Dictation: Chu Jun.
Author: Xiaoya.
If you dare to let her come to the house again, you will leave me, and I will divorce you, and I don't even want you. Your mother Liu is good to you, and she actually raised such a white-eyed wolf as you. ”
On the twenty-ninth day of the lunar month, my wife angrily kicked my mother out of the house, demanding that she leave immediately, not to stay at home for the New Year, and not to come to the house in the future, and scolded me.
My own mother refused to leave, crying and making trouble, looking at my angry wife, looking at Liu's mother sitting on the sofa without saying a word, I felt a headache and didn't know what to do.
I am 31 years old and have two mothers, one is my own mother, the one who sprinkled in front of everyone, and the other is my stepmother, and my wife and I keep calling her Mama Liu.
Thirty-four years ago, my dad was 28 years old and married to my own mom. You know, at that time, people generally got married early, especially in rural areas, and both men and women probably got married around the age of 20.
The reason why my dad got married so late was because of poor family conditions. My grandfather left early, my dad was raised by my grandma and aunt, and my dad has an older brother who is two years older than him.
My grandmother and aunt were frugal, worked hard to save money, and with my aunt's dowry money, they successfully married my uncle a daughter-in-law, and they also spent all their savings, and my father's marriage was delayed.
In order to marry a daughter-in-law, my father went out to work for eight years, saved money, and returned to his hometown to talk about family affairs. Because he was old and didn't save much money, he didn't have the right to pick and choose, so he married my own mother, who had already been married for a while.
In the third year after marriage, my own mother gave birth to me, originally, the life of the family was quite happy, my grandmother and my father never disliked my own mother for getting married, and I have always been very good to my own mother.
When I was two years old, my dad took my own mom out to work and entrusted me to my grandmother's care. Unexpectedly, two years later, the two came back and asked for a divorce.
My grandmother didn't understand what was going on and asked them what was wrong, and the two of them insisted on their own words, one said that my own mother turned her elbow out and used his hard-earned money to subsidize her mother's family, and the other flatly denied it, saying that my father had a good relationship outside and wanted to abandon her.
Since my mother's first divorce was related to her mother's family, and after they divorced, my mother's family came to make trouble many times, asking my father to give divorce compensation and smashed my house, so everyone thought that it was my mother's fault.
They quarreled for more than a year, and finally when I was almost six years old, the two of them ended their marriage, my own mother took almost all the valuable things in the house, and I lost it to my grandparents and my father.
At that time, I was still young and didn't understand what was going on, and when I heard my relatives say that my own mother didn't want me anymore, I cried and ran over, begging me not to leave me, but my real mother still shook off my hand and walked away, and I didn't appear in front of me again for 12 years.
After my parents divorced, my dad went out to work again, and I was still taken care of by my grandparents. At that time, I ran to my mother's house and begged my grandparents to return my mother, and was punched and kicked by them several times, and was abused by them with unbearable words, but my mother never appeared, and I don't know where to go.
Later, my mother's family moved away, and I couldn't find them anymore, so I had to give up.
When I was 11 years old, my dad remarried and married his co-worker. At first, I was very reluctant to treat my stepmother, and I was reluctant to call her mom, let alone deal with the sister brought by my stepmother.
Later, as time went by, and my stepmother was really good to me, my grandmother persuaded me again and again, and I gradually accepted my stepmother and began to call her Mama Liu.
With the support of my whole family, I completed my studies and was admitted to a 211 university. It was also when I was admitted to university that I met my biological mother after a 12-year absence.
My own mother found the university where I was, and when she saw me, she hugged me and cried, saying sorry to me, saying that it was not that she didn't want me back then, but that she had no money and was afraid that she would not be able to support me, and her mother's family would not let her want me.
I still miss my own mother very much, after all, blood dissolves in water, she is my biological mother, and I can't blame her to the end. In this way, I kept in touch with my own mother.
Five years ago, I got married, and when I had my wedding, she gave me a problem, she wanted to attend my wedding and drink my wife's tea with my dad.
Originally, I thought that it was not impossible for the three of them to attend the wedding together and drink tea, but my own mother actually made a request that made me feel incredible: "Don't let your stepmother come up, just me and your father." You weren't born to her, why should she drink your tea? ”
Fortunately, I thought about it for a while, felt that it was not appropriate, and rejected my own mother. My own mother made a fuss for a long time, but I didn't let go, and finally she got angry and didn't even come to my wedding, which made me feel lonely.
A year later, my wife was pregnant, I thought that my mother had not remarried since the divorce, and had no other children, and she would have to rely on me to support her in the future, and she needed to deal with my wife.
