, and even if she does not work, she is the elders of the family who sleep by herself after getting up, and the elders sleep again after she gets up.
In short, her work and rest habits are different from those of ordinary families.
Not only did Lu Liangwei think that his wife's routine was abnormal, but even his father-in-law was dissatisfied with Zhou Haimei.
Lu Liangwei or the elders of the family believe that Zhou Haimei may have deliberately maintained an irregular routine in order to avoid socializing with others or doing housework.
Secondly, Lu Liangwei saw that Zhou Haimei ignored her in-laws and lived a person-centered life.
In married life, many men, especially those in Zhou Haimei's era, think that women are better at running a house and taking care of the family.
When Zhou Haimei was in her parents' house, she often took care of her younger brothers.
It is said that Zhou Haimei's main theme in married life is "not to suffer", she will not take the initiative to wash dishes, and there is no boiling water and tea at home, these are very simple daily preparations.
Zhou Haimei is too lazy to do these things, which will definitely cause dissatisfaction among the family, who think that Zhou Haimei is not suitable for life.
Maybe Zhou Haimei thinks that she has a good reputation and a successful career, so there is no need to please others at home.
In addition, during the relationship, she has been taken care of by Lu Liangwei, so she doesn't want to do anything after getting married.
Lu Liangwei also saw that his wife was unwilling to get along with her in-laws.
Third, Lu Liangwei saw that Zhou Haimei had a great temper, had the temper of an eldest lady, and lacked tolerance.
Zhou Haimei's temper is indeed a bit big, when something unpleasant happens at home or the filming rest is not good, she will directly vent her anger on Lu Liangwei.
Lu Liangwei is also a big star, he has the ability to make money to support his family, so he naturally can't tolerate an immature wife at his mercy.
Therefore, Lu Liangwei and Zhou Haimei's marriage only lasted for 9 months, and there was still a lot of filming work during this period, but they divorced because of dissatisfaction with trivial matters in life and not meeting each other's requirements.
Zhou Haimei was meticulously cared for and protected by Lu Liangwei before marriage, and she hoped to continue to maintain this state after entering the marriage, but Lu Liangwei no longer cared about his wife.
Lu Liangwei felt that he was so interested in Zhou Haimei before, and hoped that she could also contribute to the family after marriage, but he didn't expect Zhou Haimei to regard herself as the eldest lady.
Therefore, marriage is not just about falling in love, many women are spoiled by men in love, doing nothing for themselves, enjoying everything, but still looking forward to continuing to live a lazy life after marriage, which is unrealistic.
Men really shouldn't do too much before marriage, otherwise they won't be able to continue the early efforts after marriage.
Although women take advantage, they will also hate you.