Looking for a dance partner, one is to find someone with eyes, the other is to find three positive views, and the third depends on whether the style of the two is the same. The two styles are too far apart, for example: one is a standard dance style with a frame, and the other is a free and easy ballroom dance style, and one of these two people must change their style appropriately. If you become a dance partner, you still dance separately, and the style doesn't match, not only is it not good-looking, but it is also very tiring to dance.
Two people with different styles can come together and even become dance partners, which starts with the purpose of dancing alone.
Some people dance to perfectionists, not only to dance well but also to dance comfortably, and to talk with a dance partner, so this kind of people will not easily find a dance partner, once chosen, it is a variety of conditions can achieve their own satisfaction, so they can get along for a long time.
And some people dance purely to relieve loneliness, their requirements for their dance partner are young and beautiful, and they never care how the other person dances, and they don't care what style the other person is. Some women just find a handsome guy to satisfy their vanity, and by the way, they can also meet their other needs; A man is looking for a young beauty just to fill the gap in life, to have a decent face, and to have fun in life. As long as you give a little favor and use a little means, some stupid women will love and don't want it, and you and I want others to interfere. This kind of person never cares about any style or not, as long as he can hold on to the spot.
For those who want to dance well, there are only two options for finding a dance partner in case the style is different. Either you have enough ability to turn the other party into a style similar to your own, which requires hand-to-hand patient adjustment, and the other party is also willing to move closer to your style, otherwise you want to teach him and don't want to learn and end up in a bad mood; Or give up the original style, try to learn from each other, and start from scratch with a low profile, so that the two of them are close to harmony. But such a dance partner is really rare on the dance floor, and it is impossible to dance the national standard with the dance hall dance, and vice versa, because it is really uncomfortable to dance.
There is also a situation where the national standard is jumped and fell in love with a beautiful eyebrow, thinking that this woman is a manufacturable material, and will spare no effort to teach it carefully in the later stage, of course, that lady must also be willing to learn the national standard, and she can also endure the hardship, otherwise it will not last long.
I have seen several pairs of dance partners with different styles, and no one has been able to change anyone after seven or eight years of getting along, and every time I go to the dance hall, I symbolically dance a song, and then I find my own dance friends to dance. Most people hardly know that they are dance partners, and I certainly don't understand the significance of such dance partners. Maybe it's something other than dancing that obsessed with each other. Sure enough, the dance partners parted ways after eight years. This is the difference in style between the two, it was a mistake to be a dance partner from the beginning, a waste of time, a waste of energy, a waste of feelings and money. How many eight years can there be in life? It's so casually squandered, it's embarrassing to harm others and yourself!
Find a dance partner, and try to find someone who is similar to your style. It's more harmonious to jump out like this. Even if the two of them start to cooperate with flaws, as long as the run-in time is long enough, they will definitely be able to become more and more perfect. If you just covet the other party's beauty and youth, no matter what style the other party has, you always think that it will be fixed first. It is conceivable that if you have a standard frame and the other party has no frame type, not only will you be tired of her, but she will also be tired; If you like to walk and have a large amplitude, she likes to dance tricks and almost no walks, or even if you can walk a few steps, the old lady with small feet is "stuck", how can the two of you dance comfortably? One day is uncomfortable and two days are uncomfortable, and after a long time, you will feel that you are suffering, not only do you not have the slightest fun, but you can't open your mouth to say that you leave each other, do you say it's uncomfortable?
People with different styles are dance partners, and they either endure or roll, and it is impossible to dance awkwardly every day. This kind of dance partner will basically not last long, and the relationship will fade after a long time, and there is no such carrier as dancing, what can you do if you don't break up?