"In the world of teenagers, right is right, wrong is wrong" This line in the movie "Article 20" awakened my memories of being bullied by female classmates in junior high school.
It was a sunny morning, and the morning class was just over. Approaching meal time, I was going to take the lunch box and go to the cafeteria with my classmates to eat, groping around in the desk, found the stainless steel lunch box, opened it, and it was empty, "I remember putting the spoon in yesterday" muttered, thinking to myself, "Where did the spoon go?" ”
Let's go, let's go to eat first, and then I'll talk when I come back" The urging voice of a classmate sounded in my ears. There was no way, only to eat first and then come back to find a way, and finally borrowed the tableware brought by others to solve the lunch.
I usually lose everything, so I don't pay much attention to it, thinking that I lost it.
It wasn't until the end of school that another female classmate said: "Student Z came early in the morning, and I saw Student Y take the contents of your lunch box and throw it into the trash, you go to the trash can to take a look", stunned for a moment, and immediately turned around to look into the trash can at the back of the classroom, there were silver things lying in a bunch of snacks, wasn't that my lost spoon?
He turned back to the female classmate and said, "It's my spoon, but why did she do it?" "I don't know, it was classmate Z who told me, so you shouldn't know that it was her, don't say it's what I said," the female classmate replied. "Hmm".
Thinking about asking classmate Z the next day, I feel very sad and angry, I usually have a good relationship with classmate Y, sit in the back row of me, and often lend her things, why does she do this?
I couldn't figure it out, but I didn't want to tear my face, so I told classmate Liu, who was playing well at the time, and she was also very angry after hearing it, and asked me to ask classmate Zhou, maybe she knew the reason, after all, the semester is still long, a class, there is no evidence, and we still have to get along.
The next day, classmate Zhou told me that she didn't know the reason, anyway, classmate Y was not so simple, you should pay attention to her yourself. Student Y and Student Z also had a good relationship before, and they were basically inseparable, but after Student Z saw Student Y clearly, it was only superficial harmony.
It turns out that the people you treat sincerely, others may not be sincere to you, and you don't know if you say bad things about you behind your back or hate you. The heart of defense is indispensable, but unfortunately I was too stupid at that time to have these thoughts at all.
After graduating from junior high school, I once went shopping with another female classmate, and when I said goodbye, she told me to be careful with classmate Y, and she often told them my little words, commenting on my appearance and dressing. I immediately told her about the spoon I had lost, saying that someone had already told me before, and now I am paying attention.
Maybe it's a prank, maybe it's a joke, what is the reason, I don't want to know anymore, people who have not been in contact don't care, I just think that the student days should not be the purest friendship?
Wrong is wrong, right is right, I don't want to use jokes as the most excuse, and there is no such thing as letting go, I just feel that the Tao is different and does not conspire with each other.
Curious about the experience of being stabbed in the back when you were a student, how do you view and deal with it?