In 2010, Ma Nuo became popular overnight because of a sentence he said in the blind date show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle".
Despite a rough start, Mano later managed to transform into an actor and entered showbiz, where he filmed several films and TV series.
In January 2023, Mano got married in a hurry, fulfilling the prophecy of "sitting in a BMW and crying". However, she later revealed that she was subjected to 7 domestic violence by her husband within half a year of marriage and had filed a divorce lawsuit.
However, the man also seems to have something to say, claiming that he "does not want to be splashed with dirty water". What happened between these two men that caused them to turn against each other now?
Mano Mano participated in a variety show.
In 2010, in her early twenties, Mano participated in the high-profile blind date show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", when she was a graphic model.
Mano attracted many male guests and the attention of many viewers in the show with her beautiful face, hot body and unique language style.
She is known on the show for her sharp eloquence and poisonous tongue. The most impressive thing is her "BMW said", netizens concluded that she is a representative of the economic base that determines the superstructure.
Mano made no secret of his yearning for "money", "wealth" and "marrying into a wealthy family" in the show, and ruthlessly rejected many male guests from the beginning because they "had no money", "no car" and "no real estate".
Her blunt rhetoric attracted many viewers, who thought Mano was frank and unpretentious. However, there are also many people who feel that her behavior is too money-conscious, which has tarnished the image of her marriage.
Despite what others think, Ma Nuo has attracted a large number of fans and a lot of endorsement businesses with the popularity of the show.
2010 can be said to be a year of prosperity in Ma Nuo's career, after he successfully accumulated wealth and fame, he resolutely transformed into the entertainment industry, released his personal ** and starred in many movies and TV series, and gained a lot.
As the show progressed, Mano attracted the anger of many male guests because of his frequent use of "BMW said", the most striking time was that he was dumbfounded by male guests.
She was angrily reprimanded by the other party, accusing her of not considering the actual situation, thinking that this show does not need a female guest like her. Mano burst into tears of emotion and left the scene angrily.
Then, she emphasized on the Internet that she was here to seriously find a partner, and not just to earn attention as the male guest said.
On the show, a male guest was furious.
Mano explained the remarks of "BMW said", which she expressed very vaguely on the grounds of "non-disclosure agreements". Either way, however, she revealed a message: I had been deceived, and my words were not meant to be.
Perhaps because of the criticism, Mano successfully held hands with a male guest with good economic conditions in the later show, and gradually faded out of the public eye, diverting his energy to his career.
It is only when you reach a certain level of your own level that you can reach a higher level of people, as the saying goes: "The higher you stand, the nobler the people you come into contact with." ”
In the entertainment industry, there are many things that are difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood, and we can only explore some clues from Mano's experience.
Mano was born in Beijing, where land is at a premium, but her family was not wealthy, and her parents made a living selling fruit. In this city with a high level of consumption, Mano had a very difficult childhood and lived an extremely frugal life.
Due to her family's financial constraints, she kept her hair in small hairstyles when she was a child, which could reduce the frequent care of her hair.
Due to financial difficulties, Mano wears not very decent clothes and looks a little inferior in front of his classmates, unable to straighten his body.
She was later admitted to university with her own efforts, and because of her tall figure and good looks, she became a graphic model and began to live a self-supporting life.
Through these years, Mano has learned that the idea that "material things matter" is not unreasonable. In fact, from a practical point of view, material things do play an important role in life, as the proverb says, "poor and lowly couples mourn everything".
However, Mano still has a longing for love and a happy family in his heart.
In 2018, Mano publicly clarified on his social platform, saying that his speech at that time was arranged by the program team, and he hoped that he would not be bothered by this matter again in the future.
However, in the virtual world, people still only remember her "famous quote".
In any case, Mano must have grown quite a bit in the past ten years, she has learned to deal with external interference and live a life that she is satisfied with, and it doesn't matter what others say.
Mano released his wedding photos in January 2023, announcing that he was married. She seemed very happy at the time, but just when everyone thought that a new chapter in her story was about to begin, there was an unexpected reversal.
Mano's husband broke the news in October accusing her of cheating on marriage and money, but Mano denied the claim and claimed that he was the victim. She revealed that she suffered seven domestic violence in the first six months of her marriage.
The man fell in love with her at first sight in a live broadcast of Mano, and angrily swiped 200,000 gifts to become her big brother, and soon married Mano in a flash. This pair of resentful couples, you come and go, and I don't give in to each other.
According to his own account, he was already married when he gave the gift to Mano, and Mano also had a boyfriend. Both chose to abandon their original partners to be together.
As soon as *** Mano immediately became the target of public criticism, netizens flocked to his social platform account to leave comments.