However, she refused: "Don't you have another mother?" Don't you want me? Then you ask her to take the baby, why are you looking for me? ”
I persuaded my mother for a long time, but my mother was indifferent, which made me feel helpless, and my wife had more opinions about her.
In the end, it was my aunt who reached out and took my grandmother away, and Liu's mother took the time to come to my house to help me take care of the children and serve my wife in confinement.
My wife and Liu's mother rarely chat, and the relationship is as close as a mother and daughter, so that after my mother-in-law saw it, she was not less jealous, but when it came to my mother, my wife didn't have a good face.
Half a month ago, my mother called me, saying that I was too bored to celebrate the New Year alone, and I missed my grandson and wanted to come to my house for the New Year.
At first, my wife felt that it was inappropriate, the reason was that my mother lived under the same roof with my father and stepmother, which would be very embarrassing, but I really couldn't bear to let my mother celebrate the New Year alone, and after repeated persuasion, Mother Liu saw this and said: "No matter what, she is Chu Jun's biological mother, giving Chu Jun life, and it is nothing to come for the New Year, and it is more lively to have one more person." ”
As Liu's mother said, the house is very lively, just because after my own mother came, I didn't know what kind of wind to smoke, and I kept looking at Liu's mother unpleasantly, and always looked for trouble with Liu's mother.
Since she came to my house, she has trained this and that, saying that my dad is lazy, that my dad has a brain problem, and that's it, how she thinks of Liu's mother how unpleasant, she can trouble her three times a day.
For example, because of her long-term work, Liu's mother has developed the habit of going to bed early and getting up early, even if she comes to my house to take the baby.
The New Year is approaching, Liu's mother gets up every morning, she will clean up and clean the house, in fact, she has tried her best to slow down so as not to disturb us, I have no opinion with my wife, but my own mother doesn't know whether her ears are too sensitive or deliberately looking for trouble with Liu's mother, not to say that Liu's mother is moving loudly and noisy her.
At noon, my mother never cooked, and the meals of the whole family were cooked by Liu's mother alone, as a result, my mother either thought that the dish was salty, or that the dish was light, and ate a fish and said that it was stuck by a fish bone, and ate a meat that said that the meat stew was not bad enough, and then chattered.
In the afternoon, they played with the child, because the child was brought up by Liu's mother, and she had only seen my own mother once before, so the child was subconsciously close to Liu's mother, and was unwilling to let my mother hug her, so my mother was not happy.
She ran to me and cried, saying that Liu's mother was talking badly about her in her granddaughter's ear, and Liu's mother said that she didn't, and the two of them quarreled so much that it gave me a headache.
When my wife saw the messy scene, she couldn't bear it anymore and was angry at me: "Do you have a conscience? Over the years, how much Mama Liu has paid for this family and how much she has paid for you, don't you know? You look at this woman who has left you for 12 years and doesn't ask, and waits until you are an adult and wants you to retire before she comes to bully your stepmother and is indifferent, isn't it too unconscionable? ”
After saying that, my wife kicked my own mother out of the house, saying that my real mother actually dared to bully her mother-in-law under her nose, and she didn't take her seriously, and yelled at me: "If you dare to help her say a word, let her come to the house, we will divorce, and I don't want you anymore." Either she rolls, or you all roll together. ”
After that, my wife didn't bother to talk to us, closed the door, locked me and my own mother out, and I calmed down.
I thought about how my own mother had ignored me for 12 years, even if I didn't want to admit it, but she didn't come to me until I was admitted to university, and the purpose was self-evident.
Perhaps, it was because I was kidnapped by the grace of childbirth, kidnapped by filial piety, and did not handle the relationship between my own mother and my stepmother, which made my own mother so arrogant and went to my stepmother for trouble.
In the end, I told my mother my thoughts: "Mom, you gave birth to me, there is no doubt about it, you will always be my mother, I will give you a pension, you can rest assured." However, my dad and you are divorced, and now that my stepmother is my dad's legal wife, you don't want to go to my house to join in the fun. You go back first, and when you need someone to take care of you, I'll rent you a house and I'll take care of you. ”
My mother's face was full of reluctance, but I didn't want to deal with her, and when I didn't want to help her anymore, she had to scold and leave.
When I returned home, I wanted to apologize to Liu's mother, but Liu's mother stopped me and said that she didn't blame me, which made me feel even more guilty, so I had to tell myself in my heart that I must be kind to Liu's mother, and I can't let Liu's mother feel cold anymore.
end.Today's topic: Do you have any good advice for Chu Jun? Feel free to share your views in the comments section.