What you think is nonsense is actually the whole world in the eyes of children.
Shock! Have you ever felt helpless or even angry at your child's "nonsense" behavior? Don't worry, I'll tell you a story first.
Short story time: Xiao Ming's mother has had a headache recently, because Xiao Ming is always "messing around" at home, throwing toys everywhere, and often painting graffiti on the wall. Mom couldn't help but blame Xiao Ming, but Xiao Ming cried aggrievedly. Later, my mother learned in a psychological consultation that Xiao Ming's "nonsense" was actually exploring the world in his own way.
Psychological counselor's magical interpretation: Behind children's "nonsense" behavior, their curiosity and exploration of the world are often hidden. For example, when Xiao Ming throws a toy, he may be studying the trajectory of the object; He scribbles on the wall, perhaps expressing his inner emotions and imagination.
How to properly deal with children's "nonsense"?
1.Look at things from a different perspective: Try to understand your child's behavior from their point of view, and you'll discover a whole new world.
2.Encouragement and support: Give your child the right encouragement and support to explore and express themselves freely.
3.Set clear boundaries: Set behavioral boundaries for your child to be safe enough for them to learn to self-manage and discipline.
4.Seek professional help: If your child's behavioural problems persist and interfere with their daily lives, it is advisable to seek professional help such as counselling in a timely manner.
Remember, what you think is "nonsense" is wonderful in the eyes of children. Let's use love and patience to accompany them to grow up happily!