"Those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed" comes from Jia Yi's "New Book" in the Han Dynasty, which means that if you use love to others, others will definitely repay you with love in the future; If you use your money, wisdom, etc., to help others, and give your blessings, you will receive even greater blessings in the future. It expresses the beautiful vision of caring for and helping each other.
This philosophy has a long history, as early as in the ancient Chinese "Book of Rites", there is "courtesy is still exchanged, but not coming, it is not polite; It is also rude to come and not to communicate". It is not only a criterion for social interaction, but also an attitude towards life. In modern society, this philosophy still has far-reaching guiding significance.
I have a friend who is a volunteer who has been involved in various public welfare activities for a long time, delivering books and educational resources to children in poor areas. She never asks for anything in return, just gives silently. However, her acts of kindness have brought her unexpected rewards. Not only did she meet many like-minded friends during her volunteer activities, but she was also widely recognized by the society, and even a publishing house took the initiative to contact her, hoping to write her public welfare story into a book for publication. This example vividly illustrates the truth that "those who love love to return".
There was once a wealthy businessman who was good at dancing in the mall and amassed a huge fortune, but he ignored the "courtesy exchange" in interpersonal communication. He always treats the people around him with a condescending attitude, turning a blind eye to the help and care of others, and over time, he finds himself more and more isolated and has fewer and fewer friends around him. This example warns us that if we only know how to take and are not willing to give, we will only end up in a lonely situation.
AbsolutelyNor can we simply understand that "those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed" as a utilitarian mentality. At the heart of this philosophy is the emphasis on mutual care and help between people, rather than the pursuit of material rewards. When we give sincerely, we often reap inner satisfaction and joy, which is a precious treasure that cannot be measured by money.
Andy in the TV series "Ode to Joy" is a good example. She is a successful strong woman, but she is not indifferent to it. She often helps her friends solve problems, whether it is a difficult life or a challenge at work, she always lends a helping hand generously. Although she never expected anything in return, her friends remembered her well and did not hesitate to support her when she needed it. This kind of friendship of mutual support and common growth is the best embodiment of "those who love to return".
Similarly, in the famous novel "Dream of Red Mansions", the emotional entanglement between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu also reflects this philosophy. Although their love ended in tragedy, the love and warmth they gave in the process of getting along became the most precious memory in their hearts. Although their love did not end happily in the world, they received deep understanding and support from each other spiritually. This kind of spiritual abundance and satisfaction is also a manifestation of "those who love to return".
To sum up, "those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed" is not only a criterion for interpersonal communication, but also an attitude towards life. It tells us that we should learn to give kindness and love in life, because such dedication will eventually bring positive feedback. At the same time, we should also cherish those who are willing to pay for us, because their existence is the greatest blessing in our lives. Let's build a better world together through mutual care and help!
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