Foreword:
Time flies, time is in a hurry, it is too late to be serious and young, and it is time to retire in a flash.
Some people, some things, have experienced, and they also learn to let go, entangled in their hearts, and eventually consume themselves internally.
Learn to let go and enjoy these three ways of being alone, which is to feel at ease physically and mentally.
Mr. Wang Zengqi once said something that made me feel deeply:
"I thought that the most beautiful days would be to get up in the morning to serve flowers, make tea, and nap in the sun;
Wandering in the drizzle, reading a book under the night light, in this shallow time, fireworks in one hand and poetry in the other;
Let the flowers bloom and fall outside the window, the clouds come and go, and the aftertaste is endless, and you are satisfied. ”
Whatever you want, it's often where you're in control.
Life always wants what you don't have, the most troubles, and learn to let go, there is nothing you want, naturally the happiest.
After retirement, everyone's way of life is different, and it is best to suit yourself.
When some people retire, they like to live around, thinking that this is the way to enjoy the rest of their lives
Some people like to dance in the square park and enjoy the feeling of "finding organization" with everyone;
There are also people who like to be lively, like to party, visit the door, and feel that "life is short, and having fun in time" is the best way to live.
I am 54 years old and have been enjoying three years of retirement, and this year is my fourth year.
After three years of mask incidents, experiencing ups and downs in life and inner hesitation, I think:
Reading, boxing, and drinking tea are the three lifestyles that are the best way for me to live after retirement.
Reading has broadened my horizons, and I will look for answers from books when I encounter problems, and I don't have to panic anymore
Playing boxing alone allows me to be alone between heaven and earth, enjoying the exchange of body and mind and fisting, comfortable and transparent;
Drinking tea alone is not only about drinking tea elegantly, but also about tasting life alone, which seems useless but is the most calm.
Every time my friends chatted with me, they persuaded me to go and be with everyone, so that this is a normal retirement life.
Everyone has their own way of living, what they like is the best, and what others think is their life.
1. Drink tea and read books alone, and feel different for the rest of your life.
Two strokes of words: one writes the first half of life, and the other writes after retirement, and the middle is connected by countless days of hard work.
Before retirement, there are many unavoidable and insincere words.
After retirement, I have more time and feel at ease, and I like to be alone.
My wife went to work, I was at home by myself, cleaned up the housework, opened the "Xiaodu", and put a guqin song.
Sit at the tea table, make a pot of old tea, smell the fragrance of tea, read an idle book, and enjoy a moment of tranquility.
Drinking tea is just a kind of cordial communication with tea, looking at the yellow or red soup, there is a kind of indescribable beauty.
Drinking tea alone allows me to stay away from the hustle and bustle outside the window, relax, let go of anxiety, adjust my mood, and enjoy the taste of tea quietly.
Recently, I read "My Fragrance" three times, and the countryside in the south of the Yangtze River written in the book brought me back to my childhood memories.
From an innocent and kind girl, into marriage, to become a woman who supports the portal, raising children, and husband and wife work together to build a beautiful home.
There have been unknown heartaches, but also unexpected surprises, the growth of children is a woman's expectation.
Women who like to drink tea alone have gentle and gentle personalities;
I will think twice before I do anything, and I will not be irritable and anxious to do things too recklessly.
Make a cup of fragrant tea, taste it alone, meditate on the taste of life, remember the good, and reflect on the insufficiency.
Reading books, looking forward to the future life in other people's stories, enriching horizons, nourishing body and mind, and improving the realm.
2. A person boxing in the shade of the community, feeling the beauty of nature and enjoying physical and mental pleasure.
After I retired, I went out every day to practice 108 Yang's Taijiquan, which was my daily homework.
Walking on the boulevard of the community, listening to the explanation of ancient poems, feeling happy and feeling comfortable.
I would go to the playground three to five laps each time to warm up before boxing.
Then boxing in the old place, flanked by tall plane trees, with cool breezes in summer and snow in winter.
All year round, from spring to winter, each season is a beautiful painting.
Boxing not only cultivates one's body, but also calms one's body and mind.
A person boxes because he likes the quietness of a person and does not have to follow the rhythm of others.
You can fight one punch for a long time, or you can combine several punches and practice it repeatedly.
Even if you don't play routines, walking Tai Chi steps again and again is a kind of self-exercise.
When you are alone, you can take a walk, play boxing, or find a place to sit in a daze and feel the beauty of nature.
After retirement, it is also a blessing to be able to do one thing with self-discipline for the rest of your life.
I like to associate with self-disciplined people, and I like a kind of spirit in them, which gives people an upward energy.
I used to go to bed early and wake up early, and in my own time, quietly do what I like.
3. When you are alone, you can read, drink tea, box, learn to let go, and be at ease.
The reason why people are suffering is often that their hearts ask for too much.
In the world, the most beautiful living Buddha cannot have "the world's peace and perfection, and live up to it".
A thought of flowers blooms, a thought of flowers falls. Let go of the thought, and be at ease.
Let go of the obsession that you can't get, let go of the past that has become history, and enjoy the beauty of the present.
What you lose doesn't belong to you, and what you don't get may have other arrangements.
When you're retired, settle your mind and don't think too much.
The retirement salary is small, and it is good to spend enough;Children are ordinary, and physical and mental health is a blessing.
When people are old, they want to reconcile with themselves and life, and they don't have to think about life as a way back.
Quietly enjoy your own time, feel the warmth of the winter sun, and accept everything in life.
Even if you live in a place of chicken feathers, you must pick up the chicken feathers with longing, make them into a feather duster, and sweep away the dust of the years.
Retired, walking on the road of aging, cherish what you have, cherish life, and live every day.
Happiness is very simple, happiness is the most precious happiness!
Author: Huagui Zen Heart.
Follow my words and go into your heart. You have a story, I have tea, and we can talk about the rest of our lives together.
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