Crush, an emotion silently buried in the bottom of the heart, it is not only a lonely battlefield for a person, but also an unforgettable treasure in the heart. Although he didn't dare to show it, he was a sincere love and showed his true feelings to the person he loved. Even if you don't say it, even if you only know it, even if you think it's well hidden, but in countless moments, deep affection will still be inadvertently revealed. The gaze involuntarily follows the loved one, and the mood rises and falls, and the emotions surge because of it. The reason why the crush is unique is that the emotions it expresses are subtle and subtle, but it is inadvertently glimpsed by others. If someone is around you with these signs, there is no doubt that he is silently loving you.
Crushes are often reluctant to speak out about their love, but they crave more time with their loved ones. So, they will deliberately create a seemingly natural contact in an attempt to bring the two closer together. For example, in "Ode to Joy", Guan Juer's brother always tries to invite her to the alumni reunion or return home together; In "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", the fat man even pulled her best friend in order to watch the exhibition with Shen Jiayi. However, no matter how much you disguise it, the traces of deliberateness will eventually be revealed. Because I like it, because I want to be close to each other, the original intention in my heart will never change. Sometimes, even if you argue, it's to get the other person's attention. As mentioned in the romance ** "To Our Dying Youth", the female protagonist will occasionally take some dramatic actions in order to attract the attention of the male protagonist. Although the male protagonist warned her, this kind of deliberate contact, whether the other party is willing or not, is essentially hoping to increase the intersection of each other and sow the seeds of friendship into the flowers of love.
Crushes often get emotionally out of control because love often has a huge impact on a person's emotions. Be happy with the happiness of the other person and be sad with the sadness of the other person. In a crush, people will try to make their loved one happy, because seeing others happy is also their own happiness. is like the Nihuang County Lord's feelings for Mei Changsu in "Langya Bang", her emotions are affected by Mei Changsu's health condition. Whenever Mei Changsu's condition improved, she felt a little relieved; Every time her condition deteriorated, she felt heartache. Similarly, Yuan Xiangqin in "Mischievous Kiss" is also swayed by Jiang Naoki's attitude. Every time Jiang Naoki's indifference and rejection made her feel sad, but a trace of care and response could make her regain her strength. This psychological phenomenon is similar to the Aronson effect in psychology, that is, a negative attitude when the reward decreases and a positive attitude when the reward increases. In love, people are willing to pay for each other, because the emotional bond makes their emotions controlled by each other, and joy will follow them, and they are willing to pay for each other unconditionally, because seeing each other happy is their greatest happiness.
Crush is a long and endless road, you can only move forward step by step, looking for the traces of happiness alone. Love was originally a beautiful thing for two people, but it has become a one-man show. Although you can't boldly confess your love and can't clearly express your concern, the feeling of liking someone is hard to hide, and you are happy to give it. This is the charm of a crush, but also its helplessness. In life, we will meet all kinds of people, some like, some hate, and more tempting. If you meet someone you like, you might as well be bold and confident. Crush is bitter, but it's not the only way out. Life is short, don't let the flower of love wither in your heart, and don't live up to your true feelings.