In the long history of China, there are many touching stories that continue to influence us, educate us, and make us understand what love, friendship, and family affection are. Speaking of friendship, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind must be the "Taoyuan Three Knots", which is also the kind of friendship that I admire the most. The story takes place during the Three Kingdoms period in China, where Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei become brothers in the peach orchard, and they vow to work together to help the country in distress and live and die together. This deep friendship not only attracted wide attention at the time, but also has been praised by people in later generations. So, how do we make friendship deeply rooted in the hearts of the people?
The author believes that first of all, we should have a common goal. In the story of "Taoyuan Three Knots", although Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei have different backgrounds and different growth environments, they all have a common goal, that is, the ambition to fight for the stability of the country and the happiness of the people. Their friendship was built on the basis of this common goal. Therefore, when we build friendship, we must also find common goals, so that the friendship can be deepened.
Second, we need to have a common experience. In the story of "Taoyuan Three Knots", Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei experienced many things together, fought side by side, and shared happiness and pain together. These shared experiences have brought them closer together and deeper friendships. Therefore, when we build friendship, we must also have common experiences, so that friendship can be more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
However, it is not an easy task to make friendship ingrained in the hearts of the people. In modern society, people's life rhythm is getting faster and faster, there is less and less communication between people, and there are more and more kinds of **. Under such circumstances, how do we make friendship deeply rooted in the hearts of the people?
Personally, I think that if we want to gain precious friendship, we must do three things well:
First, we need to be respectful of others. In the story of "Taoyuan Three Knots", Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei all respect each other's wishes and choices. They respected Liu Bei's choice, Guan Yu's bravery, and Zhang Fei's strength. This respect makes their friendship deeper. Therefore, when we establish friendship, we must also respect others, so that friendship can be more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Second, we need to care for others. In the story of "Taoyuan Three Knots", Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei all care about each other. They cared about Liu Bei's body, Guan Yu's safety, and Zhang Fei's life. This kind of care makes their friendship deeper. Therefore, when we build friendship, we should also care about others, so that friendship can be more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Third, we need to be honest with others. In the story of "Taoyuan Three Knots", Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei are all very honest. They don't deceive each other, they don't hide the facts, they don't do things that betray each other. This kind of honesty allows them to be honest with each other and trust each other. Therefore, when we build friendship, we must also be honest with others, so that friendship can be more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Friendship can bring joy, comfort, and strength to people, and is a very valuable asset in life. For friendship to take root in people's hearts, we need to have common goals, common experiences, respect for others, care for others, and be honest with others. Only in this way can our friendship be deeper and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Hopefully, we all have a deep-seated friendship that supports and understands each other in our most difficult moments.