What was the reaction of the relatives after the examination was disembarked? I heard that the seven aunts and eight aunts are all angry!
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After being admitted to public office, the relatives have different reactions.
The so-called distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, even if they are admitted to public office. Zhang Ming was admitted to a provincial public office, which caused a lot of repercussions among his relatives. The voice of blessing was mixed with a hint of imperceptible emotion. Some relatives are proud of Zhang Ming's success, while others are disappointed and envious because their children do not have such achievements.
1. Envy and disappointment:
Aunt Li and Zhang Ming are distant relatives, and his child Xiaogang is the same age as Zhang Ming, but his career has not been very good. On the other hand, Xiao Gang is a graduate of a vocational college who currently works in a small company with a mediocre salary and no prospects. Aunt Li heard that Zhang Ming was so powerful, and she didn't know what it was like. I have to say that Zhang Ming can enter the state organs at such a young age, and his future achievements are absolutely limitless. And his children are at home all day long, playing and playing, and they don't have any motivation at all. Aunt Li reprimanded Xiao Gang in Xiao Gang's **, which made his heart heavy. He knew he didn't have many opportunities, but Zhang's victory gave him more motivation. He rethought his future and decided that he couldn't just stay in his current position, but also changed jobs.
2. Satisfaction and unbalanced emotions:
Zhang Ming's other relative is Uncle Wang, and his daughter Xiaofang is also working in **, but in terms of work, her status is lower than Zhang Ming. Uncle Wang has long wanted his daughter to make a difference in her career. Zhang Ming was able to achieve such great results, Fu Rongqi was happy for Feng Yu's success, and he was also proud of Feng Yu's success. He secretly said in his heart, he is also an official, why is his daughter not as good as him? Xiaofang saw her father's thoughts, and was not only proud of her work, but also felt that she still lacked a lot. She made up her mind that she must study hard and be promoted as soon as possible, so that she can be worthy of her father.
The changes brought about by Zhang Ming's achievements.
Zhang Ming's achievements are not only the progress of his own career, but also have a certain effect on the thoughts and behaviors of his relatives to a certain extent. His relatives may have been stung by some degree of contrast. In an era of fierce competition, anyone's achievements will be compared by others. But the key is how to look at this contrast, how to turn it into a push.
1. The transformation of the way of thinking and the way of thinking:
After a period of hard work, Zhang Ming has achieved good results in his work, and has gradually won the affirmation of his peers and superiors. And several other relatives are slowly getting used to it, and some people even asked Zhang Ming if he wanted to take the civil service exam. Zhang Ming patiently shared his experience with everyone and encouraged them to boldly pursue their ideals. With his positive guidance, the mentality of fellow relatives has also changed, and they have a new view of victory. They begin to realize that each person has their own unique path in life, and that comparisons and jealousy are just a waste of time. Only by focusing on your purpose will your life be better.
2. Stimulate people's fighting spirit and stimulate their fighting spirit.
Zhang Ming's victory not only played an invisible role among his relatives, but also aroused a strong desire to fight among his relatives. Aunt Li's child, Xiao Gang, realized that his good years had been wasted, and he decided to change his career. Uncle Wang's daughter, Xiaofang, is proud of her work, but she is also aware of her shortcomings. Inspired by Zhang Ming's success, they all want to take the initiative to improve their current situation and seek a higher career development.
Conclusion: In such a competitive world, people are free to choose their own careers and develop themselves. We need to approach everyone with optimism. Zhang Ming's experience makes us understand that no matter what others think, our lives must be mastered by our own efforts and perseverance. It also makes us understand that success is not just a personal thing, but has a profound impact on the people around us. In the midst of contentment and imbalance, we should see in this achievement the potential and motivation for change. You must know that everyone has their own ambitions, everyone has their own ambitions, everyone has their own ambitions, and they can only limit your development. Only by focusing on your purpose and unleashing your potential can you create a good life.
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