In marriage, some women may feel that they are giving too much and not getting what they deserve in return, or even begin to hate themselves. There are some deep-seated problems hidden behind this phenomenon, so let's dig deeper and explore solutions.
First of all, some women may exhibit traits that are overly aggressive and capable. They are accustomed to taking on the heavy responsibilities of family and career, always taking care of everything, and are reluctant to leave things to their husbands. Even if the husband is willing to share the responsibility, they prefer to take full responsibility themselves. However, this practice may leave the husband feeling excluded and deprived of the opportunity to make a difference. At the same time, such women are also under great pressure, which can lead to physical and mental exhaustion in the long run, and even begin to develop feelings of disgust towards themselves.
Second, excessive frugality and thrifty housekeeping can also be an obstacle in marriage. Women who are too frugal will lead to a decline in the quality of life of the family and lead to conflicts between husband and wife. On the other hand, being too diligent and thrifty will make women lose their care and love for themselves, and their lives will become boring, which will also affect their self-confidence and charm.
Finally, excessive tolerance is also a problem in marriage. In order to maintain family harmony, some women swallow their anger and unconditionally tolerate their husbands' willfulness and incomprehension. However, this unilateral forbearance will only lead to her own frustration and depression, and her husband will gradually lose his respect and attention to her.
Therefore, as a woman, you need to learn to show weakness appropriately, share family responsibilities with your husband, and share the chores of life. At the same time, it is necessary to moderately relax the frugal mentality and create a better quality of life for yourself and your family. The most important thing is to be clear about your bottom line, maintain equality and dignity in your relationship with your husband, and don't let your tolerance become a harm to yourself.
Marriage should be a relationship of equality, respect and understanding between the parties. Only with mutual respect and joint efforts can marriage be a happy and fulfilling journey. Let's work together to create our own happy life! Married life Emotional growth