In the back of my memory, it was an ordinary and warm family. My name is Li Yuqing, an ordinary girl with an extraordinary experience. My parents, the pillars of the Li family, are not rich in their marriage, but their marriage has always been a model in my heart.
When I was a child, my family was not wealthy, but my parents always worked hard to give me a warm home. Mom was an ordinary housewife who worked hard every day to make a great dinner for us. Dad is an ordinary worker, although the income is meager, but he always smiles and silently dedicates himself to the family.
In such a family, I learned to be industrious, tolerant, and loving. Although our parents did not have a mountain of money, they took care of our growth. They used their marriage to teach me the good qualities that a person should have.
Over time, I grew up and had a family of my own. When faced with the choice of marriage, I know that money is not the only measure of family happiness. What I hope to find is the kind of family that can walk together despite the ups and downs in life.
So, I started to pay attention to my friends around me and observe the various families. One day, I met a boy named Zhang Lei at a party. Although his family does not have a mansion or a famous car, their laughter and warmth permeate the space. Zhang Lei introduced me to his parents, who were a gray-haired couple from childhood to gray. Their marriage has gone through ups and downs, but it is still like glue.
In my relationship with Zhang Lei, I found that he learned from his parents how to understand and tolerate each other. Whenever there is a conflict, they always listen patiently and communicate rationally, rather than arguing impulsively. I was deeply touched by this and strengthened my expectations for marriage.
Time flies, and Zhang Lei and I entered the palace of marriage. In our little family, the teachings of our parents became our common creed. Although there are all kinds of difficulties in life, we have learned to face them together and get through them with love and understanding.
The days after marriage are not all smooth sailing, but it is these trivialities and challenges that make us understand each other more deeply. Whenever night falls, I will sit in front of the window with Zhang Lei and recall the bits and pieces of my family. We laughed and talked about the past and lamented the impermanence of fate, but we firmly believed that it was a happy and correct decision to choose a family that was understanding, tolerant and accompanied by each other.
Therefore, I would like to tell all women who are about to enter marriage not to pursue external material things too much, but to focus on the qualities of the other person and the atmosphere of the family. Finding a partner who knows how to tolerate and understand you, and choosing a warm and ordinary family is the true way to happiness. The ups and downs in life are temporary, but a stable family is the sustenance of a lifetime.