The former Luo Yingzi was like a boat of life, and the journey was smooth. She has the selfless love of her parents, and after getting married, she has received endless care and love from her husband, which once again confirms what it means to live a happy life! However, fate is like a cloudy rain, and all the good things came to an end on the night of her husband's 30th birthday. That night, she had just passed the legal professional qualification exam, carefully prepared a romantic candlelight dinner, and waited at home with great anticipation for her husband to come home and share the joy.
However, the cruel reality is that what she is waiting for is the disappearance of her husband and best friend, as well as a huge debt of up to 16 million yuan. It can be seen that when choosing a marriage partner, it is necessary to examine their family background. Professor Satya's famous quote is very accurate: "The connection between a person and his family of origin is like an intricate web that will entangle him or her for life, including marriage." "Many women often feel as sweet as sugar when they are in the ocean of love, and if someone kindly reminds them to pay more attention to the man's family environment, they may think that this is a stain on pure love. However, love is indeed a matter of two people, and marriage is the intertwined collision of two families. Why did Yingzi's husband Liu Ming degenerate from a high-level intellectual to a criminal? The reason behind this is inextricably linked to his family. His extramarital affairs, secret transfer of property, and participation in illegal activities, all of which were kept secret from Yingzi, while his parents remained silent and even supported behind the scenes. It wasn't until Yingzi treated her with courtesy and went to her home to ask for help that her mother-in-law actually beat her back and accused: "Liu Ming has already dissolved your marriage with you, so don't call me mom anymore." He is on this path because you have not been able to bear children.
Not only that, Yingzi's father-in-law who wanted to ask Liu Ming was extremely nervous and didn't dare to answer easily. When I met Yingzi's mother in the market, although she knew that she had a heart attack, the mother-in-law still spoke ill of her, even though she knew that Yingzi's mother was in a state of ambiguity, she still refused to give up. Eventually, Yingzi's mother became overly angry and formed a long-term vegetative state. If a woman chooses the right husband, her life will be like living in the paradise of childhood. On the contrary, if you choose the wrong husband, your life will be like a drowning person, struggling in the abyss of madness. In the world of marriage, you must learn to calculate and calculate. Marriage is actually a contract to face the ups and downs of fate together, fate and character are just two sides of the same concept.
In marriage, we need to give something, and at the same time, we should get something in return, so that the marriage relationship can maintain balance and stability, and we can move towards a farther future. In the plot, Yingzi just blindly pays in the journey of marriage, but she doesn't care about the family's financial situation. Her husband seemed to be sincere in giving Yingzi a bank card, but without her knowing, she had already quietly squandered her property. is like Feng Xiaoqin in the TV series "Home of the Heart", although she was born in rural Anhui, in order to pursue a better life, she resolutely decided to come to Shanghai to work hard. Later, he was lucky to marry Gu Lei, an honest Shanghai man. After getting married, Feng Xiaoqin was like a nanny in the family, taking care of her husband and his family's daily life seriously and responsibly, no matter how difficult and tiring, never complaining or giving up. However, despite Feng Xiaoqin's hard work, when she proposed to buy a house that belonged to the couple, she was suddenly opposed by the whole family, and even Gu Lei's sister suspected her ulterior motives.
This scene can't help but make people sigh that the world is hot and cold, and Feng Xiaoqin is deeply disappointed and sad. In the course of the fierce dispute, Feng Xiaoqin accidentally injured her husband in a hurry, resulting in his accidental death. A large family member of the Gu family actually regarded her as the ** who killed her husband. Imagine, if Feng Xiaoqin had clearly negotiated with the other party before getting married to determine the distribution of housework remuneration, house ownership distribution, property division and other related matters after marriage, then her diligent efforts over the years may not be taken for granted. Money is undoubtedly a double-edged blade in marriage, it can not only bring us a happy married life, but also may become the culprit of destroying marriage.
Before getting married, we should talk about love honestly, and after getting married, we should also face up to and take the issue of wealth seriously, because any love problem that cannot be solved with the help of money will not be able to support a long-term and stable marriage relationship after all. Instead of choosing to rely on others, it is better to improve your own abilities as much as possible and accumulate enough strength to deal with the difficulties and challenges you may encounter in the future.
Some women will feel that they can rely on their parents when they are young, their husbands when they grow up, and their sons when they are old.
is like Luo Yingzi in the play, who owes 16 million in debt, and does not bow to life, it only took her two weeks to digest her emotions, and she immediately prepared to fight in the workplace.
In the play, Qiu Hua asked Luo Yingzi: "You have so many debts, how can you live so chicly?" ”
Luo Yingzi replied: "So what, I can't still do anything, I can still earn it!" ”
Even though the world is gloomy, her heart has always been full of sunshine, and it is the integrity, kindness, courage and responsibility she shows that made her respect Yingzi when she negotiated with the creditor Boss Zhou for the first time.
He implicitly said that as long as Luo Yingzi followed him, he could help her repay more than 10 million, but Luo Yingzi refused.
Because it is impossible for her to bury her love for money, and from then on, she will become a vine attached to others.
Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life" is like this, although she wears gold and silver, carries brand-name bags, sprays expensive perfumes, and lives a pampered life, which seems to be very happy, but in fact, everything she has is because he is Chen Junsheng's wife, and after losing the identity of Mrs. Chen, she has become nothing.
A woman should not be defined by anyone, nor should she be an appendage to anyone. The more you want to have a wonderful life, the more you need to work hard with your own hands. Yishu once said: "A woman's confidence and strength are intangible assets, which are enough to match men's tangible assets." This confidence and strength comes from my persistent and silent efforts, and for the rest of my life, I hope that every woman will not envy anyone or rely on anyone, but just work quietly and live the way she wants most.