The curse of the past, "cutting off children and grandchildren", is now a voluntary practice
Preface. In the traditional Chinese concept, inheritance is a very important means of inheritance, and "cutting off children and grandchildren" is recognized as the most vicious curse. However, in modern times, there has been an increasing number of cases of losing children and grandchildren, and the family idea of voluntarily giving up childbearing has become more and more popular. Through the analysis of this problem, the deep motivation of its production and the profound social connotation contained in it, this article guides people to deeply reflect on the traditional thinking in modern society.
Traditional ideas and practical choices.
In the old villages, "giving birth to a boy" was an honorable thing, and if there was no boy in the family, he would be ridiculed and ostracized by the whole society. However, with the development of the times, the status of women has been rising, and people have rethought the traditional concept of childbearing. Many people know that they don't have enough money, but they still decide not to have children because they feel that having a girl is enough. People's free choice of fertility philosophy reflects people's consideration of their own interests and interests. Modern society has shifted from blindly having children to making more reasonable choices based on their actual situation, and finding a balance between ideals and reality.
Extended reading: Modern human beings' understanding of fertility has changed greatly. More families are recognizing that the number of children does not represent their happiness and joy. Due to financial constraints, some families choose to give up reproduction and raise more of their current children in order to seek higher education and quality. The reason why families are "cut off" is not entirely because they are oppressed by society, they are more concerned about their own quality of life and the level of education of their children. The modern idea of "doing something and not doing something" reflects the rationality and responsibility of individuals when making choices.
Celibacy and social impressions.
Due to urbanization and the rapid pace of life, many young people tend to be single. Some people are willing to have children even if they can, but they still adopt the "dink" way, that is, not having children. It breaks through people's inherent thinking about "inheritance" and arouses people's worries and questions about the issue of "singles". In the past, country bachelors were often considered "surplus", but nowadays, the choice of celibacy, whether voluntarily or passively, has led to a change in people's perceptions of marriage.
Read more: In modern society, celibacy is a common phenomenon. Under various social and survival pressures, many people have begun to break away from the traditional family structure and live independently. Especially for some young people, they don't have to have children for their growth and development. Some families are even more "Dink", and "inheritance" is no longer regarded as "unfilial piety", but as a reasonable embodiment of family planning and personal growth. The prevalence of celibacy is a sign of the development of an era, and it is also the inevitable result of the development of individual personality.
Resource allocation and survival demands.
In modern society, people pay more attention to the quality of life and self-growth than simply passing on the family lineage. With the continuous improvement of the people's material and cultural level, the people are paying more and more attention to their own happiness and spiritual happiness. Under such circumstances, many families have made their own decisions, abandoning the traditional concept of "passing on the family lineage" and paying more attention to personal emotions and life pursuits. How to rationally allocate resources and improve the quality of life is a major measurement index of the value of life and happiness in modern society.
With the continuous development of human beings, human beings have higher and higher demand for quality of life and resource allocation. The traditional idea of "passing on the family lineage" has gradually given way to the well-being of the individual and the pursuit of life. Many families recognize that having children is not just an obligation, but an ongoing happiness. How to carry out scientific planning for newborns under the condition of limited resources, so that all family members can get happiness and happiness, is a common choice of all countries in the world today. The growth and well-being of the individual is becoming more and more important, and the concept of "cutting off children and grandchildren" is becoming more and more real.
Brief summary. The traditional curse of "cutting off children and grandchildren" is no longer appropriate in today's society, and modern people's views on fertility are more rational and practical. With the improvement of human understanding, human reproduction is no longer just a simple task of "passing on the ancestry", but a kind of personal happiness and the continuation of the quality of life. "Doing something and not doing something" has gradually evolved into a major criterion for contemporary families and individuals to choose to have children, and its changes reflect the continuous development of social value orientation and the rational reflection of individual interests. In the course of future development, we hope that, on the basis of inheriting and carrying forward the national spirit, we will better meet the needs of the times and achieve coordinated development between the individual and society.