Time flies, and the three major flowers that once made countless audiences crazy are now unable to escape the devastation of the wind and sunshine. In the face of endless competition from rising stars, their position is no longer as secure as it was back then. 
However, it is worth mentioning that the status and image of the three people are different now. In the case of 48-year-old Zhou Xun, the imprint carved by the years on her face has added a bit of charm. The apricot eyes are as inclusive as a deep pool, and they always maintain the unique softness of a woman; The smile on the corner of his mouth became warmer and kinder. 
She did not deliberately hide the traces of time, and let time splash ink on her face, but made the whole person exude a more unique charm. She is also getting more and more stable on the road of acting, whether it is the majestic strong woman in "Wuwen Xidong", or the introverted and deep middle-aged woman in "Bondage", all of which demonstrate the refinement and sublimation of her acting skills, and she is a veritable powerful actor. The 42-year-old Dong Jie is in a completely different state. Her haggard face completely exposed the aging crisis she was facing, and her facial features seemed to wrinkle into deeper eye sockets and nasolabial folds, like those mean and sinister vicious mothers-in-law. Judging by the beautiful face that she was able to compete with Liu Yifei back then, she is now only reminiscent of a damaged epiphany. Once upon a time, she was the most dazzling of the three flowers, and people vied for her to add the most titles: the cold and cold "Leng Qingqiu", the sick and affectionate "Zhanyan", the pure and lovely "Little White Flower"...And now, only the withered remnants are left, and it is unbearable to look back. 
As for Chen Shu, his expression was stiff after the microplastic surgery, and his delicate face seemed to have turned into a mask. As an actor, her acting space is seriously limited, and it is difficult to make natural and delicate expressions, which is embarrassing. If we only rely on Dong Jie's careful care of her husband Pan Yueming after his car accident, we will still think that this is a model couple like a golden boy and a girl. However, the calculations and intrigues hidden beneath this surface are astonishing. 
In fact, a car accident changed the fortunes of the two in the entertainment industry. Dong Jie had to withdraw temporarily and take care of her injured husband wholeheartedly; After Pan Yueming survived, he got more opportunities, and his career had a second spring. This is in stark contrast to Dong Jie's own state that is difficult to return, and she gradually becomes dissatisfied: Why can he return to the stage and run again after I have paid so much? In 2010, the two fought on the same stage, and the-for-tat in their words has revealed the signs of marital rifts. 
So, Dong Jie quietly launched a conspiracy. She secretly seduced Wang Dazhi, wanting to take the opportunity to get rid of Pan Yueming and kick away this stumbling block. In September 2012, she finally couldn't bear it anymore and preemptively broke out a number of scandals with her husband, which hit him to the bottom in one fell swoop, and she took the initiative in the moral high ground. 
A month later, she was photographed with Wang Dazhi again, and only then did she reveal the true face of the person she hooked up with. It turned out that this was a scene she had planned for a long time, and the whole process was under control. She is ready to kill Pan Yueming first, and then use Wang Dazhi to cut off the relationship between the two, and finally fight for her position again and return to the entertainment industry. It's just that she never expected that Wang Dazhi would fulfill her and Pan Yueming in turn, and in the end, this conspiracy failed, and she also became the notoriety of "White Lotus". 
After Dong Jie and Pan Yueming divorced, their son "Dingding" was raised by Dong Jie. However, what is unbelievable is that Dong Jie tried her best to prevent "Dingding" from meeting her biological father. Even when Pan Yueming's father was critically ill and dying, she refused in cold blood and did not let "Dingding" go to see the last face. Such a cruel and selfish act makes people shudder. 
Carefully analyzed, this seems to be a deformed reflection of Dong Jie's psychology: she wants to break with the past and completely cut off all the marks related to Pan Yueming on "Dingding". Because these imprints will always remind her that "Dingding" should live in a complete family. However, it was she herself who destroyed the home. Therefore, she tried to alleviate her guilt and pave the sins she committed by erasing the child's memory of her biological father. 
At the same time, she showed an almost ** attachment and desire to control "Dingding". She pestered "Dingding" all the time to say "I love you" to her, asking this child to take care of her, be considerate of her, and meet all her wayward requirements. Once "Dingding" disobeys the slightest, she will be furious and furious. We can imagine how helpless and confused a six- or seven-year-old child would be in the face of such extreme and capricious emotions from his mother. 
But fortunately, at the recent birthday party of "Dingding", Dong Jie finally reconciled with Pan Yueming. This gives "Dingding" hope to have a complete family again. Perhaps in the years to come, "Dingding" can get rid of the shackles of his mother's message and live a healthier and happier life. The notoriety of "White Lotus in the Prosperous Age" may follow Dong Jie for the rest of her life, and what she did to cheat and frame her ex-husband is irreparable, and she can only let history go to the top. However, if she can truly repent, she may still have time to give her son a complete and normal home.
We should not easily blame a mother, she is also a victim of this world after all, and has her own sadness and helplessness. People are born to be kind, but in the process of growing up and struggling, they encountered too many undercurrent conspiracies and calculations, so they had to treat others in their own way.
To a large extent, Dong Jie's life trajectory was "educated" in this way. We have mercy, not blame. Now, her reconciliation with her ex-husband has opened the door for her to choose again. I hope she can seize the opportunity to repair those rifts and heal those regrets by treating her children with sincerity and kindness.
Time may gradually smooth out the unfinished words between her and "Dingding", and the child will finally feel the sunshine of maternal love, rather than the haze of life.