Among the five brothers and sisters of the Qiao family, if you want to be a general among the short people, then Qiao Sanli is undoubtedly the happiest and smoothest person. Although she chose to marry the ordinary-looking Wang Yiding, although Wang Yiding hides the complex entanglements of the original family behind her, Qiao Sanli has depicted a bright future for the small family of the two with her tenacity and wisdom. In ordinary life, she is like a flower that blooms hard, showing us what is the wisdom of life.
The dilapidated radio made Qiao Sanli and Wang Yiding form an indissoluble bond. In the eyes of others, Wang Yiding may not be amazing, silent, and even ridiculed by Simei as "difficult to look", but he has a pair of skillful hands. Whether it's repairing radios and bicycles, repairing roofs or making wooden chairs, he knows it all. This innate skill has added a lot of color to his life.
The two people who had no heart naturally approached, and since the day they joined hands, Wang Yiding had given all his salary to Qiao Sanli. Qiao Sanli carefully arranged the expenses of the two, and at the same time saved money bit by bit like ants nesting. There are no scandals, no quarrels between them, only deep emotions and mutual dependence.
However, their lives are not entirely uneventful. The mystery of Wang Yiding's life history has always been a sore point in their relationship. It turned out that Wang Yiding was not the biological flesh and blood of the Wang family. During an inadvertent conversation, the secret is revealed by Joe Sanli. She found out that Wang Yiding was actually the adopted son adopted by the Wang family from the orphanage.
Before this truth was revealed, Qiao Sanli did her best to take care of her mother-in-law when she was seriously ill, showing her kindness and filial piety. Even though there is some friction with her mother-in-law in ordinary life, at the last moment of her mother-in-law's life, she always stays in front of the bed, works tirelessly to serve her mother-in-law, wipes her body and cooks delicious food. This kindness from the heart made her show a family affection that transcended blood in front of her mother-in-law.
At the moment before her mother-in-law died, she finally explained the reason why she had been harsh to Wang Yiding for many years. It turned out that the Wang family had no children under their knees, and in order to block the gossip of the neighbors, they brought back a baby boy from the orphanage and named him Wang Yiding. In the beginning, they treated it as their own and loved it. But with the advent of his own son, Wang Yiding's status in the family took a sharp turn for the worse. He went from being a much-loved child to a marginalized member of the family.
However, Qiao Sanli was not crushed by this cruel reality. She chose to fight side by side with Wang Yiding to face the challenges of life together. She uses her strength and wisdom to seek a better future for this small family. Her persistence and hard work finally brought happiness and smoothness to them. The truth of Yiding's birth has never been revealed.
Therefore, when Sanli and Yiding fall in love, Yiding obeys Sanli's arrangement and the salary is also handed over to Sanli, which makes Yiding's mother feel extremely uneasy. In addition, on the anniversary of their relationship, Sanli used her savings to buy an expensive BP machine for Yiding, which made Yiding's mother angrily scold Yiding, "The wool is out of the sheep, you use your own money to buy you things", she almost wanted to kick the "scheming" girl out of the house. However, Sanli's ingenuity is on full display in the confrontation with her mother-in-law.
In the process of talking about marriage, Sanli officially visited for the first time. Before coming to the door, Qiao's family held a formal family meeting, and there was only one topic to discuss - how to deal with Yiding's mother, because she was not easy to deal with, and worried that Sanli would be wronged in her future life. However, Sanli soon sees through the hypocritical mask of Yiding's mother, and at the same time discovers Yiding's filial piety. The first thing she did was to plan for the future of the two of them with Yiding.
At that time, the efficiency of the textile mill was not good. Despite this, Yiding is still a key training target for the factory leaders, who plan to recommend him to become a model worker in the city, and may even enter the middle management or become the factory director in the future. But at that time, the textile mill could no longer pay bonuses. So, Sanli suggested that Yiding quit his job in the textile factory and go to the joint venture to become a skilled worker. In those days, that meant giving up a stable iron job to pursue an unknown future.
However, Sanli did not force Yiding to do this, but had an in-depth discussion with him: "You have professional skills, you can go out and break through." At the moment my salary is enough for both of us. If it succeeds, of course, it's best, if not, we're still young and can start over. Although Yiding's mother strongly objected to this, Yiding did what Sanli suggested. In order to let Yiding change careers without any worries, Sanli also took out her savings to pay the original liquidated damages for him.
In the days that followed, the life of the young couple gradually got on the right track. Although life after marriage did not go well at first, because their savings were not enough to hold the wedding, Sanli reassured Yiding that a simple trip was also a good choice. They went to Suzhou for a tour, and the entrance fees for the attractions there cost only a dime per person, which made them feel very classy. As time passed, the two of them lived more and more comfortably, and their original plans for the future finally came true.
If this marriage has added a bit of sweetness because of Sanli's efforts, then the next contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has undoubtedly cast a thick haze on the family. Once, Wang Yiding asked Sanli in confusion: "They all say 'little boy, eldest grandson, the lifeblood of the elderly', why can't I and my children get the slightest love from their parents?" Behind this sentence, there are two sad things hidden.
