Recently, a news about a female teacher in a middle school in Xuhui District, Shanghai, who was reported by her husband with her real name for having an affair with a 16-year-old student, has sparked heated discussions on the Internet. All kinds of official ** and self ** have followed up and reported, and the heat of the incident continues to rise. Regrettably, some of them completely ignored their legal awareness in the process of reporting, and even disclosed the lives of the parties on other people's microblogs without authorization. Such behavior is a serious violation of personal privacy and violates the principle of freedom and openness in cyberspace. It is important to remember that while cyberspace is free and open, it is not lawless. While enjoying freedom and openness, we also need to respect the honor and privacy of others and refrain from offensive and insulting remarks.
It is true that the parties have made mistakes, but they still have human rights
We should stop online violence and let the relevant authorities investigate the truth of the incident. If the facts are true, those responsible will be punished by law. Until the results of the investigation are made public, we should bear in mind that even if they make mistakes, they cannot be deprived of their human rights. Some self-scruples have no scruples in the process of reporting, aren't they afraid of causing legal disputes? In particular, can some individuals bear the corresponding legal responsibility when the incident ferments?
In this case, both parties are liable. The chat logs show that the relationship between the two parties is not unilateral. Today's teenagers mature earlier, and 16-year-olds may know more than 26-year-olds 10 years ago. However, this does not excuse either side. As a teacher, if the incident is true, no matter who takes the initiative, it is a violation of teacher ethics and a violation of the law! We need to focus not only on the teachers involved, but also on the innocent minors. The incident continues to ferment and may cause serious psychological trauma to the minor. We should think about our children's future and stop naming names online. Imagine how this child will live in the local area in the future. It is likely that he will have to change his name, but the name he used will stay with him for the rest of his life. Even if he changes his name, others will think of him when they see the name. This kind of pressure is difficult for people with slightly weaker psychological quality to bear. Similarly, the pressure on this female teacher is greater than that of a child. However, this is a consequence of her own making. If you knew today, why bother in the first place? All we can do is stop spreading the word and wait for an official briefing.
Conclusion: Similar incidents are not uncommon. Schools and parents should strengthen the care and education of students. Also, parents try not to equip their children with smartphones. If necessary, just have a basic phone that can make and receive calls**. The incident is not complicated, and there will be no reversal. I hope that everyone will not believe rumors and spread rumors, so as not to breed rumors. Spreading rumors will be held legally responsible.