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Recently, readDr. Hailan's "Imperfect, Beautiful".There are many points in the book that have touched me, and I will share them with you in different topics
Share the theme: This is a separate journey of life, and we must go on without regrets.
In the book, Dr. Hailan shares: ".Life is a solitary journey, and some people come into your life and accompany you for a while, maybe bringing joy, maybe sadness, maybe regret; Some people leave, perhaps taking away dreams, hopes, trust, warmth and longing.
In everyone's life journey, they will meet all kinds of different peopleSome people will be with you a little longer, others will be a little shorter. Some people appear,It will bring a different color to your lifeLet you experience the "ups and downs" of life, and see the longing and hope of life; And the appearance of some people, thenIt will make you feel sad and sadLet you see the other side of gray in life.
Human life is really wonderful, we will be filled with a lot of emotions, and this emotion has been given to us by ourselves, and there are also others to us.
It reminds me of a song sung by Jolin Tsai"I know you're sad," the song begins with the song
To love someone, you need fate, why bother to let yourself fall deeper and deeper.
Don't be stupid enough to use your innocence to touch the restless soul, and you can only wait stupidly every day.
Love someone, don't take it too seriously, your hurt eyes are distressing.
No one has to be another person to live a lifetime.
Why do you push yourself and face the scars?
Beautiful love songs, almost all of them are sad ......
Dr. Hailan said that life is a solitary journeyWe may have taken the road on our own, and we can't predict who we will meet or what will happen along the way, but what we can decide is what kind of mentality and what kind of action we will take to take this road.
Just like we will eventually experience separation from our parents, start our own family, and then watch our children grow up** and leave home to create their own world.
At the end of the day, we're all going to go on our own. But we can choose to go on happily, with each other, and without regrets.
My mom told me"There is no feast in the world"., life too"People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny".
So,We should cherish the days when our family and friends can be by our side. Especially, this is a good time when the elderly and children are around.
Don't wait until time is gone and never go back to regret why we didn't have good company in the first place.
Children will grow up day by day, when I first worked, I soon had my first baby, but because it was a career upswing,I have very limited time with my children.
I always felt guilty and sorry for my brother. Therefore, I never miss every important game or performance of my brother, and I also deliberately set aside time to chat together in the evening, which can allow us to communicate and communicate better.
Now,Our "personal time" has become a very ritual for each other.
After the birth of my second baby, I understood the importance of companionship. Because in the blink of an eye, the child grows up. When he was young, his eyes were full of mom and dad, and when he grew up and had a world of his own, he would also have his relatives and friends.
We can stay close, but we can't stay with each other forever. So, when I can be accompanied, when I can be accompanied, there is really no other worthy "reason" and "excuse" to say "I'm busy".
"Companionship" and "acquaintance" are very important lessons that children teach me. During this time with them, although there will be a lot of worries about trivial things in life, it is not as happy and happy as when we are together.
When everyone is young, they want to "run out", when they slow down and look back,Some people may pass by you, but they have left a deep impression and influence on you; Some people will spend a long time with you, but eventually they will be separated, and we have to cherish every moment together.
So, when you have time and holidays, be sure to go home and see our parentsWhen we become parents, we can understand how our parents feel when they face us.
When we can be together, we should cherish the time together, whether it is happy, happy, sad, painful, it is an exclusive memory between us, which will draw a complete end to our life.
Take every step of your life journey and start by cherishing the people around you:
1.[Learn to "cherish"]:Parents, children, husbands and wives are all very important people in our lives. There was a survey on the Internet before: who would you ultimately choose to spend your life with? Some people will choose to go on their own, and some people will choose to go down with their partner. And in the end, maybe you are left alone. Therefore, when we can all be together, we must learn to cherish and cherish the time together, whether it is noisy or quiet, we will have a special emotional bond between us. Try to create a time or space every week that belongs only to us, in this time and space, there is no interference from other things, it is purely us, to create memories that belong to us.
2.[Happiness "List"]:I often see TV dramas, the hero and heroine will list the "ten things" they want to do most before they go away. In reality, many people will say that these are just stories, and it is not easy to spare 5 minutes to do what you want to do. If we think this way all the time, we will never be able to do the "ten things" we want to do. Write down the "10 things you most want to do" on your happiness list when you're alone, and then set a time for yourself to do them within that time! As it says in "If You Give Me Three Days of Light": "If you got another tomorrow, then today is always zero.""Treat every day of your life as the last day of your life, and let yourself live a wonderful and beautiful life.
3.[Know how to be "grateful"]:Our life is given by our parents, and being able to become who you are today is formed by your own efforts and the creation of those around you. Learn to be grateful to our parents and the people around us, no matter whether we receive warm companionship or painful blows, in fact, everyone around us is helping us grow, which can make us understand what happiness is, what sadness is, what happiness is, and what pain is. You must also learn to thank yourself, without your own persistence and hard work, you may not have today's self and tomorrow's self. Turning gratitude and gratitude into action, a greeting, a gift, a trip, a lifetime of companionship, we need to continue to pay for others and ourselves, and pass on this love and gratitude.
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