Today, I brushed up on a short **, which is about the topic of family inheritance. The blogger felt the social phenomenon of continuous decline in the number of births and negative population growth, and thought about it and interpreted it in depth.
* It's relatively long, more than eight minutes, maybe the point in it coincides with me, I read it and repeat it.
* The blogger asked: Why are young people nowadays reluctant to get married and have children?
Some people blame the pressures of real life, such as high housing prices, low incomes, and can't afford to support them.
But why are people born in the 60s and 70s willing to have children? Was life better then than it is now? Or was it more abundant then than it is now?
I don't think so, twenty or thirty years ago there was a shortage of material things, and life was difficult. And because the country practices family planning, it is recommended that a couple have only one child. But many people would rather be superborn guerrillas, hide in the east, and have a few children. Feeding these children is also very stressful, and it is no exaggeration to say that it is much more difficult than feeding a few children now.
So why are people living well nowadays reluctant to get married and have children? In fact, because of cognitive problems, many of China's fine traditional cultures have been abandoned and even despised. Having many children and blessings, raising children to prevent old age, and several generations living together is regarded as the dregs of culture. Today's young people, in the name of living in the present, pursue the ultimate happiness, boys are becoming more and more sissy, and girls pursue extreme feminism. are unwilling to pay for their families, unwilling to get married, and unwilling to have children.
What I can't understand the most is that many people get married and don't have children, and when they get old, they raise a few pet dogs, which are closer to their children and more filial than their parents. In fact, it is because I am lonely when I am old, and I have no children to accompany me, so I can only raise a few pets to pass the boring time. It's actually a bit sad to think about.
Let's not talk about raising children to prevent old age, because raising children does not necessarily prevent old age. But children are the continuation of our lives, because they have our blood in them and inherit our genes. Children are the continuation of our lives, and they can make us human beings continue to live and continue.
The next thing I'm going to say is that some people will probably scold me for being patriarchal. I am indeed patriarchal, I am patriarchal because I feel that my son is not only the continuation of my life, but also the inheritance of a family. You may ask, isn't the daughter the inheritance of the family? I can only explain it this way: the daughter is passed on to her husband's family. Just like my daughter-in-law also helps my son's family to pass it on. Of course, men are just as important as women, and if there are no women, men will not be able to pass them on. So in order for his family to pass it on, he had to have a boy. That's what I really think, so I was also a superborn guerrilla at that time, and I only had a son in my third child.
I don't dare to say that I was right, but I don't regret it. In order to feed a few children and provide them with education, it is indeed not easy, and the pressure is also very high, and even a very humble life. But I think I am willing, there is the continuation of life, the inheritance of the family, and the prosperity of the family can have hope. When we get old, if we can see our children and grandchildren, we feel that the hardships we endured when we were young have been rewarded.
Some people may disagree and even scoff at it. But if you don't get married and don't have children, with the aging of society, the issue of old-age care is indeed a real problem in front of you. When you are old, how will you face the decades of loneliness, or how will you complete the last journey of your life?
The above is just a personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.