Love is the ability, and being loved is also the ability.
The mistress who can make a married man, at the risk of cheating, also want to love, must have her ability.
Wives should analyze clearly, what the cheating man loves, and the advantage of the junior is **.
Then go to the idea of resolving the advantages of the junior, improve your strength, and let the cheating man give up the mistress and turn around to beg for your forgiveness.
Instead of being jealous with Xiao San, I didn't know what the problem was, so I began to tear each other apart.
After all, extramarital affairs are not a problem for Xiao San alone, and even if you want to tear up Xiao San, you need various methods.
It is useless to tear up the mistress, and it is even more ineffective to humble recovery, and only by finding the key point of the problem can the extramarital affair be solved.
Many wives will say when they talk to Lan Fang that they have met a high-ranking junior.
said that the conditions of the mistress are good, and various means are used to stimulate the original partner and separate the relationship between the husband and wife, resulting in the relationship between the original partner and the cheating man getting worse and worse, and the marriage is in jeopardy.
But the cheating man doesn't think that Xiao San is scheming and playing tricks, but thinks that his wife is such a person, and Xiao San will not do anything bad.
The wife doesn't understand, why does a cheating man have such a double standard, she is worse than the junior?
The biggest disadvantage for many original wives is that they are too emotionally unstable.
Lan Fang met an original wife, as long as she talked about the man's cheating, she kept breaking down, and after three hours of consultation, she cried for two hours, but she didn't say much about the problem.
has been emphasizing how happy the two of them were before, questioning why the man betrayed her and so on.
The wife is creating an opportunity for the mistress, and the more serious the cheating man and his wife are, the more likely the mistress is to take the position.
But not all juniors can seize the opportunity, take the opportunity to break the relationship, and then succeed in taking the position.
Many juniors are not calculating, they are just ordinary women.
But the high-level juniors are different, they are different from the stereotypes of their wives, they can be of various types, not necessarily green tea, the methods of the juniors may not be known to the wives, and the types of juniors may also be unthinkable to the wives.
First of all, the junior of the high rank is very clear about his situation.
When they choose to cheat on men, they won't be too ambitious.
There may be a gap with the cheating man, but the gap will not be too big, resulting in no advantage at all.
Blue Fang has been in contact with many cases of extramarital affairs, and has also seen some successful juniors.
From the very beginning, the purpose of this kind of junior was to get a man to divorce and marry a junior.
Therefore, all the words and deeds of the junior revolve around this point.
Secondly, the junior of the high rank, who provides emotional value, will not coax cheating men in major events.
It's not that the cheating man is unhappy, from the beginning of being with the mistress, it must be the mistress coaxing the cheating man.
Many times, the junior will leave the cheating man immediately, and some small problems will not have to be complained about with the cheating man.
The mistress will be more inclined to control the overall situation, and she will guide the cheating man to do what she wants the cheating man to do.
But the mistress will not coax the cheating man to do it, but will provide the emotional value of the cheating man.
When the cheating man and his wife have conflicts and are in a bad mood, give the cheating man some help.
The cheating man feels very comfortable with the mistress, and there are no troubles in marriage, so he will naturally have the idea of divorce and marrying the mistress.
In the end, the junior of the high rank will take care of the cheating man.
In contrast to marriage, most cheating men dominate and wives are dominated by cheating men.
In extramarital affairs, it was the junior who went to take care of the cheating man.
Don't look at the usual relationship between cheating men, they are all coaxing cheating men and the like.
But if there is anything that needs to be decided, it is up to the junior to have the final say.
However, the junior will make the cheating man feel that this is what the cheating man wants.
Knowing what the cheating man wants, giving the cheating man what he wants, but not enough.
The cheating man can't stop, counting on getting satisfaction from the junior, and he will naturally identify more with the mistress.
The cheating man thought that why it was his conclusion, but in fact, it was all guided by the mistress in the process, and the goal that the mistress wanted to achieve.
Finally, Lan Fang wants to say that many wives will have a stereotype of the mistress.
I just think that the junior should be, the type of junior they are more familiar with.
For example, the junior is young and beautiful. But the conditions are not good, so I do a junior for money.
Xiao San is regarded as a servant of Israel, and one day the cheating man will get tired of seeing Xiao San, so he will abandon Xiao San.
But the reality is that many mistresses' appearance conditions are stepping stones, allowing cheating men to take the initiative to find her.
But in the later extramarital affair, it is only by the means of the mistress that the cheating man can be retained.
Most extramarital affairs are just fun, so cheating men don't want to divorce for the sake of mistress.
Under such picky conditions, it is difficult for the junior to get on the top, and the junior who is not a real high-end rank can't do it at all.
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