1."Gentle Upbringing".
2.The Language of Parents
3."The Education of Carl Witt" (watching it for the second time).
I am a nursery teacher for more than four years, and my own children have graduated from college; But in the face of how to raise children better, I feel deeply lacking. So I started learning parenting books again and shared them in the hope that more people would see them.
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1."Gentle Upbringing".
What parent is not full of love and looking forward to the arrival of their child? I can't give him the best in the world.
But we are not born to be parents, and we are not qualified parents when we are upgraded to parents.
Parents who can really help their children become successful are undoubtedly qualified and excellent gardeners. They know how to raise a seed, even if it is ordinary, it can sprout and blossom under their careful cultivation.
As the poet Gibran said:
Thou art the bow, and the sons and daughters are arrows from thee. The archer looks at the target on the road ahead, and he pulls you away with all his might, making his arrows shoot fast and far. Bend it in the hands of the archers with a happy heart, for he loves arrows that fly all the way, and he loves bows that are incomparably stable."Gentle Parenting" is such a book to help parents, teaching us how to raise children correctly.
It allows us to re-nurture ourselves while raising our children, helping us grow with our children.
It asserts that every child should be treated gently! Reading this book made me understand the need to find the cause of my child's crying and prescribe the right medicine.
It allows me to stay emotionally stable and squat down and listen to my child's voice.
Let me learn to speak well and become friends with my children.
Let me be a child and lie on the ground and play with them. ......
At the end of each chapter of this book, there is also a small class for parents, which is very intimate. A large number of situational cases, coupled with the analysis and summary of practical methods and skills, make it easy for parents to get started and simple and easy to implement.
Parents, nurses, and educators can all benefit from this book.
2.The Language of Parents
What kind of person a child is has a lot to do with the attitude of parents. Because children's words and deeds are a mirror of their parents' behavior.
This book told me two cores:
The core of education is to cultivate a sound personality.It also taught me what a successful education is:The core of a healthy personality is self-confidence and self-esteem.
Successful education is an art of awakening, awakening the dormant self-confidence and self-esteem in the child's heart.It also told me:
Education is about allowing children to experience the joy of success.How do parents treat their children in the right way?
Speak more positive language to create a positive environment for children, parents must believe in their children, eliminate potential safety hazards, and let go of children.
Parents need to trust their children a lot and let go appropriately; And Fei is overly worried about the children, because they can do it.
Parents' educational concepts will directly affect the development of children.
In real life, some parents are using the wrong way to treat their children, they don't know that this can be quite lethal - stifling their children's self-confidence, making them lose their correct understanding, and ruining their children's happy life.
The best education for children is to give children sincere appreciation, be good at using a magnifying glass to find the shining points in children, constantly awaken the giants in children's hearts, and help children find their own development path, so as to reach the other side of success.
3.The Education of Carl Witt
This book is the second time I have read it. The first time I met it was more than 10 years ago when I was in the car of a new acquaintance, and I took a quick look at it and felt that the book was too good. But then I didn't read it.
I made it my first book at the beginning of 2024 and re-read it, and I still think it's very good.
It can be said to be a record of Carl Sr.'s education, documenting how he raised Carl Jr. into a gifted "genius".
Take a look at Carl Jr.'s record:
Six Chinese languages: German, French, Italian, Latin, English, Greek, and fluent in chemistry, zoology, botany, physics, and especially mathematics.Many people who don't know Carl Jr. think that he was born a genius.At the age of 9, he was admitted to the University of Leipzig.
At the age of 10, he entered the University of Göttingen.
12-year-old post** about the spiral.
At the age of 13, he published the book "Trigonometry".
At the age of 14, he was awarded a doctorate in philosophy for his outstanding submission in mathematics.
Do you think so?
Contrary! After little Carl was born, he was not very healthy, and when he was a baby, he was demented and sluggish.
But through the correct early education of Carl Sr. and his wife, the talented and brilliant little Carl was cultivated.
Because Carl Sr.'s parenting began before marriage. He chose the right woman as his wife, which was the first condition for raising children.
Secondly, when his wife was pregnant, he did a lot of meticulous work to welcome little Carl's arrival.
After Carl Jr. was born, he began his own training program - raising an all-round child.
Old Carl understood
There is a law of diminishing potential in children.What he did: was to put an end to the diminishing potential of Carl Jr. That is, we often say: let the child win at the starting line.
As the elder Karl said
No child is destined to be a genius by birth, and no child is destined to be mediocre all his life, everything depends on the acquired environment, on the cultivation and education of the acquired, and parents are the most direct and critical factors.Carl Sr. was undoubtedly a brilliant agriculturist, and even if he came across an ordinary seed, he could make it alive and thrive.
Conclusion: May every child be gently raised, let us help them stand taller, go farther, and run faster!
In the new year, I hope to grow together with my friends, read more beneficial parenting books, welcome to recommend what you think is a good book to me, thank you!
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