It is said that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, but she used her weak shoulders to carry the four sick old people, and she never thought of giving up. It was still dark and dreary, and Zhang Huan began a busy day. She boiled her mother and grandfather's Chinese medicine in a casserole, and hurried to make breakfast for the family. After breakfast was ready, Zhang Huan hurriedly cleaned up his grandmother, left his grandparents' breakfast, and then rode an electric car to the hospital.
The front of the hospital was deserted, with only a few people entering and leaving. Zhang Huan came to the ward where his grandfather was, looked at the pale on his cheeks, and couldn't help but feel distressed. Grandpa is already in the terminal stage of cancer, and the doctor told him that the operation has been ineffective, and he can only take a conservative ** way to continue his last life. For Grandpa, hospitalization was the only option.
Grandma's condition is getting worse day by day, Zhang Huan takes care of his grandfather's physical condition, so he can only choose to leave his grandmother at home and come to the hospital to take care of his grandfather. Fortunately, my grandfather only has a heart attack, and he can still move, so he can help take care of his grandmother. Zhang Huan just cooks for them on time every day, and scrubs her grandmother's body in the morning and evening.
Originally, Zhang Huan also had an aunt, but her aunt died in a car accident a few years ago. The white-haired man sent the black-haired man's heartache, which made my grandfather directly suffer a heart attack and almost die. My grandmother was also mentally stimulated and often delirious. Therefore, the responsibility of taking care of his grandparents is left on Zhang Huan's mother alone.
More than a year has passed, and Zhang Huan's mother is physically and mentally exhausted because of taking care of three elderly people, and she also collapsed. After examination, Zhang Huan's mother had neurofibroma and had to be hospitalized**. Zhang Huan's uncle also died of illness, she was an only child, and she was the only healthy person in the family, so all the burden of the family fell on her alone.
Zhang Huan also has a family, a husband and children, in the face of sudden changes in the family, her husband earns money every day to take care of the baby, Zhang Huan quit her job and takes care of four sick elderly people at home full-time. Every day is busy, but the old man's condition is getting worse day by day. She is not afraid of hard work, she is afraid of the pain of losing her loved ones. She only hopes that with her hard work, she can reduce the pain of her relatives.
However, fate is always like a clown who plays tricks on people, and when she thinks she has reached her limit, misfortune befalls her again. That day, Zhang Huan went to the hospital, and when his grandfather went out to the door to buy vegetables, an accident happened.
My grandmother took advantage of the fact that when no one was around, she tried to climb up the window and jumped from the window and committed suicide. By the time my grandfather returned, it was already too late. Grandpa was so grief-stricken that he kept calling his grandmother's name, but there was no response.
When Zhang Huan heard the news, he couldn't believe his ears. My grandmother had confided in me several times that she wanted to commit suicide. "It's too difficult for people to live, and it's better to drag down these juniors. "Grandma always said that.
Zhang Huan understands the pain of his grandmother, one of his two daughters died in a car accident, one was hospitalized, his grandmother was paralyzed in bed, and his grandfather's heart attack required high expenses. She could only continue to comfort her grandmother: "As long as you live, there is hope, grandma, don't worry, I can take care of it." ”
However, the truth is cruel, and her efforts cannot change the fate of the old man. Looking at her grandmother's cold body, Zhang Huan couldn't help but burst into tears. At this moment, she cried loudly, wanting to cry out all her grievances, why is life so difficult!
Maybe this is the sorrow of an only child, the only child who has been loved by thousands of people since childhood, when the elderly are suffering from illness, who can help them with their loneliness and loneliness? If there are brothers and sisters, they can have more helpers, but Zhang Huan doesn't.
Grandma Fu's point of view:
1.Zhang Huan is an admirable person who has put in great effort and sacrifice to take care of four sick elderly people. Not only does she have to take care of their daily lives, but she also has to bear the psychological pressure and mental burden. She proved her selfless care and sense of responsibility for her relatives with her actions, and was a good daughter and wife who was filial.
2.Zhang Huan's experience shows the helplessness and loneliness of an only child in the difficult situation of the family. She has no siblings to share the responsibility of caring for the elderly, and everything falls to her alone. This prevents her from getting proper rest and support, which can easily lead to physical and mental exhaustion. It also raises questions about the stress and mental health issues that only children face.
Aunt Fan's point of view:
1.Zhang Huan's decision was unwise, she gave up her work and personal life to devote all her time and energy to taking care of the elderly. This not only put financial pressure on herself, but also deprived her of the opportunity to pursue her dreams and development. She should look for other solutions, such as hiring a home caregiver or placing the elderly person in a nursing home.
2.Zhang Huan's behavior is not advisable, she should stick to her boundaries and bottom line. The health of her parents and elders is their own responsibility and should not be borne by her alone. She should learn to protect her physical and mental health, while building a systematic support network where family responsibilities are shared and shared.
Legal Opinion 1According to article 199 of the Criminal Code, suicide is a violation of the law, but because of the unstable mental state of the grandmother, it may not be legally possible to hold her responsible, but her family should be provided with psychological counseling and assistance.
2.According to article 32 of the Marriage Law, husband and wife have the obligation to support each other, and Zhang Huan's husband should provide more family support and help when she needs to take care of four elderly people.
3.When Zhang Huan's uncle dies, the inheritance should be handled by relevant legal procedures to protect Zhang Huan's legitimate rights and interests.
4.Zhang Huan's mother, who is physically and mentally exhausted from taking care of three elderly people, can apply for Medicaid and other related social assistance to alleviate her financial pressure.
5.For Zhang Huan to take care of the four sick elderly people full-time, you can consult the community or relevant institutions to find out whether there is relevant social assistance to reduce their financial burden and reduce the pressure on their lives.