An unclear life is like a bowl"Raw rice.
When it's time to work hard, there are gains and losses.
When it should be ruthless, the heart is soft and dizzy.
When it is time to make a decision, hesitate.
Life is always in the midst of internal friction and anxiety.
We are nothing but dust in the universe, drops in the river of time, do it boldly, don't be afraid, no one cares".
-Maugham. 
Don't be confused about big things, don't be confused in front of major rights and wrongs.
Do not follow the crowd, and can think independently.
Have a decisive attitude.
Know who you are.
As the old saying goes"People are valuable in self-knowledge"
Only when you see yourself clearly can you know how to advance and retreat, and you have a sense of proportion.
2.The little things don't get tangled.
Everyone's energy is limited.
Focus too much on the little things that don't make sense.
It is bound to be difficult to achieve great things.
3.Never put your hopes in others, and always have a plan in your heart.
4.Not stupid, senseless kindness is the bane of soft-heartedness and embarrassment.
Nietzsche once said: If you want to be a sheep, you must recruit wolves.
5.Live in fate, not in relationships.
Don't force any relationship.
I treat you sincerely, but I am not attached to you.
If you know how to follow fate, you will not be bitter.
6.Focus on yourself and don't worry about others.
Learn to shield, only by shielding, can the heart calm down.
Block those good and bad comments, irrelevant people and things.
7.Stay away from people with unclear minds as soon as possible.
Deal with such people.
Tired and weak.
8.Don't dwell on bad people and bad things.
Nietzsche once said: If you stare into the abyss for too long, the abyss will return to stare at the dragon for too long, and you will become a dragon.
9.Just help others and do your best.
Everyone has their own destiny, and they are too demanding of results.
If you can't save others, but consume yourself, you are burdened with the fate of others.