Seven years ago, about 10 days before my due date, I was waiting for a baby at home in another city not far from my hometown, and every day I longed for the joy of welcoming my little life.
On that morning in the early spring of April, I was the only one at home, I casually looked at the circle of friends, quietly enjoying the good time, and suddenly a message from the circle of friends jumped into my eyes: "The grandmother who loves me the most is gone, I hope the old man will go all the way..."This circle of friends was posted by my sister.,My sister who has the same grandmother as me posted it....
It was like someone gave me a slap in the face, and my first reaction was, what is my sister blind. I just saw my grandmother a while ago, and my body is tough, what are you doing...Tears flowed silently, even though I was still in great doubt, and I was instantly swallowed up by great fear.
I trembled and hurriedly dialed my mother's **, before I got through, I still had a trace of luck, I must have made a mistake, how could it be, what a joke! However, after ** got through, as soon as I said the word grandma, I heard my mother whisper to my sister, how did your sister know?
My sister then remembered: "It's bad, I forgot to block my sister when I posted it on Moments."
Hung up**, I was a little dazed for a while, grandma, love me and love my grandma, I will never have a chance to see again!
Grandma is illiterate, has six brothers and sisters, and she is the youngest and only girl. Her mother said that if the girl didn't have to go to school, she wouldn't be able to go to school. For this, she hated her mother.
It's her turn to be a mother, although the feudal idea of patriarchy is somewhat left, but in the matter of going to school, grandma's concept is to be all colleagues, "Regardless of your son and daughter, you can go hard, and I will provide for you wherever you go!" ”
Whether it is the renovation of the old house, the big and small things in the village, or the personal contacts between the top and bottom, the children getting married, etc., the old lady is very clear. Once my uncle said to my grandmother, "It's a shame that you haven't gone to school, if you did, then it's worth it!" ”
In my memory, when I was in elementary school. Whenever grandma or grandpa celebrates her birthday, she is at home, and that is the most lively scene.
The third aunt and the eldest aunt are in charge, and the rest of the aunts, uncles, my parents, third aunts, uncles, and aunts are all hands-on, some wash vegetables and cut vegetables, some mix cold vegetables, some stew chicken, and some carry big fish in the yard to disembowel and scrape fish scales. As for me, I was responsible for ordering cakes and taking cakes with my aunt, and the two brothers went to the radio station to order songs, and at the appointed time, the radio station ** we gave my grandfather's blessings and birthday songs. My younger siblings followed the adults right after them.
When the dish is ready, you must connect the two long tables and put them away, otherwise you won't be able to sit so many people. Each dish is made in two servings, and from the south to the north, a large family is sitting around the table.
Grandma always said that her nephew was not as good as her own grandson, but she gave birth to seven children, and she helped bring up five families, so she didn't care about any nephew and grandson.
Not long after I was born, my mouth was full of mouth sores, and at that time the medical conditions were poor, and there was nothing to do, I was too young, my mouth hurt, and I cried day and night. Dad was busy with work, so Mom went to live at Grandma's house and carefully fed her every day with Grandma...
When I was about 6 months old, my grandmother accidentally stepped on a watermelon peel in the yard and slipped and broke her right arm. Mom still has to go to work, and she can't take long-term leave from Dad. My grandmother often wore a plaster cast on her right hand, and walked around with me in her left hand.
Grandma often tells us that we should go to school hard, learn more things, and don't keep following others, and have our own brains to take our own ideas, to see the world, and to see the world!
People often say that I am an assertive person, but in fact, it is also because my mother makes me decide many things, and I think that my mother must be influenced by my grandmother in the way she educates her children.
Grandpa is a good-tempered old man, he is used to my grandma in everything, grandma has big ideas and a big temper, and when things don't go well, grandpa can only be that "punching bag". But grandpa never got angry with grandma, and when he was upset by the quarrel, grandpa would only say: "Let's go, let's go, let's go", and went to the yard to find a solution.
After grandma got older, the children grew up and were busy, and the land in the early years had already been taken out, and they had a few words with grandpa inside and outside the house.
After I went to college, I went back to my grandmother's house less often, but every time I had a holiday, I would put my things home and run to my grandmother's house.
Many times, my grandmother was in the community with a few little old ladies in the sun and chatted, and when she saw me coming, she carried Mazha and waited for me to approach, and went home to cook for me. The old lady on the side will say that the eldest niece has come to see grandma again.
After eating, sitting on the edge of the bed, my grandmother made a pot of tea and said to me: how long has the eldest (my aunt) not come back, and the third family (third aunt) has not been back for two months...Or, just snap your fingers and say which child's birthday is coming, and she even remembers my father's birthday, hey, this little old lady.
I told my grandmother about my school, and she didn't understand many things, and she didn't interrupt me.
I miss my grandma again tonight, and when I think of my grandma, I think of the innocent years when I was a child, and the good times I spent with my grandma.
I am a child brought up by my grandmother, how lucky.