Title: Healing and Revelation in Pain: Understanding the Fade Out of Extramarital Love.
Recently, an emotional story on the Internet has attracted everyone's attention. Among them, the protagonists have crossed the gap of time when they meet, and they are facing different stages of their lives, although they admire each other, but they have never been able to become partners bound by fate. When it comes to emotional trends, men tend to treat departed women in ways that are gradually cold, vexatious, and seeking greater benefits, which brings great psychological trauma to them. This makes me wonder what is hidden behind the way men treat women in extramarital affairs?
1. From bland to alienated: gradually cold type.
This is the most common and heartbreaking way to fade out. At first, the two were in love and the relationship was like glue, but as time went by, the boy's enthusiasm gradually cooled down, you took the initiative to contact, he responded perfunctorily, you tried to find a topic, and he was indifferent. is like the heroine Xiaoli in the story, her boyfriend once pursued her passionately and confessed to her affectionately, but after half a year, Xiaoli gradually discovered that her boyfriend was no longer the man who made her heart move. The boy began to find all kinds of excuses to avoid Xiaoli, and he didn't even answer **, and the text message reply was also very casual. This feeling of drifting away is like a cold blade piercing a woman's unhealed wound, causing them to fall into endless grief.
2. From calm to irritable: vexatious type.
In the face of the fading out of feelings, some men will choose to break out suddenly, unreasonably criticize and blame women, and may even use violence to solve problems. Women who are treated in this way are often physically and mentally devastated, feeling overwhelmed and mentally discouraged, and eventually have to leave in disgrace. Another heroine in the story, Anan, has suffered from similar problems. After living together for a year, she found that her boyfriend's behavior had become abnormal, often yelling at her, and being critical of her appearance, clothing, personality, etc.
3. From Righteous to Immoral: Seeking Compensation.
When ending an extramarital relationship, this type of man not only asks the woman to bear all the pain alone, but also asks for financial compensation or other forms of benefits. During this period, they may take advantage of the woman's fear and weakness to threaten or intimidate in order to achieve self-interest. This is undoubtedly an extremely despicable act. If you are in such a predicament, don't be moved, stick to your bottom line, and speak up.