Mano could only helplessly explain the cause and effect of the incident.
She thought she had found true love, but she didn't expect to fall into the bottomless abyss. After marriage, not only do you have to rely on your pre-marital property to support your living expenses, but you also need to help your husband pay off her debts. In just eight months, the marriage came to an end.
After her divorce, she also had to face accusations from the man, including cheating on marriage and property. After the man claimed to have transferred nearly 300,000 yuan to Mano, he was slandered by Mano.
Mano posted an article listing evidence, pointing out that the man was full of lies and claimed that he was the victim.
She claimed that she did not know that the husband had accumulated a large amount of foreign debts before marriage, and that the property of nearly 300,000 yuan was left after she sold the property to pay off the debts.
After only half a year of marriage, she suffered from her husband's continuous domestic violence, and the child was not born due to fetal arrest. She had called the police to her neighbors, and the police advised her to get a divorce as soon as possible.
Although the man was reluctant to divorce, he frequently appeared downstairs at Mano's residence, which forced him to move three times. Due to the man's various behaviors, Mano has now applied to the court for a writ of habeas corpus.
During this time, Mano was interviewed by a web blogger.
Mano feared that she would suffer more gossip after the divorce because of her previous money-worshipping remarks, but she knew that the marriage could not continue, and she resolutely decided to divorce.
She once again explained the reason for saying "BMW remarks" on the show, she just wanted to reject the male guest as soon as possible and end the job. At the same time she expressed this.
When asked by the blogger whether Mano is now "crying while sitting in a BMW or laughing on a bicycle", Mano replied that he is now "crying on a bicycle" and has neither money nor happiness.
She also mentioned that she was suffering from depression and was not in a good mental state, and that she was eager to get a writ of habeas corpus as soon as possible.
The blogger also asked Mano for advice on someone who is experiencing domestic violence.
Be sure to tell your relatives and friends, be sure to seek help from the police, find a professional lawyer, refuse to be PUA by the other party, and don't feel that domestic violence is your fault. Mano stressed that these steps are crucial after experiencing domestic violence.
At the end of the interview, Mano said that before she got married, she had thought that she was old enough to get married, so she should follow the trend and get married. It wasn't until after the divorce that she realized that marriage wasn't inevitable.
She had come to the point of divorce, but she felt unusually relaxed. Now 35 years old, Mano really realizes what he wants.
Mano made public the chat history of the man's threats against him.
In the comment section of this interview, it is inevitable that many people will still ridicule Mano as a woman who pursues money and eats her own evil consequences, just to gain attention and hype.
There are also many people in the comment area who support Ma Nuo's divorce, believing that Ma Nuo was subjected to domestic violence, which is the man's mistake.
Only the parties involved can truly understand the truth of the facts, and we can only get a glimpse of the situation from the information they reveal to each other.
After all these changes, Mano finally realized that he was only 35 years old and had a long way to go. As for the final outcome of this turmoil, time will give them the answer.
According to Ma Nuo's money-worshipping remarks, whether it is for the effect of the show or not, this view conveys an extremely undesirable view of marriage and love to the public.
Our current criticism of "money worshippers" lies in the fact that they mistakenly believe that they can change their lives by relying on the wealth of others, and although they look glamorous on the surface, they are actually empty on the inside. After all, what you don't work hard for yourself won't last a lifetime.
Material things are the foundation of life, but marriage is not used to achieve the so-called "class leap", but a healthy relationship based on feelings, which requires mutual support, mutual respect, mutual appreciation and mutual trust.
Economic conditions are a consideration, but not essential, when choosing a future partner. More importantly, the character and ability of the other party should be prioritized.
There is a saying on the Internet: "I am looking for a partner who is not good-looking and full of potential, but someone who is very good in his own right", and this sentence applies to both men and women.
This type of person has a firm attitude towards the bottom line and principles, and no matter what happens to the couple, they will seek a solution to the problem under the premise of respect.
On the issue of "domestic violence", we now need to have an understanding, that is, regardless of men and women, those who commit domestic violence can never be forgiven, and "domestic violence only exists zero and countless times".
If a person can hit his lover with a fist or slap without hesitation, it shows that the person's moral concept and bottom line are very low, and I am afraid that he is not suitable to continue to spend the rest of his life together.
Many people who suffer from domestic violence now choose not to divorce, perhaps for the sake of their reputation or for the sake of property, but these are dwarfed by their own lives.
Why let yourself suffer so much in this short life? Time flies, and let's stop suffering.
In the end, I sincerely wish everyone that they can meet their favorite partner, find their own happiness, and live a stable and stable life.
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