First of all, Wang Yiding's younger brother took a rich daughter, and in order to make their son's income more beautiful, Yiding's parents did not hesitate to empty their family. What's even more chilling is that Yiding's mother actually transferred the BP machine, a token of love given by Sanli to Yiding, to her youngest son as a tool for him to support the façade.
No matter how much Yiding dotes on his younger brother, he will inevitably feel a little uncomfortable. Fortunately, Sanli decisively stood up for her husband. She said indifferently: "Then give the BP machine to my brother, it's okay." However, the little girl now has a high vision, and she has to have real talent to learn. Even if you have a high-level BP machine, if you don't have real skills, it's useless. This passage is both a relief and a wake-up call.
Secondly, after the couple had a son, Yiding's mother never paid attention to it, and never gave red envelopes even during the New Year's holidays. In contrast, on the Qiao family's side, because Qiao's father himself is useless, the two can only take on the responsibility of raising the child by themselves. Sanli simply quit her job for the sake of her children and took care of her family wholeheartedly. However, this also caused a lot of dissatisfaction from Yiding's mother: "They all say that lazy women are lazy mothers-in-law, and I have never seen such lazy women." The sun is all on my buttocks, and I'm still lying in bed. The father-in-law and mother-in-law became the second shopkeeper, and after serving the old, they had to serve the younger ones, and finally they had to serve the daughter-in-law. Faced with such pickiness, Sanli responded calmly: "What's wrong with me just sleeping lazy for a while?" I'm enjoying the blessings of my man, and I'm not in the way of others. This sentence is not only a rebuttal, but also a kind of persistence and protection.
Yiding never dared to disobey his mother because he remembered that his mother was kind to him when he was a child; The reason why Sanli behaved a little "mean" was because while honoring her in-laws, she resolutely did not let the hand of her original family reach into the small family. She didn't want Yiding to bend for the rest of her life because of those distant sweet memories. Sanli may not have thought that she couldn't move out at first because the economic conditions didn't allow it, and then she couldn't leave because she couldn't let go of the old man.
Now the health of these two old men is not as good as before. In life, we often encounter some sudden changes, just like the collapse of a mountain that cannot be resisted. The accidental fall of his father-in-law not only left him with permanent steel nails in his legs, but also made his body deteriorate. And Yiding's mother's body also collapsed unconsciously, and when she was attacked by the disease, it had reached the point of no return.
At this time, the old man revealed the mystery of Yiding's life experience, and her purpose was not to repent or seek forgiveness, but out of plea to her daughter-in-law, hoping that she could see that Yiding had always kept to herself, and never gave up. But in reality, the family's difficulties did not end there. Because between Yiding and Sanli, there is a deep secret.
A car accident made Yiding lose his ability as a man, and Sanli did not hesitate to go all the way to Beijing for medical treatment for his illness. She silently endured the pain of the decoction and the torment of emaciation, hoping only to get Yiding back on her feet. But as time passed, Sanli's state of mind also changed.
She had suffered a ** injury, and that painful experience left an indelible shadow on her. With Yiding's company and care, she gradually stepped out of the shadows and bravely faced her shortcomings. This trust and understanding allowed them to find an indescribable tacit understanding and attachment in their marriage.
Although Sanli's marriage was not perfect, she lived happily. She and Yiding have worked hard to save a family business and do not hesitate to lend a helping hand to their siblings when they need help. This sincere affection and dedication proves that happiness does not depend on the perfection of the marriage, but on the understanding and support between each other.
In Qiao's family, Sanli has always been that warm soul, no matter when and where, she always provides solid support and comfort for her sister. When Qiao Yicheng's marriage was in trouble, Sanli gave advice with a deep understanding and love: "Brother, between husband and wife, material things are important, but more important is to think in one place and work hard in one place. ”
Marriage is a common life topic for the five brothers and sisters of the Qiao family. Four siblings who have been emotionally wounded understand the difficulties of marriage. However, Sanli found her own happiness with her unpretentious attitude to life. She understands that marriage is not vigorous, but finds the strength to go on with her partner in the ordinary.
For love, Sanli has her own unique understanding: keep your eyes open and choose a person who is worth entrusting for life; Keep your heart and don't let external interference affect the stability of your marriage; Operate with sincerity, because in the end, the love in marriage may have been transformed into family affection and friendship; Accept and enjoy the bland, because that's the normal state of life.
Qiao Yicheng once thought that love could ** his inner inferiority, while Qiao Simei was immersed in the romantic fantasy of an idol drama. Only Sanli realized early that the essence of marriage is blandness. She understands that true love is not afraid of peace, but is as fragile as building a tower on sand. In this impetuous world, Sanli's wisdom injects tenacity and tranquility into her marriage.
Everyone's interpretation and pursuit of love are different, but as long as you feel and manage with your heart, you can eventually find your own happiness. Just as Sanli did, let us all follow the example of her wisdom and bravely pursue a beautiful life of our own.