My New Year's diary is rotten! Reflect on your experiences and feelings during the Chinese New Year
My Chinese New Year's Eve swing diary.
The old saying is famous. However, for me this one likes"Put on a show"Chinese New Year doesn't seem so much to look forward to. Especially in this era of material abundance and information, the significance of the Spring Festival seems to have been diluted and become dispensable.
However, I still have to follow the traditional customs to buy New Year's goods in advance, clean up, hang Spring Festival couplets, and hang lanterns. These seemingly boring things make me feel an inexplicable pressure. Especially when it comes to cleaning, I can't help but think of my mother's busy figure when I was a child, and I can only play on the sidelines, waiting for the arrival of the new year.
After a busy week, it finally ushered in Chinese New Year's Eve. As usual, I sat at the table, looking at the table full of delicacies, but without a trace of appetite. I heard the sound of fireworks outside the window, but I thought it was a bit loud. My family sat around talking and laughing, but I was like a stranger, unable to fit in.
I know it's not normal. I should feel happy and satisfied, after all, this is the warmth and joy that is rare when the family is together. However, I couldn't shake off this wavering state of mind, as if everything had become uneventful.
So I started looking for why. Is it because there is too much pressure at work that I can't relax? Is it that the pace of life is too fast, so that I lose the ability to cherish the present? Or am my expectations for the Chinese New Year too high, causing the reality to not match expectations?
Thinking about it, I suddenly remembered a sentence:"Life is like a journey, you don't have to care about the destination, you only care about the scenery along the way. "Perhaps, I should change my mentality, and stop treating the New Year as a chore and a burden, but as a process of enjoying happiness and relaxation.
So, I started trying to change. I no longer force myself to do boring things, but choose to do what I love. I started listening, watching movies, and reading books to immerse myself in my own world. I also started chatting with my family and sharing each other's lives and moods in order to better integrate into the family environment.
This change makes me feel relaxed and at ease. I no longer feel stressed and constrained, but enjoy every moment of the moment. I began to enjoy the sound of firecrackers outside the window and felt the strong smell of the New Year. I also began to savor the delicious food on the table and enjoy the pleasure that the food brought me.
In the process, I also discovered the true meaning of the Spring Festival. The Spring Festival is not only a traditional custom and celebration, but also an emotional exchange and family cohesion. At this special moment, we can let go of the pressure of work and life and enjoy warmth and happiness with our families. We can reminisce about the past, look forward to the future, and share each other's lives and moods. This kind of emotional exchange and cohesion makes us cherish each other's existence and companionship even more.
I have come to realize that Chinese New Year's Eve is not a burden or a chore, but a pleasant and relaxing process. We don't have to pay too much attention to those boring customs and traditions, but we should focus on our own inner needs and feelings. Only by relaxing and enjoying the moment can we truly feel the meaning and value of the Spring Festival.
In retrospect, my Chinese New Year's Eve ornament diary may have been a bit pretentious and grumbling. However, it was these reflections and reflections that made me more deeply aware of the true meaning and value of the Spring Festival. It also made me realize that no matter how fast the pace of life is and how stressful the work is, we must maintain a grateful and cherished heart in order to feel and enjoy all the good times in life.
So, whether you are busy or relaxed, happy or lost, I hope you can find your own happiness and fulfillment this New Year. I also hope that you can cherish every person and moment around you, and thank these people and these moments to make your life richer and more exciting.
Finally, I hope everyone can spend a warm and happy Chinese New Year's Eve, let all the ups and downs of emotions and troubles drift away with the wind, leaving only good memories and touches.
My New Year's swing diary.