Author: Xin Dongfang.
There is nothing set in stone in this world, and people's hearts change anytime and anywhere.
When you understand this law, you will understand: man is an unreliable animal, he is very polite to you today, and he will face you in court tomorrow. When a lot of anger happens, it really refreshes your cognition and really makes you speechless.
Many times, it's not that we are reluctant to approach others, but that once a conflict occurs, the person we know most often becomes your biggest opponent and enemy. The people who are most familiar with you, they understand your weaknesses, and they can only stop you if you have any strength in your body.
The best friend you thought you had, the friend you thought was of the opposite sex, could even send you to prison with your own hands at a critical time. A lot of things you don't want to believe will be validated over time.
Although women are more emotional than men, once a woman finds her next home, she will immediately turn her face to you, and she has no affection at all. You think be nice to a woman and she will remember you. However, people forget about you when they go out. You think that women will always be good to you, that's just your wishful thinking, women are fickle creatures, sometimes they will make you dumbfounded, and make you a little embarrassed that "dumb eats coptis, and you can't say bitterness".
You never know how a kind man could later become so ruthless. A man is heartbroken, chooses to believe again and again, is deceived again and again, and finally consumes all the goodwill. It's not that men don't have friendship, but they are betrayed, desecrated, abandoned, and said to be "stammering".
What are the reasons why women change their minds?
One: Women change their minds because men are not strong enough.
If a man is too poor and even his relatives and friends dislike it, this is not chicken soup, this is reality. When you're poor, no one really cares about you. Because man is a realistic animal, it's hard for anyone to work with you if you don't have enough leverage.
Similarly, if a man has no strength, he will basically have no chance of love.
In the past, they could live a life holding hands, but now the God of Wealth has the final say. In reality, a man has nothing, he simply cannot start a family. Many people persuade you to get married, but you can't bring anything to the other party, you can't give the other party a stable home, why should people follow you? Prince Charming Snow White is only in fairy tales, but in the real world.
Many love separations in this world are due to the fact that one party is not strong enough. A man doesn't dare to fall in love casually because he knows that he is poor and has no confidence, and the woman can't get anything out of it. Men don't embarrass their families, they don't practice themselves, and they simply don't get married.
You must know that marriage requires great costs and costs, and if you don't have enough chips, how can you walk into marriage at will. No matter how good a man is, you can't prove your strength, and women won't enter into marriage with you.
If a man does not have enough strength, his marriage will be unstable. A lot of troubles and helplessness in this world are actually caused by lack of money. As the saying goes: "Poor couples mourn everything." ”
If a family is too poor, he will not be able to deal with the world.
The Tang Dynasty poet Zhang Wei said in "The Master of Chang'anbi": "The world's friends must be **, not too much, not deep." Even if you promise to do so temporarily, you will always be on the road. ”
The interaction between people in this world is value. The greater the value, the greater the chips exchanged. The more powerful a person is, the more willing others are to approach him. When a person is empty-handed, how can you exchange value with others, this is not a fool's dream.
It's not a woman's reality, but our world is a value exchange. If a man is still immersed in love, it can only be said that he is still immature and naïve.
Second, women are inherently sentimental and insecure.
Women are insecure, and even she doesn't know why, maybe this is a state that women are born with.
When there is money, women spend it with a big hand. When there is no money, women still spend money generously, even if they swipe their credit cards, they still can't get rid of the habit of super consumption. They are used to spending money, and they are unwilling to wronged themselves, but they are helpless when it comes to paying off their debts in the end.
Women are strange creatures who always like the superficial and don't delve into the essence behind them. Knowing that it is uncomfortable to pay back, they are still unwilling to break the habit of spending money indiscriminately. Because of the habit of advanced consumption, there will be no more.
Third, women like the strong and like people who are better than themselves.
A woman is a creature of Muqiang, and men should know this. Women don't like cowardly men, and the better the man, the more he can attract women.
When a man is very rich, the woman not only does not spend the man's money, but also spends money for the man and pays for the man. You must know that women especially worship capable men, which is an extreme ** for women. An excellent man is something that women dream of, and once they get it, they hold it tightly in their hands and will not give it up easily.
Both men and women will change their minds, and generally speaking, men will give too much, and if they do not get anything in return, they will slowly snub and stay away from women. But once a woman gives too much, she is unwilling to give up, and even wants to redeem it. Women are a troublesome thing, they like excellent men, but they look down on ordinary men, which is also a common problem of women. earns a salary of 3,000 yuan, but requires the man to earn tens of thousands of dollars a month.
No one is perfect, but women are unreasonable, and if men can't do it, they won't marry.
There are no such simple things in this world, but it is full of various risks and challenges. For marriage, for love, today's men have long been downsized, they earn their own money, and even spend the money on themselves, and they are no longer willing to spend money on women. Because in the end, it's the man who lives alone. Some women have children, but they will still run away with the rich, which is the sadness of men. It's not that men don't want to talk about marriage, it's that marriage hurts them too deeply.
Women change their minds not because they covet glory and wealth, but because they are in nature. Women are fickle and changeable, and this is a common thing. Men do things and have a little feelings, but once a woman turns her face, she is really ruthless.
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