When a wife is betrayed by her husband, it must be difficult for her to accept. Some wives will make a lot of noise; Some wives will find psychologists and emotional experts to help them, so as to reduce some psychological pain; Some wives also hurt themselves secretly. At first, these are normal reactions, but I hope that the sisters must not consume themselves for a long time.
I met a woman who found out that her husband had a new love outside, but he wouldn't admit it. Said it was just drinking with the woman, and it was all a large group of people drinking together. Sometimes, even if the wife sees the ambiguous information and doesn't come home at midnight or even at night, the man still doesn't admit that he cheated. Sometimes he is ashamed to say to his wife: How can I find that kind of person to be my wife, my wife can only be like you. Then, go out and play. The wife believed her husband and believed that she was his only "wife". Just, did she really believe it? In fact, otherwise, she found a psychiatrist (expert) on the Internet for consultation, and people tricked her to pay this fee and that, using nearly 3,000 yuan, and as a result, she still suffered from insomnia and gained and lost. She went to find a traditional Chinese medicine for conditioning, but the effect was not very great, and then she directly relied on sleeping pills to assist sleep. She had to go to the hospital almost every week, and it was either painful here or uncomfortable there. I told her that you should have a mental health problem and relax. I give her three opinions:
First, if you really can't stand it, you will divorce;
Second, if you don't want to divorce, then turn a blind eye and leave him alone;
Thirdly, either he plays and you play.
She told me that the divorce was afraid that the child would be affected by the divorce, and the child would graduate from college soon, and she was afraid that it would affect his job search, and she was also worried that people who would find a daughter-in-law in the future would dislike him as a divorced family.
Second, she may not be able to turn a blind eye because she is really angry and sad, but she doesn't want to make trouble, which will make her husband unable to raise his head in the unit;
Thirdly, she said that she was a traditional woman and that she could not play like her husband.
I said, my play is to let you go out and walk more, do what you like, fill yourself up, and don't always focus on that man.
She said yes "mm-hmm".
After a while, she called me ** and said that she had a slight cerebral hemorrhage and was angry with her husband. Fortunately, he is recovering well.
Once a person walks into a dead end, no matter how much she is persuaded to turn around, even if you try to pull her, she may not come out with you. Exhausted himself out of illness, and her husband still plays with his own, do you say that you are chilling? Women, at all times, should be kind to themselves. Don't always be like a resentful woman, exhausting yourself, your heart is tired, your body is tired, it's not worth it at all.