There is a movie star in the Chinese film industry who is loved by everyone, and some people say that he "except for the display is low, the others are top-of-the-line", he is Huang Bo.
He became the Golden Horse Award actor twice, won the Huading Award, was nominated for the Hundred Flowers Award several times, and won other awards even softly. Born from the grassroots, he grew up all the way and was elected vice chairman of the China Film Association.
Huang Bo is a typical representative of the "ugly star", but he is deeply loved by the audience, in addition to his superb acting skills and enthusiasm for public welfare, his witty and humorous high emotional intelligence is also indispensable.
Once, Ma Yun and Huang Bo participated in an event on the same stage, and Ma Yun asked Huang Bo: "How do I look?" "It's hard to answer this question positively, saying that it's good-looking will be a sycophant, and a big boss must want to save face.
Huang Bo thought for a while and smiled slightly: "I think the two of us should be about the same." ”
Now throw the question back to Ma Yun, whether you are handsome or not, it depends on what you think of me.
Such an answer will not embarrass the other party, and there is no flattery, Ma Yun was amazed by his answer, and netizens also praised Huang Bo's emotional intelligence is too high.
This is not the first time Huang Bo has confronted Boss Ma, as early as 2014, the two were invited to participate in the financial program "Dialogue" to discuss the future Internet ecosystem.
Ma Yun said, "We need a spokesperson, how about you give us an endorsement for free?" ”
As we all know, celebrities have teams, and they can't decide their own activities privately, let alone endorsements for free.
That's a bit tricky.
However, if he refused on the spot, he would refute Boss Ma's face.
Huang Bo said: "Of course you can, but you have to give me a car." ”
Ma Yun immediately asked: "What car?" ”
Huang Bo said: "A shopping cart that you can empty at any time. ”
This answer is very witty and will not make it difficult for the team, but he has already used the "shopping cart" to promote Alibaba when answering the question, Ma Yun nodded again and again, admiring his high emotional intelligence.
is so witty, not only will not let the other party not get off the stage, but he will not lose his share, there are many times like this, and the excellent on-the-spot reaction resolved the tricky scene, making the audience call out that the emotional intelligence is too high.
At the 50th Golden Horse Awards ceremony, Huang Bo and Zheng Yuling hosted on the same stage.
Seeing that Huang Bo was dressed very casually, Zheng Yuling teased him: "Why did you come here in your pajamas." ”
Huang Bo smiled, and Zheng Yuling continued: "You see that I haven't come to the Golden Horse Awards for five years, and I am dressed very grandly, like Tony Leung, Jackie Chan, and Andy Lau sitting in the audience. ”
Huang Bo immediately took over the words and said: "Yes, you haven't come to the Golden Horse Awards for five years, I come every year, just like going back to my own home, of course I dress casually in my own home, and the guests go to other people's homes, so I need to dress ceremoniously." ”
When the audience and celebrities heard this answer, they all laughed and sent warm applause.
His answer not only shows his strength as a Golden Horse actor, but also advances and retreats in a certain way, which will not embarrass the other party.
In fact, the so-called high emotional intelligence is also the result of years of tempering at the bottom of society.
Huang Bo has been a bar singer for many years, a dance coach, film and television dubbing, rooted in the grassroots and dealing with many people of all kinds. He can understand the state of mind as a small person very well, so his on-the-spot reaction is both witty and humorous, but also tolerant and kind.
He has never relied on his appearance, he became famous in one fell swoop from "Crazy Stone", and along the way, flowers and thorns coexist, only he knows how much he has suffered.
"Bullfighting" won the Golden Horse actor, and Huang Bo gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
"Killing", "Journey to the West: Demon Suppression", "Looking for the Dragon", "Dear", "Once Upon a Time in Qingdao" and "Crazy Alien" made him stand out in the film industry step by step.
He understands that if he wants to gain the respect of others, he still depends on his own strength. He finally relied on his talent and hard work to obtain thousands of stars.
In addition, Huang Bo's enthusiasm for public welfare, concern for the disadvantaged, and low-key work have won widespread praise.
Huang Bo is a role model for young people to have the courage to pursue their dreams, and it also shows the importance of interpersonal communication, especially when living in a group, being able to speak.
Success is not achieved overnight, I wish everyone who has a dream can persist in working hard, and one day can stand tall enough to realize their dreams.