There are three manifestations of disrespect for parents, the most serious of which is the absence of offspring. Those who do not marry and have children can be considered as having no contribution to the country!
The famous CCTV host Zhang Hongmin, although he is old, was viciously spoken of by netizens because he had no children before, and became a hot search topic.
Zhang Hongmin, the "golden voice" of "News Network", who has never made a mistake in the past 32 years, is eager to choose the life he really wants. Could it be that in the eyes of netizens, not getting married and not having children necessarily means that it is abnormal?
In 1961, Zhang Hongmin was born in a scholarly Beijing family, his father was the director of the first TV station at that time, and his mother was the director of the kindergarten affiliated to Tsinghua University.
He grew up in a warm family environment and was influenced by his mother, who, like his siblings, developed an unsmiling and conscientious character.
Although he excelled in elementary school, he made a surprising decision in the college entrance examination: he gave up the opportunity of Tsinghua University and Peking University and chose to enter the Communication University of China to study hosting.
Under the influence of his father, he aspired to become a TV host, which was his dream. During his university years, Zhang Hongmin remained tireless, focusing on theoretical studies and actively participating in club activities to hone his acting skills.
In 1982, Zhang Hongmin graduated from university as he wished, and successfully entered ** TV station as a host.
When he first started working, he had to practice hundreds of times in advance every day for fear of making mistakes on the show.
In his spare time, Zhang Hongmin also likes to communicate with people from different professions to enrich his speech and demeanor, and often asks the old hosts for advice to learn their calm and dignified hosting style.
In 1999, Zhang Hongmin spontaneously asked to temporarily preside over the news of the bombing of the Federal Republic of Yugoslavia, and he calmly conveyed important information and showed the demeanor of a senior host.
Over the years, he has helped young presenters grow up by word and deed, and viewers can immediately recognize him as "News Network" when they hear his strong voice, and he has become a symbol of the show.
Despite Zhang Hongmin's successful career, he is still unmarried, which worries his parents. Zhang Hongmin has an introverted personality and has a wide range of contacts, and has made many friends from different circles, but he has not found a suitable partner.
He devoted himself to his work, but rarely cared about his love life, and the people around him gradually realized that Zhang Hongmin might have a fear of marriage.
CCTV was in its infancy in the 80s, and Zhang Hongmin's newcomers were still exploring.
In order to familiarize himself with the rules of the industry as soon as possible, Zhang Hongmin often spontaneously worked overtime, using his off-duty time to study the tone and typhoon of the predecessor host.
He knew he had a long career ahead of him, and he was determined not to let the nerves and ignorance of his fledgling career knock him out.
It wasn't long before the effort paid off. In the mid-80s of the 20th century, Zhang Hongmin attracted attention with his standard Mandarin and friendly image, and was selected as one of the main hosts of the most important news program at that time, "News Network".
Since 1987, he has shone on the country's most watched news platform.
Zhang Hongmin officially served as the chief host of "News Network" in the early 90s, and formed a much-loved CCTV at that time with his partner Li Ruiying"Gold Combination"。
Zhang Hong showed a very steady demeanor when hosting news programs, and he was able to control the atmosphere and rhythm of the live broadcast just right, giving people a sense of reliability and authority.
At the same time, Zhang Hongmin's image has also become an iconic symbol of this era, and his short hair and suit style show a new cultural self-confidence.
Zhang Hongmin's temperament of rationality, progress and righteousness is transmitted in a fixed period of time every day, which makes Chinese full of confidence in the future.
In 2009, Zhang Hongmin finally won the "Golden Microphone Award", the highest honor in the broadcasting and hosting industry, which is an affirmation of his unremitting efforts and dedication for more than 30 years.
However, while Zhang Hongmin succeeded in his career, it did come at the expense of his love.
He thinks that if he falls in love, he will definitely have an impact on such a rigorous and solemn job as CCTV hosting.
The failure of the marriages of the colleagues around him made him regard marriage as a "flood beast" even more, which directly led to him not getting married for so many years, and he never even fell in love once.
Zhang Hongmin did not expect that his concept of unmarriage would cause a lot of controversy later.
In 2014, he announced his retirement from front-line work and shifted his focus to training younger generations, when he was 53 years old.
Zhang Hongmin ended his 32-year broadcasting career at News Network and stepped back from the front line to the second line, shifting his focus to training the younger generation, passing on his rich experience without reservation.
Zhang Hongmin finally has the opportunity to enjoy the leisure time in life, because the pace of work has slowed down.
He began to learn how to be a good son, often going home to visit his elderly parents, chatting with them and going for walks.
The parents were both deeply touched by their son's meticulous care – the boy could finally be freed from his burdens and embark on the journey of his life, which they had been looking forward to for decades.
While accompanying his parents, Zhang Hongmin lives a colorful life, and he actively participates in public welfare undertakings, infecting and helping more people with his influence.
In his spare time, he also works out with the elderly people in the community, dances square dances, and enjoys a happy and harmonious life.
Despite his great achievements, Zhang Hongmin chose a very different path from "mainstream values" when it came to marriage and childbearing, a decision that led to criticism after his retirement.
His ** tasting ice cream alone has become a clear proof of his "loneliness and failure".
Zhang Hongmin never cared about such remarks, because he clearly knew that among the people who commented on him, how many of them had reached the achievements he had achieved in his career?
The possibilities of life are diverse and should not be fixed into one definition. Mr. Zhang Hongmin has loved journalism all his life, and he regards it as the whole of his life, and he does not need the approval of others.
Zhang Hongmin is old, but still full of vitality, and he has pointed his dream in a new direction.
He registered an account on Douyin and used the platform to share knowledge and insights about traditional Chinese culture, bringing peace to this noisy and chaotic world with his unique sound texture.
In the long journey of life, Zhang Hongmin chose to be his true self and lived his true self.
He understood that life is not about being praised by everyone, but about deeply understanding the true meaning of life.
When confronted with criticism, we should firmly choose to continue to move forward in our own way.
Everyone has their own understanding and pursuit of life, and we should not demand or judge others by our own standards, but should respect everyone's choices.
Understanding and inclusion can make this colorful life even better, because life itself is as colorful as a kaleidoscope.