In this age of "topics flying all over the world", sex is undoubtedly a high-profile focus. But when it comes to the place of sex in life, it's really "a lot of opinions". Today, let's listen to a "tell the truth" from 3 middle-aged men and women!
Mr. Li, aged 44.
Mr. Li is a business executive, after years of hard work, he has a house and a car in Shenzhen, and his life is relatively comfortable. He bluntly stated that sex is like a spice of life for him. "But I found that sex is not the whole of life, it is just a part of life, like spices, which can make life more flavorful. Now that I am more focused on emotional communication with my partner, sex is no longer the key factor that dominates our relationship. ”
In the end, Mr. Li said seriously: "Sex can make feelings sweeter." But at the end of the day, it's just a small part of life, like spices, and it can't be eaten as a meal. ”
Ms. Wang, aged 40.
This middle-aged woman is a middle school teacher who met her husband when she was studying in college, and stayed in Hainan to work together after graduation, with a harmonious husband and wife and a happy family. She likens sex to desserts. "When I was younger, I used to think of sex as the whole of my life, like indulging in desserts. But as time went on, I began to realize that while sex is beautiful, it doesn't solve all of life's problems. Just like desserts, too much intake can lead to nutritional imbalances. Now I am more concerned about mutual understanding and respect with my partner, and sex is only a part of our relationship, not the whole thing. ”
Ms. Wang smiled and made an analogy: "Sex, it is like a 'dessert' in life, adding some fun to life." But who says you can't have a snack outside of a meal? Family, career, children, ......These are my 'main meals'. ”
Mr. Zhang, aged 41.
Mr. Zhang, a staff member of a public institution, spoke with a calm and breezy appearance: "Sex, this is a 'multiple-choice question', not a mandatory question. It's true that some people prefer 'heart-to-heart communication' and some people prefer 'hands-on'. ”
He likened sex to being both a spice and a dessert in life. "In our married life, sex is like a spice that makes our lives more flavorful. At the same time, it is also like a dessert that brings us pleasure and satisfaction. However, we understand better that sex is not the whole of life, what we need is a partnership that supports and understands each other. Therefore, we will appropriately control the need for sexuality so that it becomes a part of our lives, not the whole thing. ”
Through this "telling the truth", it is not difficult for us to find that the role of sex in life is really "varied". But no matter what you think about sex, don't forget to add a bit of "humor" to it, after all, life is serious enough, isn't it? In real life, let's stop "making a big fuss" about this topic, be relaxed, rational, and have a little more humor, that's a kind of happiness!
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