You must have met the kind of people who are so imaginative that their minds jump so fast that they can't keep up with the rhythm, and the topic jumps from here to there like hopscotch.
You may be discussing one issue at first, and then jump to another topic in the blink of an eye.
It's okay to have a casual chat, but if you have a clear purpose in your conversation, frequent digressions can make the conversation less effective.
At this time, when you notice that the other person's topic is starting to go off the rails, you can subtly help him sort it out.
For example, you can guide it like this: "By the way, you just mentioned **, how did you start playing in the band?" ”
The other person may reply: "Actually, I started out as a 9-to-5 worker, but then I found that working for others was too tiring, and I had a lot of worries every day."
I remember when I was in school, I formed a band with a few classmates, and although I didn't make any big achievements, I still accumulated experience.
Initially, I was particularly interested in playing drums, but eventually became a guitarist. ”
At this point, you can pick up the conversation: "It seems that your current job is closely related to playing drums, and it is great to be able to continue your hobby as a student until now!" This kind of persistence and love is really admirable. ”
With this kind of conversation, you can guide the other person back to the point without leaving a trace and make the conversation more focused.
If the other person's topic is fluctuating again, once again skillfully help him organize it to ensure the continuity of the conversation.