"Women, sometimes your husband has an affair, and you can't blame your husband. At a friend's party, a man talked about a friend's marital twists and turns, and said in a mocking tone: "She thinks she is a perfect wife and a perfect mother, but her husband still has an affair ......."I asked her to reflect on herself, did she have any problems with herself? She said that she cared too much about the children, cared about whether the house was clean or not, and ignored her husband's feelings. ”
It sounds like there is some truth to that. A good wife and mother are not necessarily a good lover. “…For example, when her husband came back in the evening and wanted to spend some time with her, she was so tired that she couldn't have any enthusiasm at all. Early on Sunday morning, she began to yell at the child, like an Obasan, and her husband naturally had an affair ......”
I don't think that's true of what she said. This is the standard of women of the previous generation - when there are problems in marriage, all of them fall on the woman's head, as long as she can't meet the requirements of "like ** in bed, housewife at home, and like a noblewoman when she goes out", she deserves to be betrayed.
This is a kind of rhetoric that "if you want to add sin, there is no excuse for it". The above three standards are easier said than done, when you burn the candle at both ends, the housework is upset, even if you have more than enough, you will encounter the problem of insufficient strength. In real life, where time is like a jack, women will pretend to be fake even if they pretend to be ** (even if they want to play role-playing, it takes time to be creative and prepare props). Even being a noblewoman requires a lot of time to dress up and a lot of money.
Yes, men like women who can be hot forever in bed, but this is not easy to achieve after all. Two people have been together for a long time, habit will overcome freshness, most men will confess, in bed, for the same woman, it is not easy to maintain the hot sweat of the first **.
It's probably fair to say, "If you do everything well but don't do well in bed, you're probably failing your marriage score." "It's the reality.
But don't just blame women.
There are times when men don't want toEven if the wife wants to make out at night and they can't do it, they will often pretend to be asleep, or say, "I'm so tired from morning to night", or pretend to have business to deal with, and stay in front of the computer.
It's just that women are more considerate and "pressing" the heat.