If the peasants have no land, can they still live?
Let me tell you about a gossip I heard when I went back to the village for the New Year, which dates back to five years ago, a teenager named Xiaoshuai (pseudonym), a month before the wedding, suddenly regretted marrying another woman, named Xiaomei (pseudonym).
The parents had no right to speak, so they had to return the money to compensate and so on, and owed a lot of debts, and then lent money to the girls of another family for a bride price, and came another lot of debts.
In any case, the son finally got married, and the old couple finally stopped, but it didn't take long for Xiaoshuai's father to be diagnosed with a cerebral thrombosis. Ever since he fell ill, his father stayed in the hut and did not talk or work, but fortunately he was able to take care of himself.
In order to make money to pay off the debt, Xiaoshuai went out to work, and Xiaomei also went back to her parents' house, ostensibly going back to raise a baby, but in fact she didn't get along with her mother-in-law.
Later, the child was born, Xiaoshuai temporarily worked at home as a farmer, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along day and night, but the contradiction deepened. Before the child learned to walk, Xiaoshuai and Xiaomei quarreled, during which the two fought, and the mother-in-law just stood aside to persuade the fight.
What is the reason for the quarrel? It's nothing more than Xiaomei marrying in to know that Xiaoshuai's family owes so many debts, and she looks rich on the surface, but in fact she is making money to pay off her debts every day.
After giving birth to a child, Xiaomei became more and more aggrieved, spit out bitterness, Xiaoshuai also did it with her, that day Xiaomei took the child back to her parents' house, Soon after, the two officially divorced, and there was really no hesitation. During this period, Xiaoshuai went to see the children several times, but was blocked by Xiaomei and her family, and was not allowed to see the children without living expenses!
Xiao Shuai really didn't give living expenses, and he no longer went to see the children. Half a year later, Xiaoshuai took his mother, sick father and village chief to pick up Xiaomei home, her mother-in-law kept crying and almost kowtowed, and her father-in-law was inarticulate and struggled to even talk and walk.
In a word: as long as you go home, let me do whatever I want.
Xiaomei's heart softened, after the divorce, she raised the children alone, and was reprimanded by the family, and she didn't live well, crying in the bed almost every night. So she proposed: Give me all the land in the family, my mother-in-law and father-in-law will move out to live, and give me 50,000 yuan, and I will pay the rest of the debt with Xiaoshuai.
The mother-in-law agreed without thinking about it, and soon took Xiaomei home with great fanfare, and then Xiaoshuai and Xiaomei went to remarry.
If the peasants have no land, it is like having no economy!
The mother-in-law left with her sick wife, and at this time all the family resources had been given to Xiaoshuai and Xiaomei, so the mother-in-law had to go out to work every day, earn a little money, pay the rent, buy medicine for the wife, and go back to see her grandson from time to time. In 2023, her mother-in-law can't stand it anymore, she lives with Lao Wang next door, and plans to live together for the rest of her life. Although my wife is sick, she is still not confused, and she can only watch her wife cheat in front of her, maybe her wife has done enough? Soon after, the mother-in-law threw her wife back to Xiaoshuai, and under the witness of the village chief (the village chief in the countryside is not easy to be), the mother and son signed a relationship to sever their relationship, saying that the two did not owe each other from then on. The premise is that the mother-in-law wants to give Xiaoshuai and Xiaomei 30,000 yuan, and Xiaoshuai agrees to take care of his father. This is not over, because my mother-in-law's card was tied to Xiaoshuai before, so I need to ask Xiaoshuai for subsistence allowance or social security money regularly, and I don't know the specifics. Xiaoshuai has to report to Xiaomei for everything, so that even if he signs a relationship to sever his relationship, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war broke out again.
It's just that this time it is Xiaoshuai who is taking the lead, he wants to sue his mother for bigamy, and his mother cohabits with others without divorce, which is a serious act of cheating, but this case involves a criminal case that is not handled locally and needs to be reported to the county. This is all that has happened so far, but it is embarrassing that the family will go to court and confront the court after the year. In the countryside, a small thing will be spread to a few nearby villages, and then continue to spread until something new appears. remembered that on the day her mother-in-law held a wedding for Xiaoshuai and Xiaomei, she was wearing a red dress and dotted the house just right, everyone called her a strong woman, and at that time she was still wearing makeup and live broadcast on Kuaishou every day.
However, after Xiaoshuai got married, the land was gone, the house was gone, and there was no fixed place to live, so he didn't care about his daughter or son, so he had to wander outside, and when he had no livelihood, he still sent his wife back to his son, hoping that he would take care of his father for the rest of his life with only the last kindness. For cheating, or is it helpless? Or to find a support for the future retirement life, this is not known. Let's talk about Xiaomei, knowing that Xiaoshuai is about to get married or choose to be with him, I don't know if she was deceived or what, after marrying, she found that her in-laws had so many debts, although she vomited bitterness, she never really wanted to leave, but that time Xiaoshuai beat her, so she lost hope for marriage, so she chose to divorce. As for remarriage, she has no education, no job, holding a child who has not grown up, and facing daily scolding from her parents.
What about Xiaoshuai? is about to get married, what does his sudden regret of marriage make that girl lose face? Especially in the rural areas with a good face, when everyone knows each other more or less, after the man regrets his marriage, some gossip will arise, and everyone will accuse the woman of not doing it. How many people did Xiaoshuai sacrifice for his own happiness? The debts behind his parents are repaid, and others have to bear the trouble he caused by his willfulness. After the divorce, he did not give his ex-wife Xiaomei and children living expenses; After remarrying, he turned his face and didn't recognize anyone, and kicked his parents out of the house. His mother wanted to cut him off, but he filed a lawsuit, where did he put the person who gave birth to him and raised him?
And Xiaoshuai's sister, whoever is strong will stand on whose side, and she doesn't care about her younger brother or parents during this period. Because there is a custom in the countryside that parents will live with their sons, it is not surprising that all the property of the parents belongs to the son, so the elder sister thinks that she will not get a share of the property in the future and will not wade into this troubled water. Is this the so-called raising children to prevent old age? It's really anti-old, it's gone before it's old, if there is no son, maybe the old couple at least has a place to live, and a piece of land of their own.